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Author Topic: New at this and need some advice  (Read 1481 times)

Offline Halfy

Hi there, I'm Mark and just joined the site and seeking some advice from you more experienced people, I'm in a sexless marriage and in it for the the kids, so far so normal.
It's been a looooooong while since I've had sex and self love just ain't cutting it anymore, now to get to the point, I need sex but have never punted in my life so any advice on choosing someone, or anyone been in a similar situation and could recommend a particular person Then I would be very grateful, thanks

Offline lovingfacials

Hello,

Where are you in the country?

Have you visited a website called Adultwork - there you can search/select to your hearts desire

Once you have done that read some threads on safety/secuirty etc on here

Hope that helps

Offline smiths

Hi there, I'm Mark and just joined the site and seeking some advice from you more experienced people, I'm in a sexless marriage and in it for the the kids, so far so normal.
It's been a looooooong while since I've had sex and self love just ain't cutting it anymore, now to get to the point, I need sex but have never punted in my life so any advice on choosing someone, or anyone been in a similar situation and could recommend a particular person Then I would be very grateful, thanks

You need to say what area you will be punting in and what type of WG you fancy. Dress sex, services they offer, hair colour, price and so forth.

Offline lovingfacials

Hi there, I'm Mark and just joined the site and seeking some advice from you more experienced people, I'm in a sexless marriage and in it for the the kids, so far so normal.
It's been a looooooong while since I've had sex and self love just ain't cutting it anymore, now to get to the point, I need sex but have never punted in my life so any advice on choosing someone, or anyone been in a similar situation and could recommend a particular person Then I would be very grateful, thanks


Its also an idea not to use your own name or pictures of yourself etc on open forums and share too much info on yourself to ensure your hobby does not damage your home life/kids perecetion of you etc

Just a tip to use or ignore

Offline NIK

Seem to be a lot of newbie's coming out and asking for advice lately.  :rolleyes:

Offline Ali Katt

Seem to be a lot of newbie's coming out and asking for advice lately.  :rolleyes:
Glad I'm not the first to notice this.

Offline NIK

Glad I'm not the first to notice this.

I just wish they'd buy my book!  :D

Offline James999

I just wish they'd buy my book!  :D

Book? have you written a book? you should have mentioned it before  :hi:

Offline AnthG

Seem to be a lot of newbie's coming out and asking for advice lately.  :rolleyes:
It will likely be as its been Valentines day which is one of the most depressing times of year for single people.

Offline NIK

It will likely be as its been Valentines day which is one of the most depressing times of year for single people.

Valentine's day. Yet another thing, like Halloween, that's hyped up to the eyeballs these days.

It just passed me by.

In my local Wetherspoons they were advertising Valentine's day and mother's day. They can't even get one out of the way before pushing another. Then of course we have bloody red nose day next!  thumbsdown:

Offline NIK

It will likely be as its been Valentines day which is one of the most depressing times of year for single people.

You're missing out, James. Great advice for all newbies!  :cool:

Offline haystacks79

It will likely be as its been Valentines day which is one of the most depressing times of year for single people.

I'm single, have been for years, but don't find it (or being single) depressing at all. I'm not a great follower of the idea of Valentine's day anyway, particularly not the over-commercialised major event it's become. If you love someone, you don't need a particular day to show it.

Offline NIK

I'm single, have been for years, but don't find it (or being single) depressing at all. I'm not a great follower of the idea of Valentine's day anyway, particularly not the over-commercialised major event it's become. If you love someone, you don't need a particular day to show it.

Exactly the same with mother's and father's days.

They put the prices up in half the restaurants.  :mad:

Offline lovingfacials

I'm single, have been for years, but don't find it (or being single) depressing at all. I'm not a great follower of the idea of Valentine's day anyway, particularly not the over-commercialised major event it's become. If you love someone, you don't need a particular day to show it.

I tried that with the wife once............darling I dont need one day a year to buy you flowers, when I do it all throughout the year..........

when I woke up from my coma 6 days later (after being flattened by a 11" skillet

Offline haystacks79

when I woke up from my coma 6 days later (after being flattened by a 11" skillet

I'm safe on that score. I don't own a skillet :D

Offline Pinnacle

Halfy / Mark. All I would advise is to read through quite a number of posts on this forum to learn the various traps that people can fall for when it comes to the advertising for online services such as Adultwork (Private gallery scams, Fake profiles, Bait and switch etc).

One of the first good things is to check the authenticity of some of the profile photos, by vetting them with Google Image Search (turn Safe Search off) and TinEye.com.

Both of those are not 100% guarantees that photos are genuine (if somebody scans photos from a magazine for example), but can at least help show up blatant photos that have been grabbed from porn gallerys and escort sites with completely different names and nationalities.

Other things include reading through the text on the profile and looking for things that simply don't add up about the deal (sometimes blatant mistakes about nationality or location can give the game away) or don't sound quite right.

Keep an eye on profiles for a week or so and check out how long ago the profile was created VS any feedback (don't forget to click the feedback tab on a profile, even if it it says 0 feedback as bookings that led to nothing mean the booker can leave a basic feedback, and it can sometimes expose a time waster). Some of these profiles have been around for quite a while, yet have no feedback, and will move their location to an entirely different area of the country every week or so.

If meeting up, keep security / privacy in mind. Parking the car far away and walking in, is something that myself and others do .

An escort can claim whatever they like on a profile, but sometimes it can be different on the day/evening when you meet them as they may not control the profile or even be aware of it. If you see 'all' likes listed on a profile, that is usually a sign for concern about what they 'really' offer, as if they do everything on the Adultwork list then that person is more than open minded to say the least. Most of the genuine girls on there tend to be selective about they will and won't do, and make it known in the profile.

Confirm once and even twice in some form of writing (email/text) about services offered and if there are any further costs (for example, some won't do oral without a condom, or charge extra for it on top of the basic 30/60 minute rate).

I'm sure there is a lot more others can put in here, but those are some to work with.


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