Fuck being called a fluffy. Do what you like.
If you want to take a gift and you've got the dough to splash out then why not.
But my advice would be to give her something that you can enjoy during the meet. I mean I don't know what you're into but a nice fat vibrator can be fairly inexpensive and always seems to go down well with a wg if..... 1 I'm on a repeat visit and they provided exceptional service and we 'clicked' on the first, 2 I thought they deserved it, and, 3 they didn't seem to have one already. If they have one then maybe something more adventurous, if you're convinced that they'd be into it. Just as long as you don't walk in and ram it straight up her in the first minute she'll love it and it opens up endless possibilities for the rest of the meet.
That way you get enjoyment out of the gift too.
I mean, she'll just eat chocolates, or give them to her friends and as for flowers? Nah, don't get it. Thats what I would consider a fluffy gift.