The wonderful art of Edging

[titton]

Now then gentlemen; I apologise if this topic has been covered before perhaps under a different name or heading but I can't find much on it.
Porn is obviously much more readily available now on the internet with all of the different genres and topics and the older I get the more I find it difficult to find something new (to me) that really gets me going again.
I have always loved good oral and am actually quite fortunate that my girlfriend is pretty good at it generally and because we have only been together a couple of years will still actually do it for me, though the intervals between are starting to get longer plus after about 5 mins she has an aching mouth and is trying to finish me off.
I discovered the term edging actually relatively recently during my usual search for blow jobs and deep throat and various compilation. There is a video out there (sorry I don't know how to link to it) but it is basically 2 girls sucking and licking this guy off very slowly non stop for about 30 minutes solidly until he cums. From here I found "cum denial" type things both for hand jobs and blow jobs. These are great in the way the girl keeps bringing him to the "edge" and then slowing down so that he doesn't cum. The problem for me is that these videos seem to like to either not them cum at all or ruin the orgasm, neither of which I like or want to try. Keeping the orgasm brewing up and then down over a sustained period with an awesome release at the end is what I want.
Do we know anyone in the North West (I'm in Blackpool) who has the skills, mouth muscles and stamina plus the attention span and patience to do this well.
Or, is anyone else out there a fan of said edging. I guess it has a tantric element to it so maybe Sting's missus is the one to ask.

Cheers in advance

Titton

[opal]

Try Lytham lass on AW in st Anne's for an edging handjob

[titton]

Thanks for the suggestion opal. I like lots of oral too so she may be a bit limited for me. She is close by, though and a good hand job isn't something to turn your nose up at. Is she attractive? It's hard to tell from the pics. She would need to be quite hot if we are down to hand alone.

Anybody else have a liking for edging or know someone prepared to put the time in?

[Ham Man]

Never heard of this term before, but yeah that's right up my street, would also be interested to hear of any girl who would be great to try this with 

[Asianfcuker]

According to "Urban directory"

Edging

Top Definition.
Coming nearly close to climax or ejaculation,then purposefully stopping sexual stimulation in order to delay the same, so that the ultimate climax will be more intense. Unlike the other two definitions of "edging" so far included in this dictionary, it is not a practice necessary inclusive of masturbation ("wanking"), but is also practiced amongst homosexual (and, I suppose, heterosexual) partners/couples.
"As we were edging,every time I got close to cumming, I'd withdraw and wait until immediate passion passed, and he would do the same, until neither of us could tolerate it any longer, and we both shot our loads: mine in his mouth, and his on my abdomen.

2.
 edging
When wanking. The continual bringing to the edge of shooting a load but backing off to prolong the pleasure.
I’ve been wanking for hours and edging, man my balls ache real bad.

3.
 edging
approaching the edge of sexual orgasm and withdrawing, usually several times, before finally achieving orgasm. meant to intensify orgasm, and for men, volume of ejaculate and force of ejaculation.

this applies to any sexual act and is not limited to masturbation.
My girlfriend and I like to edge before we fuck. She performs oral sex until I'm just about to cum and then we stop for a minute, preventing orgasm, and then we have intercourse. After edging like this our intercourse lasts longer and the orgasm in stronger.

AF

[webpunter]

In the south east - MistressNia  External Link/Members Only  On my to-do list
In my experience massage type burds are better at this than those providing FS

[opal]

Thanks for the suggestion opal. I like lots of oral too so she may be a bit limited for me. She is close by, though and a good hand job isn't something to turn your nose up at. Is she attractive? It's hard to tell from the pics. She would need to be quite hot if we are down to hand alone.

If youre looking for a 20 year old girl maybe not for you but shes attractive and has more experience. If youre looking for oral too you will need an escort and many will do what you ask and have a go at edging but that doesnt mean that theyre any good at it!

[Mikenorthwest48]

I had a few visits to a Tantric Cindy who appears to have gone off the radar now, she was good at edging but never offered anymore than HE. As opal says it is not in many young girls forte that I have found.

[webpunter]

If youre looking for oral too you will need an escort

Further to my post above then the chances of oral with massage burds are increased if they previously escorted & have down-graded services & no longer offer FS.  BJs often remain on the menu.  Especially if they 'like' you.  A score usually provides the OWO solution 

[webpunter]

As opal says it is not in many young girls forte that I have found.

Just tell em what you like.  Doesn't always work on 1st visit but works wonders on repeat bookings.  If they have the choice of slowly wanking you off or shagging most will choose the former

[yorkshirepunter3333]

This lady does this very well

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She does not call it Edging, she likes to think its a form of Tantrix Sex, who am I to argue with the definition of such things when she has my cock in her month.

[Kriss]

I remember a punt a few years ago where I saw a really stunning girl who turned me on so much that I started to cum after only a couple of minutes of shagging. I didn't want the punt to end that quickly so I pulled out at what must have been the last second, but I managed to hold off. The problem was that although I stayed rock hard, it took me ages to cum. I seem to remember that what you are describing as 'edging' is one technique for curing premature ejaculation, but I'm wondering whats the difference between that an tantric?

[webpunter]

I seem to remember that what you are describing as 'edging' is one technique for curing premature ejaculation, but I'm wondering whats the difference between that an tantric?

Edging is where a talented burd remorselessly teases the fuck out of you & is very skilled.  Picked up through wanking off loads of blokes.  Usually happy to take a load on their tits or in their gob
Tantra practionioners whine on about breathing, shakras & a load of bollocks.  They charge more, certainly ain't as dirty [you might as well give up expecting to get any OWO].  They expect you end up with a load of harry munk on your tummy.  And are unlikely to be able to encourage a blast any longer than that.  If you ask them what they do then they'll go on about 'spiritual release' & shite like that.  Nothing to do with giving blokes HJs of course 
Loads of masseuses / AW burds mention tantra / tantric coz they think it makes them look good & they can charge more 

[Titi]

Look up Perfect B. Her edging session is excellent but as always YMMV.

[Kriss]

Nothing like an even handed and totally unbiased explanation 

[Kriss]

This lady does this very well

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She does not call it Edging, she likes to think its a form of Tantrix Sex, who am I to argue with the definition of such things when she has my cock in her month.

+1 "A rose by any other name"

[Carpy]

I have tried this several time, used to have a girlfriend who was fantastic at it, yeah it can be mind blowing especially the slow hand and blow jobs building it up slowly, I suspect the videos first mentioned were by klixxen if you search that in a porn website.

However I will give a word of warning, after being edged and cooled off a number of times it can give some real pain when you finally do come, hence why you tend to find it in S&M scenarios in porn. Have done it and whilst it was a powerful orgasm the pain felt like when you a desperate for a pee type of pain afterwards.

[Kriss]

I have tried this several time, used to have a girlfriend who was fantastic at it, yeah it can be mind blowing especially the slow hand and blow jobs building it up slowly, I suspect the videos first mentioned were by klixxen if you search that in a porn website.

However I will give a word of warning, after being edged and cooled off a number of times it can give some real pain when you finally do come, hence why you tend to find it in S&M scenarios in porn. Have done it and whilst it was a powerful orgasm the pain felt like when you a desperate for a pee type of pain afterwards.

This is yet another version called "orgasm denial" I believe. I won't ask what the differences are 

[Mi-Go]

If youre looking for a 20 year old girl maybe not for you but shes attractive and has more experience. If youre looking for oral too you will need an escort and many will do what you ask and have a go at edging but that doesnt mean that theyre any good at it!

I've seen Lytham Lass recently, and will post full review shortly.  But I can tell you she is certainly attractive, approx 50 years old and does a good edging hand job.

[taylorp]

Suzi @ Sandys is good at edging. I only got the HJ version though, but I'm sure she does OWO.
She asked me to tell her when I was close and then she eased off. Felt amazing when I eventually came. It wasn't a edging session, we just finished off with that. She does post-orgasm torture too but I couldn't handle it. She's very skilled

[Kriss]

Just wondering, are any of the girls at Sheridans in Salford good at this?

[webpunter]

Suzi @ Sandys is good at edging. I only got the HJ version though, but I'm sure she does OWO.
She asked me to tell her when I was close and then she eased off. Felt amazing when I eventually came. It wasn't a edging session, we just finished off with that. She does post-orgasm torture too but I couldn't handle it. She's very skilled

Think you might be just about right there
Jordan gave me a stonking HJ [i've reviewed on here].  However the temptations of an oily tit-wank & some OWO took centre stage.  The only observation i would make is that the Sandys girls don't seem to have lots of lube to hand.  Although Jordan produced a little sachet which contained a liquid which must be one of the most slippery substances known to mankind.  I was a bit dubious as i like copious amounts of whatever oil is usually used - but it did the job just fine

[Colinuk]

Daisy who works at La masion in Bury and also has a profile on AW is excellent at edging. Intact she is my favourite punt, she 100% tries to please.

[webpunter]

As you are new you deserve some slack.  It is considered to provide AW links along with such a post.  To save fellow UKP'ers the time & hassle of searching.  Over to you

Daisy who works at La masion in Bury and also has a profile on AW is excellent at edging. Intact she is my favourite punt, she 100% tries to please.

[titton]

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I think this is the lady question

[diggert]

I've tried this with many girls but they just want to tug away and make you come quickly.

One girl Georgia at GFE in Bury was really good would do slow and sensual handjob and oral and would keep stopping when close.

Shame she has left the scene I think.

Still searching now though if anybody has any recommendations.

[R-man]

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I think this is the lady question

Is there a link for the AW profile, please?

[titton]

I feel quite honoured that my little thread that I started is still making the Top 40 with Bruno Brookes. Not quite Bryan Adams, 16 weeks at number 1 in 1992 or whatever year it was but I'm still chuffed to be still generating interest and comments. It seemed to start with that not a lot of people knew what edging was with some derisory comments suggesting that it was just a slightly extended blow job. I think there are several videos to watch on XNXX etc to demonstrate what I was looking for. Yes, it was an elongated blowjob but one where the girl (or girls if you are lucky) knowingly kept the guy on or near the edge of coming for 30 mins or more without letting him cum until he was allowed a final release.
Just search something like "slow edging cum compilation" or similar. Sadly, many of these seem to feel the necessity for a ruined cum shot where she stops sucking or wanking him as he spurts just to fuck his orgasm up. I don't get that at all.

Anyway just wanted to say thanks to everyone who has kept my little thread going and I still wish I could find someone around Blackpool or Preston who had the skill and patience to edge me properly.
Love and peace!

Titton