Good question about the morning boner. I often wake with a boner but only because I need to urinate. Sometimes I feel a boner when dreaming and then realise when I awake that it is big morning water stick as our German friends call it. I am nervous when punting or with the OH, because of concern of not getting a boner. Hence the need for pills which help. Could have mentioned I want an alternative to Cialis because Even if I can perform I find it hard to come fucking and get little pleasure other than from seeing the lady getting pleasure. I will try the vitamin supplements and work out a bit and let you know.
Well, that's good news, the equipment works.
You, my friend, have performance anxiety and no amount of pills or vitamins is going to solve it.
Try punting with lower goals eg don't feel you have to perform. Go for a basic, lie down, touchy massage. Tell the girl you're nervous and just relax into the massage.
Also choose the right setting, no dodgy places and give yourself plenty of time to get there. Stress kills erections, so get there early.
Try Spedra, take it on an empty stomach, thirty mins before. Sit in your car, read her AW profile, get turned on by looking at her pictures, then think about what you're going to be doing with her.
You have no obligation to perform, you're not a machine, just enjoy the touch of a woman and admire the scenery. You're paying, you can do what you like.
Sometimes I get floppy, other times I can't cum. That's normal, it's just your body having an off day.