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Author Topic: Thailand January Visit - Same Same Girlfriend (4th Visit)  (Read 7953 times)

Offline Jerboa

Interesting story, call me a cynic but not sure I believe all of it though.

So after only 4-5 visits you decide to sponsor a Pattaya bargirl. How much you sending her monthly?

When you first met her she'd only worked the bar 1 week, sure where have I heard that one?
So are you fluent In Thai? as a farm fresh girls wont know more than 5 English phrases.
"this small quiet Thai girl and taken down two Russian girls" this Isn't the act of a farm fresh girl.

She only got a Passport In February, and In the space of 3 months you managed to wangle a tourist Visa for her, a pretty difficult thing to do, some guys have trouble to get their thai wives a UK visa, let a loan a Pattaya bargirl.  :rolleyes:

I send her enought to live at home in Chi Nat!

I have researched her claim to being in Pattaya for just 1 week prior to seeing me and it all looks good.

She knew less than 5 phrases to be honest but it working hard to learn more. One year on and she is doing OK. Though very shy here in the UK.

She does have a temper on her and her mum told her before leaving for the UK, not to flare up or you might lose him! She can be a handful a week before her period to be honest.

Thanks - the visa application ran at least 100 pages of info and was very detailed, all wrapped up in an indexed folder. Visa took just 16 days to get. Not bad condidering she does not own any land or property.
« Last Edit: June 06, 2013, 11:52:31 AM by Capt Jack Sparrow »

Offline Jerboa

So as you say, she owns no land or property, has she big baht in her bank? Ex bargirl with no job, and no reason to go home, hmm I'm no visa expert but how did the British embassy let that slip past?

There are professional educated Thais  in BKK who would of had to of gone through a lot of hoops to get a visa, but your girl gets one in 2 weeks! Let us know your secrets.

I checked her K Bank account and she has 934Bt in it. We had to enclose a photo copy of the account.
I guess I went through the visa requirments and answered all the questions and provided further info where it looked flakey. So for example I said I own my own home, took photos of the inside of the house and included a mortage statement and Zoopla house value figure. The wording in the invitation letter is the key.
The fact I stated that " I will bear all her responsibilities, travel, housing and medical expences within the UK" delights the UK Embassy!
The reason for the long stay I put as that I can save my holiday up and go out to see her at Christmas, rather than use all my holiday up now.
I also stated she will go back and at any time she wants to leave sooner than planned I would fund her ticket back with out question or delay.

Offline mh

The fact I stated that " I will bear all her responsibilities, travel, housing and medical expences within the UK" delights the UK Embassy!

Nothing "delights" them. There has to be evidence of how the visitor will be supported without getting a job. Either because they have money or because someone else is paying. It's mandatory, not optional.

The second thing they need to know is that she would leave the country at the end of the visa term and that requires evidence of what she has left behind in her home country and would therefore compel her to return. Someone just "vouching" that she will leave is not permitted, though there is this move to have placement of cash bonds for visitors.

Offline Jerboa

I checked her K Bank account and she has 934Bt in it. We had to enclose a photo copy of the account.
I guess I went through the visa requirments and answered all the questions and provided further info where it looked flakey. So for example I said I own my own home, took photos of the inside of the house and included a mortage statement and Zoopla house value figure. The wording in the invitation letter is the key.
The fact I stated that " I will bear all her responsibilities, travel, housing and medical expences within the UK" delights the UK Embassy!
The reason for the long stay I put as that I can save my holiday up and go out to see her at Christmas, rather than use all my holiday up now.
I also stated she will go back and at any time she wants to leave sooner than planned I would fund her ticket back with out question or delay.

You were Incredibly lucky then.  :)

You were Incredibly lucky then.  :)


Keep us posted

I genuinely hope it all works out,

I know approx 10 thai ladies in the UK strangely all divorced their husbands once their 'permanent residence 'status had come through

I hate to be negative but the whole culture thing is so very different, they are 'wired' very differently
By now you may have gathered that i speak from experience


watch this u tube clip put up with the first couple of minutes, he talks sense without being derogatory


 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BnQgQdCmnUw

Offline Jerboa


Keep us posted

I genuinely hope it all works out,

I know approx 10 thai ladies in the UK strangely all divorced their husbands once their 'permanent residence 'status had come through

I hate to be negative but the whole culture thing is so very different, they are 'wired' very differently
By now you may have gathered that i speak from experience


watch this u tube clip put up with the first couple of minutes, he talks sense without being derogatory


 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BnQgQdCmnUw

Good post, I also know a couple of Thai ladies In UK who left their husband after UK residency was granted, as I said In a earlier post,

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I'd suggest that as a farang you'd be lucky to come higher than #5 in the pecking order, after the family, the King, Buddha, any other Thai people.

A friend of mine Is married to a Thai lady, never a bargirl, she has no Immediate family, so no buffalo stories, and she Is always on the look out for any Thai trying to crook them out of 1 baht, some advice I heard from him and other long term expats Is never buy property that you as a farang can not own, you may buy a condo, never be worth more dead than alive, life can be cheap In a 3rd world country, be sure there is a clause In any will that If you are killed suspiciously no baht goes to the wife.

Offline baltar

Yea I'd be careful lots of women in these places will just love to take advantage of a rich westerner. There's a guy in Canada right now called Tom Matty who is getting taken to the cleaners by the Canadian courts by his Thai ex wife who took his kids back to Thailand,  paying a ton in child support, etc. Technically he can go and see them but they took away his passport. He's already spent over 60 thousand dollars fighting it.
« Last Edit: June 14, 2013, 06:11:50 PM by baltar »

Call me a cynic but I was in phuket a couple of years ago and thery were quite a few older uk sponsors.Problem was when they went home sponsor number two would be on the way out.My understanding is you can't own property so the punter pays for it to be in her name and gets kneecapped. I've seen guys import them here and within a short time they network and wise up.They usually do a bit of hairdressing and get well cued up whilst working dodgy. I think the only way it works is if you've kneecapped here and are skint and retired then you can live cheap out there and keep your eye on things.Not for me.

She going strong 2nd summer here. Visit visa was no problem. I am getting exhausted though. I seem to have woken her body up so she says. Small break now until I go out at Christmas thank goodness.

Online Marmalade

I'd suggest that as a farang you'd be lucky to come higher than #5 in the pecking order, after the family, the King, Buddha, any other Thai people......
I didn't think the pecking order went further than 4. After that it is mostly "miscellaneous."

Most "miscellaneouses" are dumbchucks. Rather like the way a cat views its owner. May even be a lifelong 'relationship'.

Nothing wrong with being a rabbit i guess  . . .

https://s3.amazonaws.com/rapgenius/1322452663_matrix-red-blue-pills.png

But how, exactly, does a 'nice' Thai girl get her capital?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0RMYLychMXc

Online Marmalade

There's a more in-depth look by Louis Theroux.
http://documentaryheaven.com/thai-brides-louis-theroux/

Look at it as a business venture. From the Thai point of view, the priorities are fall intensely in love and move things along quickly. That the farang is "nice and kind" is a working requirement of course. You don't open a restaurant in a rough neighbourhood, even with someone else's money.

Offline Jerboa

I didn't think the pecking order went further than 4. After that it is mostly "miscellaneous."

Most "miscellaneouses" are dumbchucks. Rather like the way a cat views its owner. May even be a lifelong 'relationship'.

Nothing wrong with being a rabbit i guess  . . .

https://s3.amazonaws.com/rapgenius/1322452663_matrix-red-blue-pills.png

But how, exactly, does a 'nice' Thai girl get her capital?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0RMYLychMXc

Yes I've seen that Thai scam one before, it just shows how stupid some farangs are, they will buy anything their girl tells them, even average girls like her can run several stupid bf's/sponsors, you see nowadays many of these average bargirls sat in a beer bar on their expensive smart phone, they're not saying hi to mama, they are hustling their sponsors.

Offline santiago2

Beware you Guys going back to Thailand to same girlfriend, my mate Den is on his 3rd visit, he first met her when she was working as a massuse at his hotel, she stayed with him for his last 3 nights, he couldn't get over her, she was the real thing, she used to ring him regular saying when you coming back my love, 3 months later he's back, the 2 week millionare, lovely time on an island, then Pattaya, but she starting to get on his nerves, the last 4 days she got the red flag flying, when he gets home, thats it never going again, she rings him regular again, most times asking for money to be sent, he's back out there now, she met him at the airport, she needed money to help her cousin, he gave her £200 in Baht, he'd already sent her money to book the hotel in Bangkok, and Pattaya, first 3 days the red flags flying, he phoned me yesterday, never again, i just as well be sleeping with a blow up doll he said, nothing like the girl i first knew, all she wants is money money, so guys be careful. dont fall in love withem.  :hi:

Offline Jerboa

Yes so many stories like this, your friend is lucky if he has woke up early to this, never sponsor a TG, they take the piss and don't respect weakness.


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