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Offline Dani

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It could well be that when you asked her out she felt put under the spotlight so just blurted out ok you can take me out for free and have my private number.  Once you had left she probably hopedyou would never call.  You did and she ignored you.  That should say it all really.

Of course she liked you, you gave her money for chatting and a quick BJ at the end, talk about easy money

Offline legslover

It could well be that when you asked her out she felt put under the spotlight so just blurted out ok you can take me out for free and have my private number.  Once you had left she probably hopedyou would never call.  You did and she ignored you.  That should say it all really.

Of course she liked you, you gave her money for chatting and a quick BJ at the end, talk about easy money
I didn't ask to take her out for free nor for her private number.

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It could well be that when you asked her out she felt put under the spotlight so just blurted out ok you can take me out for free and have my private number.   Once you had left she probably hopedyou would never call.  You did and she ignored you.  That should say it all really.

Of course she liked you, you gave her money for chatting and a quick BJ at the end, talk about easy money

Spot on yet again, Cassie.

I once knew a girl like this. She would say anything to anyone at the time to please them, but once away from them usually failed to follow up on her promises.

Offline legslover

Am I correct in assuming at you have given this girl your private number? Ie: not a punting phone?
VERY dangerous in my opinion when you have a wife & family.

A schoolboy error if ever I saw one  :thumbsdown:
No she got my punting phone number

sounds like she flirts with the punter and gets to talk bollocks for half the punt at £120 ph. You have been fucked about so far without even taking her out imagine what it would be like actually having a relationship with her. Also you should have contacted her once and then left it for her to contact you. Repeatedly contacting her was pointless and will have looked a bit desperate.

Offline legslover

you should have contacted her once and then left it for her to contact you. Repeatedly contacting her was pointless and will have looked a bit desperate.
Yes I agree with you there, and maybe it did come across a bit desperate.  But see if I was an expert womaniser I wouldn't be frequenting boards such as this  :)

Offline Ali Katt

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She said I could text or call her to arrange a time to go out.  Before I left she sucked me off and let me cum in her mouth.  Without me asking her to, she swallowed my whole load.  I told her that no girl has ever done that for me before (which is true).  She said that she didn't normally do it either but that I was special.
Some escorts will say any old hyperbole to get another booking, the usual one is "I don't normally cum for other men" - whether it's true or not who knows? The paid sex scenes is based upon lies and deception, some of it nice some of it disgusting.

What I will say is I live by the rule you pay a prossie to leave, not to stay and there is maybe some truth in the cliche a prossie is cheaper than dating, both finacially and emotionally.

Offline HannahDarcy

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You met her last week, for the first time, for one hour and you are falling for her? I understand you are saying you had a strong connection with her but you have known her 60 minutes. All in.

I think she was far too trusting to have given you her real name and number, is she new? Maybe she told a more experienced girl (the one in the flat you mention perhaps) what she done and was told this is not how this game works. Because it's not.

All in all my advice would be: don't ask someone you pay to fuck out on a date. Just fuck her and leave  ;)
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Offline arcton85

Some escorts will say any old hyperbole to get another booking, the usual one is "I don't normally cum for other men" - whether it's true or not who knows? The paid sex scenes is based upon lies and deception, some of it nice some of it disgusting.

What I will say is I live by the rule you pay a prossie to leave, not to stay and there is maybe some truth in the cliche a prossie is cheaper than dating, both finacially and emotionally.

Telling him she'd go on an unpaid date sounds like the opposite of massaging his ego for another booking. It's pretty clear the situation would be too awkward now and he probably would've gone back to her if she had rejected his advance, or even just accepted his offer for a ~paid~ date. Probably she changed her mind for what could've been any reason related to the obvious red flags of meeting someone in that situation...

Offline Essex3

I have been in a similar position twice when 2 wgs have really liked me. You have to understand, due to the nature of their job, they lack a proper relationship with a guy. We just use them for our base desires, they may enjoy it themselves but women run more on emotion. Steer clear from this situation! You may very well like her a lot and she you, but at the end of the day she's a prossie. Nothing good is ever going to come out of it.

Offline Dani

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You have to understand, due to the nature of their job, they lack a proper relationship with a guy. We just use them for our base desires, they may enjoy it themselves but women run more on emotion. .

Oh please!  We run no more on emotion than men do. Infact I would say less on emotion than men as even if we do fall for someone we weigh up the pros and cons before going for it, i.e if he can financially support us, is he good father material.  If women ran on emotion there would be no prossies, there would be no fit young girls married to very rich old men.  Such a blanket statement would be like the mumsnetters who say all men who pay prossies have no respect for women.  Its bollocks.

Like I said some girls feel uncomfortable being put ont he spot like that (we are paid to pretend we really like you, hell all my clients think they are really special to me) so she probably blurted it all out and then regretted it immediately after.  You can read on other forums like saffe how often it happens as the girl did not know how to say no.  It has nothing to do with emotions and more to do with the girl not knowing how to be assertive about her boundaries.

If you are going to keep her for yourself then this thread could now close but if you really would like to share please tell us the link!

Offline andrei

has nobody ever thought that for the most part punting is cheaper than having an actual girlfriend - so this chick wanted to get him to be her "man" so she could squeeze extra money out of him than through normal punting

thats my cynical view anyway, the whole giving out her own number etc makes it seem all the more real, what moron would believe the story if she gave him her working number but wanted to be his girlfriend

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Offline andrei

If you are going to keep her for yourself then this thread could now close but if you really would like to share please tell us the link!

unless its a made up story and she doesnt actually exst  :rolleyes:
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Offline ghighi

I was in the same situation, thinking i am special to the WGs, as she do things which she can charges extra for and gave me her real name. But i didnt know how she treats other customers, may be her "customers" are also thinking the same as me. But as a punter, we need to get it clear that, in this part of the game, the WGs know what they are doing, and male usually dont, as the the ego has hijacked your "Normal Brain". The WG's has seen many punters, they know what the punters want and how to make the punter come back. They are get used to see man of different kind,eg caring, young, old etc. So, conclusion is dont try to think you are special to the WGs

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You're posting from multiple anonymous proxies which is not allowed on this site.
multiple anonymous proxies?
Does he need a GUM clinic?

Offline Dani

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I do think a link should be posted as this girl is obviously very good at her job (although maybe a bit naive at the moment) to be able to convince someone she is really interested in them on a personal level.  other guys could benefit from a link so they too could see a prossie who is good at her job.  After all this is what the forum is for. The sharing of info.

I was in the same situation, thinking i am special to the WGs, as she do things which she can charges extra for and gave me her real name.

Sometimes we do have a really good connection with a punter and we do tell them things about ourselves as we know we can trust them and are interested in their lives too.  Again it does not mean we want them as a partner, it just means we like them and find them an interesting person.  Sometimes you just click with someone and can become good friends as long as the boundaries are clear and most punters know the boundaries and know that nothing more is on offer. It only becomes a problem when a guy suddenly thinks he is the only punter she connects with.
AT this exact moment I have three regulars who know everything about me and I them and we do contact each other for a chat etc but they never overstep their boundaries and know that although we are friends anything sexual is paid for.  If a punter ever tried asking for more he would be blocked and all contact would stop dead

Offline smiths

I have fallen for WGs over the years especially great regulars where a rapport has built up over time. I even went on some dates with a few but i prefer to keep things strictly business these days.

It can be easy to view a WG just being a good WG as something more and more so in these days of the GFE, and i have read numerous tales of woe.

Offline ghighi

I do think a link should be posted as this girl is obviously very good at her job (although maybe a bit naive at the moment) to be able to convince someone she is really interested in them on a personal level.  other guys could benefit from a link so they too could see a prossie who is good at her job.  After all this is what the forum is for. The sharing of info.

Sometimes we do have a really good connection with a punter and we do tell them things about ourselves as we know we can trust them and are interested in their lives too.  Again it does not mean we want them as a partner, it just means we like them and find them an interesting person.  Sometimes you just click with someone and can become good friends as long as the boundaries are clear and most punters know the boundaries and know that nothing more is on offer. It only becomes a problem when a guy suddenly thinks he is the only punter she connects with.
AT this exact moment I have three regulars who know everything about me and I them and we do contact each other for a chat etc but they never overstep their boundaries and know that although we are friends anything sexual is paid for.  If a punter ever tried asking for more he would be blocked and all contact would stop dead

I never chat to the WGs outside their "working place", nor i never ask for her number. you know but sometimes men are a short sight animal, sometimes, we dont think about the consequences of the things we do, may be the sex has hijacked our brain as i said. Sometimes, i really dont know the WGs is pretending friendly to me or not, are they really "like" me (not love)  or just want me to come back? i really dont know. But usually it is very hard to resist seeing her regularly, i usually not seeing her as other punter do. I see her as a companionship, i really enjoy spending time with her chatting, asking how she up to etc. but the problem is even i dont need sex, i still need to pay her "time". so everytime i see her, i better get some sort of sex out of her ( i didnt care abt the quality of sex with her). I am not a rich guy, so seeing her is hurting my pocket i must admit, which put me into a dilemma.

Offline Dani

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If a girl does want you to come back she will put a lot of effort into your time together.  Normally with a regular she will genuinely like you as we tend to always be too busy to see those we dont like, after all even we are not that good at acting.  So yes she probably likes you but I do feel sad that you only want to spend time with them as a companion and just have sex because you have paid so much

Would it not be better to join a dating site where you can meet women for companionship?
I think that is what you are looking for more than anything else and seeing an escort will not fill that gap as you will never know if she does like you or not so afterwards you will always feel empty

If for some reason you cannot do that why not ask the escort if you can book her social/companion rate which is normally much cheaper and then you wont 'have' to have sex.
 
Unfortunately booking at her full rate for companionship only will be seen by some as an easy touch and they will take the piss if they know you only want a bit of sex just because you are paying but really just want to spend time with her. 
If you see the wrong girl you could end up really out of pocket or hurt as like in all walks of life some prossies will promise you the world and then rip you off if they think you are easy.

Offline arcton85

If a girl does want you to come back she will put a lot of effort into your time together.  Normally with a regular she will genuinely like you as we tend to always be too busy to see those we dont like, after all even we are not that good at acting.  So yes she probably likes you but I do feel sad that you only want to spend time with them as a companion and just have sex because you have paid so much

Would it not be better to join a dating site where you can meet women for companionship?
I think that is what you are looking for more than anything else and seeing an escort will not fill that gap as you will never know if she does like you or not so afterwards you will always feel empty

If for some reason you cannot do that why not ask the escort if you can book her social/companion rate which is normally much cheaper and then you wont 'have' to have sex.
 
Unfortunately booking at her full rate for companionship only will be seen by some as an easy touch and they will take the piss if they know you only want a bit of sex just because you are paying but really just want to spend time with her. 
If you see the wrong girl you could end up really out of pocket or hurt as like in all walks of life some prossies will promise you the world and then rip you off if they think you are easy.

If you'd read his posts you'd know that he's not single and has a family he lives with at the weekends. He just works in London during the week and gets lonely so can't really go around dating websites hoping for a no string weekday affair...

Offline ghighi

If a girl does want you to come back she will put a lot of effort into your time together.  Normally with a regular she will genuinely like you as we tend to always be too busy to see those we dont like, after all even we are not that good at acting.  So yes she probably likes you but I do feel sad that you only want to spend time with them as a companion and just have sex because you have paid so much

Would it not be better to join a dating site where you can meet women for companionship?
I think that is what you are looking for more than anything else and seeing an escort will not fill that gap as you will never know if she does like you or not so afterwards you will always feel empty

If for some reason you cannot do that why not ask the escort if you can book her social/companion rate which is normally much cheaper and then you wont 'have' to have sex.
 
Unfortunately booking at her full rate for companionship only will be seen by some as an easy touch and they will take the piss if they know you only want a bit of sex just because you are paying but really just want to spend time with her. 
If you see the wrong girl you could end up really out of pocket or hurt as like in all walks of life some prossies will promise you the world and then rip you off if they think you are easy.

I never ask her abt just to spend time with her with "no sex" to gain a cheaper rate. To me,i think its a bit insult to her asking that kind of question( its like an excuse of haggling)? i dont know, i am not a WGs so i dont know what is ur feeling if u see a regular u like asking that question. I respect her, and she respect me( well, may be i paid her time so she must respect me? or she respect every customer, i dont know) but i really feel intimacy when i spent time with her, i punted wif others WGs, but you know they just went through the "motions", for me is like having sex with an "object", which really put me off and i didnt come back to others WGs. I think i am better to find a girlfriend, but due to my job nature, i dont have much spare time to date. And i dont want a girl always "stick" to me and i had few girlfriends before, some of them need a lot of attention and need a lot time and energy to care about their feeling like the end of the world if i bought the wrong valentines day present. It may seem selfish, but i just tell you what i feel, if this put you off, i am really sorry.

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I am single " :rolleyes:arcton95"

Offline Dani

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I understand but I still feel you will get hurt as you say you keep going back as you feel a connection that in all hoesty she does not feel.

It is fine to ask a prossie about her social rates as most of us have them, which is for company only.  I do it for one of my regs who doesnt want anything sexual but just wants a chat and a cuddle as he is lonely. I charge half my normal rate plus an extra tenner off so he gets a good price for the hour and gets what he wants from it and I get to spend time chatting and having good company for £40 which is good money for just a cuddle and a chat.

If that is what you would prefer then just ask her.  All she can say is no (just because she doesnt want to lose the extra cash) but if she enjoys your company she should give you her social only rate

Offline Dani

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If you'd read his posts you'd know that he's not single and has a family he lives with at the weekends. He just works in London during the week and gets lonely so can't really go around dating websites hoping for a no string weekday affair...

I did read his posts hence I knew he was single, perhaps you should follow your own advice


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