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Offline legslover

Hi guys,
First post here.  Used to post a bit on the other site.  Been punting for maybe 10 years off and on - am now in my mid-thirties.  Don't actually have full sex with the girls any more (happy enough with massage and oral as then I don't seem to have the same guilt-trip afterwards, and I'm not single).  I've maybe been with 20 working girls over the years.  In the last few years I've only had two punts (only massage, bj).
Anyway, I want to tell you a story about my last punting experience and I'd appreciate your advice or opinions please as my head's in a mess!

So last week I had a punt with a working girl at her flat.  She was in her twenties and very pretty.  Right from the beginning it was completely different to any such experience I've had in the past.  I've had girlfriend experience style punts before but the act the girls try on usually bores me as I don't believe it for a moment.  This felt different - like she really was into me.  We spent a lot of time chatting - probably half of the hour I was there for actually.  We were kissing and cuddling in between - I really felt like we clicked.  Towards the end of our meeting I asked if I could take her out sometime and offered to pay her for her time.  She told me that I could take her out for free as she really liked me.  This is the first time I've ever asked out a working girl.  And hey, I know what you guys must be thinking - that I've broken one of the unwritten rules right, falling into the trap of believing their act.  Well I didn't believe it myself until she told me she'd give me her private number and real name.  She called my phone from her own phone so I had her number on mine.  She said I could text or call her to arrange a time to go out.  Before I left she sucked me off and let me cum in her mouth.  Without me asking her to, she swallowed my whole load.  I told her that no girl has ever done that for me before (which is true).  She said that she didn't normally do it either but that I was special.  We kissed and I left.

The next day I texted her on the number she'd given me just to say I'd enjoyed our time together and I was looking forward to taking her out.  I didn't hear anything after a couple of days so I tried to call her a couple of times - both times she cut me off (number busy).  I tried to call outside of her working hours but whatever she may have actually been busy.  I texted her again.  After not getting a reply I texted a third time just to say that it's OK if she's changed her mind about going out with me but could she please let me know either way.  I wouldn't contact her any more if that's what she wanted.  Still nothing.

Now I have my suspicions that I may have been duped!  Firstly she's not answered my calls or replied to my texts.  Secondly I found a review of her on the net where someone else said she swallowed his load (aww, so I'm not so special to her after all!).

However, why would she give me her private number if she wasn't interested in me?  If she doesn't want me to bother her with calls / texts why doesn't she just text me and say so?

Is this an established technique to get me back to her flat cash in hand again?  Is there any chance that she actually did like me and did want to see me outside of an appointment?  Or is she just a great actress who was just telling me what I wanted to hear?

Cheers guys,
legslover

Online Jimmyredcab

"Or is she just a great actress who was just telling me what I wanted to hear?"

I would say so, not a good idea to fall for a hooker.    :thumbsdown:

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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s there any chance that she actually did like me and did want to see me outside of an appointment?  Or is she just a great actress who was just telling me what I wanted to hear?


i hate to say it but 99 % of us are actresses to some extent!

Offline Whore Of Babylon

Seems strange to go to those lengths though. Private number and accepting to go on unpaid dates. Weird because its not really a good technique to get more money from him? Is it?
My first feeling is that she got carried away and quite liked him then in the cold light of day realised it was a bad idea.
But either way I wouldn't see her again paid or unpaid.
Paid: fall foul of a possible trick
Unpaid: well, she's doesn't want to.

My advice:
Walk away and don't get involved. Only pain can follow.

Offline k

Put yourself in her shoes.  This is like the good film, the good day out, the good book, the good gadget, etc.  How many times in your life have you say, read a good book and then followed up either by seeking out other books by the same author, or on similar books by other authors?  Sometimes people can amass small libraries of such material then maybe after a short time lose interest in it - other "shinies" come along to preoccupy the mind... and that's it!  Maybe after a year or so you might pick up one of those books and the cycle goes through once again, maybe weaker, maybe stronger.

My guess is that, yes, you were special, you made an impression on her and she genuinely wanted all your babies at the time you met with her.  The following day she met someone else who had a similar effect on her - don't forget she is in her twenties, emotionally she is still relatively malleable.  I dare say that, yes you will hear from her again, when she perceives maybe that she has come to the end of a particular road and wishes to explore another avenue.  Probably this will be as a result of a bust-up with another man/punter who has succeeded in getting a bit further than you.

So what will you do if/when you see her number coming up on your phone?  Has she changed her mind?  Is this "and they all lived happily ever after"?  Not so much a change of mind, her mind flips constantly from potential commitment to potential commitment, yes she's after a fairy-tale ending, but she can't grasp with who, and she probably never will, unless she meets someone who is controlling and assertive - which will probably signal "game over" as far as her "fairy-tale" dreams are concerned.  If you meet her again, and I reckon you would say yes given the opportunity, it is going to be a roller-coaster ride, she could very easily destroy your marriage, and then disappear again for another long period.  Unless you are extremely self-disciplined, have the skin of a rhino and thoroughly understand the dynamics between you, her and the multitude of other lovers that come and go in her life, that you will never ever pin down this woman, you would be advised to steer well clear.

Offline jackdaw

I agree with the great Whore, it doesn't strike me as a great con trick. Apart from anything else she hasn't made any money out of it.

More likely she does like you a bit, but has decided she doesn't want it to go any further.

You would most likely be wise to come to same conclusion.

Offline Joe Blob

She's probably realised she was in danger of breaking her own boundaries.

BUT, and just a long shot, there's nothing in your post to suggest you've tried to contact her other than on her private number. Have you tried her other number? She may have given you a wrong number by mistake and be wondering why you haven't called.

Offline NIK

Hi guys,
First post here.  Used to post a bit on the other site.  Been punting for maybe 10 years off and on - am now in my mid-thirties.  Don't actually have full sex with the girls any more (happy enough with massage and oral as then I don't seem to have the same guilt-trip afterwards, and I'm not single).  I've maybe been with 20 working girls over the years.  In the last few years I've only had two punts (only massage, bj).
Anyway, I want to tell you a story about my last punting experience and I'd appreciate your advice or opinions please as my head's in a mess!

So last week I had a punt with a working girl at her flat.  She was in her twenties and very pretty.  Right from the beginning it was completely different to any such experience I've had in the past.  I've had girlfriend experience style punts before but the act the girls try on usually bores me as I don't believe it for a moment.  This felt different - like she really was into me.  We spent a lot of time chatting - probably half of the hour I was there for actually.  We were kissing and cuddling in between - I really felt like we clicked.  Towards the end of our meeting I asked if I could take her out sometime and offered to pay her for her time.  She told me that I could take her out for free as she really liked me.  This is the first time I've ever asked out a working girl.  And hey, I know what you guys must be thinking - that I've broken one of the unwritten rules right, falling into the trap of believing their act.  Well I didn't believe it myself until she told me she'd give me her private number and real name.  She called my phone from her own phone so I had her number on mine.  She said I could text or call her to arrange a time to go out.  Before I left she sucked me off and let me cum in her mouth.  Without me asking her to, she swallowed my whole load.  I told her that no girl has ever done that for me before (which is true).  She said that she didn't normally do it either but that I was special.  We kissed and I left.

The next day I texted her on the number she'd given me just to say I'd enjoyed our time together and I was looking forward to taking her out.  I didn't hear anything after a couple of days so I tried to call her a couple of times - both times she cut me off (number busy).  I tried to call outside of her working hours but whatever she may have actually been busy.  I texted her again.  After not getting a reply I texted a third time just to say that it's OK if she's changed her mind about going out with me but could she please let me know either way.  I wouldn't contact her any more if that's what she wanted.  Still nothing.

Now I have my suspicions that I may have been duped!  Firstly she's not answered my calls or replied to my texts.  Secondly I found a review of her on the net where someone else said she swallowed his load (aww, so I'm not so special to her after all!).

However, why would she give me her private number if she wasn't interested in me?  If she doesn't want me to bother her with calls / texts why doesn't she just text me and say so?

Is this an established technique to get me back to her flat cash in hand again?  Is there any chance that she actually did like me and did want to see me outside of an appointment?  Or is she just a great actress who was just telling me what I wanted to hear?

Cheers guys,
legslover

Yet another example of my theory that the ways of women are very strange and those of prossies the strangest of all.

Just one of my many examples. I booked an appointment with a AW girl who was based about 50 miles from me. Made the appt on the Thursday for the Sat. All was confirned. I phoned her Sat lunchtime to speak again and confirm once more. Again all was well for the 5pm appointment. Just before I set off I called again as she hadn't given me the address. It was just as well I did as she didn't respond to several phone calls, messages or texts. What had happened to her in the four hours or so since we had spoken I know not.
You can imagine my surprise when a week later I received a text telling me she was available!  :wackogirl:

Nothing surprises me about them anymore. It's little wonder most of them can't hold a proper job down.

Offline Crusher


It sounds a pretty hard pill to swallow.
I believe that there may well have been something there for both of you but as said before, she probably woke up and didnt think she could cross her own boundaries.
There are a whole range of GFE's that you get, with some absolutely fantastic. I accept that for some WG's it is just work, but I dont subscibe to the notion that all WG's can totally detach work from pleasure. There must be instances where a WG has mixed the two and continue to do so.

Seems strange to go to those lengths though. Private number and accepting to go on unpaid dates. Weird because its not really a good technique to get more money from him? Is it?
My first feeling is that she got carried away and quite liked him then in the cold light of day realised it was a bad idea.
But either way I wouldn't see her again paid or unpaid.
Paid: fall foul of a possible trick
Unpaid: well, she's doesn't want to.

My advice:
Walk away and don't get involved. Only pain can follow.

Yeah, probably this I would say. Maybe she did really like him, got carried away, then did realise that she'd gone too far. Thing is, he probably now can't see her as a WG either as it would be a little weird.

Offline Matium

There's a thread on Saafe right now from a WG who says that she was friendly with a client, really liked him, but now he keeps e-mailing, phoning and texting her and she finds him irksome.

And now she wants to find a way to get rid of him.

The other side of the same coin.

Offline legslover

Thanks everyone for your comments and advice. That really does make me feel better about the situation after reading that some of you felt she probably did like me. If she's had a change of heart I can handle that. What upset me was the idea that she might have been playing me all along.
If you've not guessed I'm actually feeling pretty lonely right now (even before meeting this girl). In fact I've figured that's the reason why I visit working girls. With a nice one I would be satisfied with just hugging, kissing, talking and nothing more. I've hit a point in my life where, at 36 I'm having a hard time accepting that I'm not attractive to young women any more.

Sure I'm married and actually I have a family as well. Thing is I travel at least 3 hours every day in total (work in London where incidentally the temptation of visiting working girls is compounded by the sheer amount of choice and the ample opportunity as I'm sure you all know). So I don't see my family during the week and I don't feel I have any good friends in London. Consequently I kind of live a double life as a family man on weekends and a punter, albeit not a very prolific one, during the week.

When I met this working girl I guess I thought she could offer me what I was looking for. Companionship at times when I'm feeling lonely in this city. But more than that she could make me feel wanted, attractive again, and not just in the eyes of my wife. When I met the working girl I told her about my wife and kids. I think she really appreciated my honesty. Maybe I came on too strong after we met. Maybe one text would have been enough and after sending it I should have given her more time before trying to call. I guess in my current state of mind I could very easily come across as needy. But then again I thought she might be needy as well. A young girl new to the game in an unfamiliar city where she doesn't know many people. I thought we needed each other.

There's no mistake about the number as she called me from her phone when we were together. She told me not to contact her on the original number (booking phone) as it's answered by another girl in the same flat.

I just wish she'd let me know either way. Sure I can take her lack of contact to mean that she's had a change of heart but without spelling it out for me I'll always believe that I'm still in with a slim chance.  I've decided I'm going to have to book her again just to be able to talk to her. I need closure. I've decided I'll leave it a month - by then I won't be so emotional about it. Also I don't want to frighten her away for good so I'll leave her a little space. What do you think?

Offline legslover

There's a thread on Saafe right now from a WG who says that she was friendly with a client, really liked him, but now he keeps e-mailing, phoning and texting her and she finds him irksome.

And now she wants to find a way to get rid of him.

The other side of the same coin.
That's the last thing I want her to think of me. Thing is she only has to say go away and I'm gone for good.
By the way that thread's not about me - I never emailed the girl :)
3 texts, 2 rejected calls.
« Last Edit: February 05, 2013, 09:29:06 AM by legslover »

Offline gari54

Its all part of the game. Trust me I've had far far better priveledges with some girls than the things you listed.  :kiss:  Most guys who treat them respectfully will have, and about 3/4 of girls I've met have given me their real name and phone no on the first visit, but at the end of the day its just their way of keeping you as regular. Once they retire they have no interest in seeing you socially.

Without wishing to sound cynical I will anyway. Firstly she is a whore and clearly a good one and particularly gifted in creating a real girlfriend exprience. If you think you are the first punter she has behaved like this with then you are more disillusioned than I thought. It's all part of the facade that some girls create. Be flattered and then forget it. You paid for her to suck your cock and so do hundreds of other blokes. She ain't the sort of girl you want to be falling for. Unless of course you can imagine the conversation with your wife & kids about how you met this woman who you left them for and you know she sucks & fucks around 50 or so men every week but honestly it is the real thing.

Offline Gooner4Life

Post her details and I will try her for you and let you know whether she is special for me as well.

Offline skittish

Why would anybody want to take a prossie out for free?

Shag them for free yeah maybe and I'd be dubious about that too, but take her out?

Online Jimmyredcab

Why would anybody want to take a prossie out for free?

Shag them for free yeah maybe and I'd be dubious about that too, but take her out?

What a strange thing to say.    :crazy:

I have met one of twp pro$$ies who I would love to take out for a meal -------- however under no circumstances would I consider paying for their time.

Offline skittish

What a strange thing to say.    :crazy:

I have met one of twp pro$$ies who I would love to take out for a meal -------- however under no circumstances would I consider paying for their time.

Correct me if I'm wrong but do you have a wife and a family like the OP?

What's he going to do take her miles away from home hoping not to be recognised?
Is he willing to give up his wife and family if he gets found out?
He sounds as though he wants to form some sort of relationship, he can hardly take her out and introduce her to his mates.

It's not complicated hiring a prossie, you find one, book her, pay her, shag her and when you shut the door behind you, you continue with your everyday life.
Why would a family man want to over complicate that and then he'll be wondering how he got caught.

Offline legslover

Why would anybody want to take a prossie out for free?

Shag them for free yeah maybe and I'd be dubious about that too, but take her out?
I didn't think I would ever meet one that I would like to take out either. As I say this is the first one I've asked. We got on so well and I felt there was actually a lot more to her than sucking cocks. It just felt like the right thing to do. I don't expect to meet another one like her again either

Offline legslover

It's not complicated hiring a prossie, you find one, book her, pay her, shag her and when you shut the door behind you, you continue with your everyday life.
Why would a family man want to over complicate that and then he'll be wondering how he got caught.
That's not how it is for everyone. I never shagged her. I'm looking more for companionship than sex. I already work a long way from home and I don't have any mates here in London for her to meet. I'd settle for friendship with her even.

I didn't think I would ever meet one that I would like to take out either. As I say this is the first one I've asked. We got on so well and I felt there was actually a lot more to her than sucking cocks. It just felt like the right thing to do. I don't expect to meet another one like her again either
She sucks cocks for a living. She makes people like you go all fluffy about her cos that way you keep going back for more or writing rave reviews about her so other blokes go and see her so she can suck their cocks. For most blokes on here they would love to take their favourite whore out for a g&t if it meant a free fuck at the end of it. Trouble is it never happens.

Offline skittish

That's not how it is for everyone. I never shagged her. I'm looking more for companionship than sex. I already work a long way from home and I don't have any mates here in London for her to meet. I'd settle for friendship with her even.

Well if your missus is ok with you having a platonic relationship with a prossie then go for it.
There's an element of risk practicing this hobby behind closed doors but forming relationships no matter how far from home can only increase it IMO.

Offline Uglybugball

That's not how it is for everyone. I never shagged her. I'm looking more for companionship than sex.

Hard to judge overall, but it sounds like she saw you as an easy "lay". No sex GFE, result!

Some women in general can sometimes give off wrong signals. Over friendliness can be interpreted that she is desperately in love with you, when that is really her normal way with men.

Looks like she would of been happy to see you, then the next punter(s) caught her eye instead!

Offline PuntingPete

 Am I correct in assuming at you have given this girl your private number? Ie: not a punting phone?
VERY dangerous in my opinion when you have a wife & family.

A schoolboy error if ever I saw one  :thumbsdown:


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