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Author Topic: Advice really needed...think i might have gone too far!  (Read 4371 times)

Evening Gents and Ladies,
I very much apologize for this marathon post....I’m a little agitated at what’s happened.
Ibis central Bristol
I’m going to start with the story....so Romanian girl called “Mary” 23 when I saw her she would only answer to the name Beatrice (I suspect she gave away her real name). So anyway 1 hour at £100...she tries to chuck me out after I’d come after 25 minutes....I’m not having it, I try to explain to her that I have half an hour left and want to try again (I’d previously checked there was no ejaculation limit) she says no, I say I want £50 back....she says no (can hardly speak English)
 After explaining to her that business was business and that she’d lied on her profile, she tries to give me a half hearted massage I ask her to give me a hand job, “no sex baby”   “Right that’s it I’m getting back in my wheelchair”   “she laughs starts to kiss me on the lips I pull away “baby I love you” I laugh back and say “that won’t work, I’m not some old man who you can woo” she starts mimicking me....I keep laughing and start singing Kanye West “Gold Digger”.  Anyway we get me back in the chair. I’ve got my jeans on....knock at the door “who’s that?” Gormless look from her....”man or woman?” nothing from her “let them in”....she lets this guy in.

Me: “Hi mate....many apologies are you with her?
 “Na...Na man”
“Listen this is embarrassing for us both you’ve seen a spastic with no top on....but she will hustle you I’d go somewhere else”   
Me: “Thoughts”
“I don’t really know”
   “If I were you I’d go, save your money”
Her: “ha-ha no baby you stay”
Him: “what are you going to do?”
Me: “Mate I hate to do this to you...we all want to get our rocks off, but I’m not leaving till I’ve got at least £30 in my pocket”
By this time I’m dressed....she’s swearing in Romanian under her breath.
Him: “I think I’ll give it a go.”
Me: “Good luck Fella”     
    “She tries to move the chair....it’s a beast she ain’t moving it
“Him: “just give him £20 quid I’m short on time” 
She gives me 20 quid...I shake his hand and fuck off.

Questions:
1)   Is it weird that I was able to act normal with this guy
2)   Should I have just put it down to experience and fucked off
3)   What should I have done if she’d given me a swift dig or slap round the head (I’m not built for fighting)
4)   Was I too harsh on her? She obviously lived by the rule of once you cum you fuck off.
5)   What do I do next time this happens?
6)   Did I go too far with answering her back

Offline jackdaw

You actually got money back?? Total respect.

Get some lotteries tickets this week... when your lucks in, make the most of it.

Offline Whore Of Babylon

Fucking horrible you were treated this way.

Questions:
1)   Is it weird that I was able to act normal with this guy
No. Why shouldn't you act normally. All parties present knew why you were there. Nothing wrong with that.
2)   Should I have just put it down to experience and fucked off
No, I think you did the right thing. Although it was brave of you and I would not think bad of those who fucked off.

3)   What should I have done if she’d given me a swift dig or slap round the head (I’m not built for fighting)

That would have shown her to be a violent bully git. Not sure, maybe make a very loud fuss. Most people would be on the side of the disabled person who can't defend themselves as easily.

4)   Was I too harsh on her? She obviously lived by the rule of once you cum you fuck off.
She may live by that rule but it's wrong and she will get away with it until it pointed out or not stood for.

5)   What do I do next time this happens?
I think you should state your claim politely but leave if things look like they might get heavy and post neg on here. I don't like the idea of you getting hurt over a lousy £30 but in principle you are completely correct.
You should get what you paid for.

6)   Did I go too far with answering her back
No. She was taking advantage of your disability. Horrid woman.

Exactly where did you think you went to far :music:

Case in point: to my 4 in a bed idea  :manhater:

Tell you what HMD, you did exactly right and got more balls than most of us considering you weren't to know that the other guy may have been part of a set up. Hats off my man!

Offline cosava

HMD - Total respect...more balls than I would have had in the same situation.
« Last Edit: January 29, 2013, 08:54:58 PM by cosava »

Offline Whore Of Babylon

Do you have a link to a profile? So punters know to avoid.

Offline bigone

 sorry to hear about this mate any profile? so we can warn others :scare:

Offline lovingfacials

I think you should state your claim politely but leave if things look like they might get heavy and post neg on here. I don't like the idea of you getting hurt over a lousy £30 but in principle you are completely correct.

Spot on - keep things in perpective.............confrontation is it worth it? and the upside is £30 the downside ??? sometimes its best to walk with health in place and put it down to the other parties being scumbags

£30 is it worth a major incident - in my book no!
« Last Edit: January 29, 2013, 09:11:56 PM by lovingfacials »

Here it is,

A few caveats,  it says she offers bareback obviously, i didn't partake and the oral was covered so my thinking is she didn't know what was being ticked or thought it would attract more clients just ticking everything...obviously it does the opposite.

https://www.adultwork.com/1873554  https://www.adultwork.com/marysoll.

Thanks for all the advice thus far...i'm just worried about the possible violence aspect of it...i mean i always do hotel visits with EE's so i know i'm fairly safe...but you know what people are like when they think you are vunrable.

HMD   


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Offline Mystique46m

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Tell you what I take me hat off to you, you must have a pair of
cojones as big as beach balls.
You behaved amazingly in a weird situation and got some of your dosh back,
sounds like you went just far enough!!

Well done for standing your ground.  :thumbsup:

I'd be more inclined to stop at the nearest phone box and tell the Police of a sex trafficked woman in that hotel.  :diablo:

Offline Whore Of Babylon

Here it is,

A few caveats,  it says she offers bareback obviously, i didn't partake and the oral was covered so my thinking is she didn't know what was being ticked or thought it would attract more clients just ticking everything...obviously it does the opposite.

https://www.adultwork.com/1873554  https://www.adultwork.com/marysoll.

Thanks for all the advice thus far...i'm just worried about the possible violence aspect of it...i mean i always do hotel visits with EE's so i know i'm fairly safe...but you know what people are like when they think you are vunrable.

HMD
The violence aspect is very worrying and in this case not a problem luckily. There are so many arse-holes who take advantage of the vulnerable, as you say. It makes me mad as hell but we have to practical.
Agree, hotel visits are probably the best. Do you have a trusted mate you can give details to; when where and with whom?
It's crap that this industry is like this.

On another note was it her you confirmed the no ejaculation limit with? Even if it wasn't, trying to chuck you out before time is up is a no, no.
« Last Edit: January 29, 2013, 09:30:12 PM by Whore Of Babylon »


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It was all done by text....she was talking to a friend in Romanian who could have done the texting for her , if it was a boyfriend/pimp surely he would have come up straight away and sorted me out....i think a lot of these girls buddy up for a few days and come over to make money.

I did say look her straight in the face "is your boyfriend gonna come kick my ass now? her: ".....what"?  she said what more times then Borat :)

HMD

Thing is i don't see myself as vunrable....i just wasn't gifted with working legs or a strong physique...once i was back in my chair. to a large extent (barring a man coming and kicking my ass) she was fucked :)   

Offline Whore Of Babylon

Nice one, then she would have been double fucked! Hope you got a good one in before she tried to oust you, she looks tasty.

This needs to be a neg fr!

Glad you stood yoir ground - Ive done it a few times - the heart beats fast and adrenalin explodes with fury

Offline Jimmyredcab

I am very, very wary of these Eastern Europeans, many of them are simply fucking liberty takers who don't give two fucks about repeat business because in a few weeks they will be back in Poland/Hungary.
I would rather spend a bit more at HOD and know that they care about reputation. You did right to insist on a partial refund, personally I would have just written it off.   ;)

Offline yumyum3

Sorry to hear about this.
You need to do something about it. It has already been suggested you call the Police and you should also put the review on here in the negative section. People  like this should be put straight out of business and in this case sent straight back to Romania.

Offline ladyofthemansion

An so sorry you had to go through all that and if you do go to the police they will take it seriously.

Offline tda666

Mate, you are a hero. Hat's off my man, I don't think I would have the balls.

Thanks for all the advice Gents and Ladies

Trust me when i say it isn't about balls :)...fact is that she was 23, i'm also 23 i wasn't about to be fucked over by someone dumb enough to A) give me her possible real name....(doesn't really matter i know, just part of the game) and B) to let another client in! it's like the president says the adrenaline kicks in and you weigh up your options.

If the guy hadn't of come in i wouldn't have left anyway, what would she have done called security without being able to speak English? literally the worst she could have done was given me a dig or a black eye....imagine me going past reception with a bleeding nose.

I was also fairly sure that the guy was okay...looked at his hands, paint all over them so maybe works as a tradesman... pretty sheepish probably just stunned by the whole thing, he said very little and i said "i thought she'd called you up here to beat me up" hands up straight away "no...no of course not.  so i had her and him pretty worked out....she wasn't even street smart...he was just an average guy like me...looking for some fun.

 I'm 23 and i still make some rash decisions, and i know that each situation has to be analysed separately but what should be the modus operandi if things go wrong but you still feel safe and in control.

Some of you say walk, some of you say stay?

I'll shut up about it all now :)

Thanks for the help?

HMD               

Offline yumyum3

You need to put this in the negative reviews sections with a link so that others will be warned. Whether you involve the Police or not is up to you but if she's not reported or at least reported on in the negative review sections she will keep doing the same thing to others.


Offline XTC2

Sounds really bad, sorry to say in a similar situation I didn't confront the girl, you've clearly got bigger balls! You should leave a negative review/feedback on auto-censored and Adultwork as well if you can, just so the maximum number of people see it and know to avoid her.


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