What about your security??
How safe are you going from random place to random place, waiting in areas you have never been before, all on the whim of a stranger on the end of pay as you go mobile? Someone who might pick up your next call to tell you the next piece of the puzzle or just leave you there standing around for muggers to pick off?
The WG is safe enough in her flat where she should have a security buddy, maid, cctv, locks etc.
You on the other hand are walking around a fucking estate, like a zombie... by yourself..... with £100 in your pocket..
Still think her safety is the major consideration here?
Bang on. Last time this happened to me (few weeks back) I was wandering around some god-awful estate in Canning Town, the sort of place where, as dusk was descending, I did not feel comfortable. And I'm a 6ft plus guy, able to take care of himself, mostly.
The other thing is, that in my experience these sort of 'call me when you get to the garage on the corner' prospective punts never end well. So I avoid them. No address, no deal.
So maybe these WGs do get timewasters. Well, I ain't one on them. I'll show up on time, and with the money. Why? Because I want a fuck and I want to minimise my chances of not getting one.