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Offline mystery7

Imagine earning between 100/200 pounds and hour, for a minimum of 3/4 hrs a day, 5/6 days a week. Thats a minimum of 1500 a week tax free cash for largely (depending on how you look at it) unskilled work.
 So what i'm wondering is, what do escorts do when they jack it all in? I'm aware that some WGs are escorting to pay for education etc to move on to high paid employment. But I imagine alot of girls fall into through lack of skills, economic climate etc.
So how does a person go from earning such large ammounts of cash for essentially a 3/5 hour day. To more mundane, average paid employment? Must be a hell of an adjustment. Can imagine the lure to go back is at times extremely tempting.
Banning reason: Abusive + Obsessing over prossie

Offline James999

Many just continue to work but do so with dusty phones and bad attitudes  :cool:

Others open brothels / agency's and try and profit off younger girls  :coolgirl:

Or of course snare them a Mug Punter who will take them as partner, this however doesn't work for long when the mug punter realises she's well past her sell by date and realises he can still purchase fresh stock (within date)  :music:

Coincidentally, mystery7, I discussed something like this with one WG I saw recently.   She's on AW while she's doing a degree and said she's already planning her "retirement" from AW and told me that there were a number of her regulars whom she was going to keep in touch with under the "normal terms and conditions".;)

Is that what they call "a fall-back position"?

Online Jimmyredcab

Can imagine the lure to go back is at times extremely tempting.

This is why some girls "retire" more times than Frank Sinatra.

They soon realise how hard it is in the real world, even with their quite often useless degree they will be lucky to earn £15 an hour and that is before tax.   :hi:

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Coincidentally, mystery7, I discussed something like this with one WG I saw recently.   She's on AW while she's doing a degree and said she's already planning her "retirement" from AW and told me that there were a number of her regulars whom she was going to keep in touch with under the "normal terms and conditions".;)

Is that what they call "a fall-back position"?

A degree in what I wonder -------------- deckchair folding.  ????
Thousands of students are leaving university with degrees and are unable to find a suitable job.

Offline Ali Katt

This is why some girls "retire" more times than Frank Sinatra.

They soon realise how hard it is in the real world, even with their quite often useless degree they will be lucky to earn £15 an hour and that is before tax.   :hi:
All true. I'm willing to believe some escorts do give up good jobs to become fulltime escorts, the usual reason they give is being too independent and wanting their own way to paraphrase. Considering most escorts don't wake up before 10am is there any wonder, they can't go back to doing a normal job, money aside, some have the social skills and manners of a snail.

Offline James999

I'm willing to believe some escorts do give up good jobs to become fulltime escorts,

I've never met one  :cool:

Why would they? you have to remember to "normal people" the thought of working as a pro$$ie is repugnant  :hi:

Online Jimmyredcab

I've never met one  :cool:

Why would they? you have to remember to "normal people" the thought of working as a pro$$ie is repugnant  :hi:

Simple answer.
Of course it depends what we mean by a good job --------------- let's assume she is being paid £30K a year, after tax and fares to work she will probably clear £400 a week, as a pro$$ie she could clear more than that in a day, a 4 hour day as well.

Offline James999

£30k is nto really regarded as a good job, I'd say £50 / £60k is more the level of a good job, but the point being normal people don't turn to prostitution, it's nearly always done out of desperation when they have no alternative to get income / extra income.

Yes on the face of it the pro$$ie income looks attrctive, but theearning span is pretty short, and it tends to take it's toll.

There are nto many wealthy pro$$ies around, you get the odd boast about decent cars etc, but they usually tend to be 2004 Audi's or the like, a few "Madams" appear to have made a few quid though  :hi:

So what i'm wondering is, what do escorts do when they jack it all in? I'm aware that some WGs are escorting to pay for education etc to move on to high paid employment. But I imagine alot of girls fall into through lack of skills, economic climate etc.

I think for many escorts its very much as case of 'make as much as you can while you can'. With every day that passes they are getting older, less attractive and newer younger women are entering the game. Not to mention their personal circumstances might be changing, bio clocks, the pressure to settle down, family\partner pressures, fear of being found out - all these things might affect how long they can actually remain in the game whilst also keeping it a secret.

I don't believe the whole 'i'm doing this for college', it's a cliche that has been done to death and no one believes it anyway. I also don't believe the generalisation that most are uneducated. You can have a degree and still be working in a dead end job with no immediate prospects.

I would say the vast majority of prostitutes in this country are opportunists rather than desperate. If there was an easy way to make a lot of money would you not do it?  Why work 4 weeks in an office when you can work for 4 days in a luxury apartment?


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I would say the vast majority of prostitutes in this country are opportunists rather than desperate. If there was an easy way to make a lot of money would you not do it?  Why work 4 weeks in an office when you can work for 4 days in a luxury apartment?

I agree that most are not desperate, greedy ----- yes, lazy---- yes, but not desperate.

Offline lovingfacials

I grew up with a few lads that earn their 'corn' on the wrong side of the tracks so to speak and their position is similair, when you can earn 'good money' easily and quickly going legit/striaght' call it what you will is soooooooooooooo tough from what you can/have done in the past

The old saying ' if you dance with the devil'

Offline Ali Katt

I think for many escorts its very much as case of 'make as much as you can while you can'. With every day that passes they are getting older, less attractive and newer younger women are entering the game. Not to mention their personal circumstances might be changing, bio clocks, the pressure to settle down, family\partner pressures, fear of being found out - all these things might affect how long they can actually remain in the game whilst also keeping it a secret.

I don't believe the whole 'i'm doing this for college', it's a cliche that has been done to death and no one believes it anyway. I also don't believe the generalisation that most are uneducated. You can have a degree and still be working in a dead end job with no immediate prospects.

I would say the vast majority of prostitutes in this country are opportunists rather than desperate. If there was an easy way to make a lot of money would you not do it?  Why work 4 weeks in an office when you can work for 4 days in a luxury apartment?
Some good points sucky. While I have met a few escorts who have genuinely been students - I'm sure most blow their cash on £150 nights out on the tiles and expensive shoes, rather than paying uni or college fees. While some work from nice apartments, many I have met work from shithole council houses in less-salubrious areas (and whilst some will tell you their council accommodation is paid for by the taxpayer it is neither here nor there or relevant) - they do it to cut their overheads. And any prossie who moans about not having a tinpot to piss in after taking off their overheads of condoms, value wet wipes, value men's shower gel, rent, baby oil and fake tan can get to fuck.

Also, some of the escort who insist on raising their prices as they keep getting older have no common sense. They are definitely the chancers you speak of.

Offline k

The tax situation is something that I suspect is not thought of at the beginning of a girl taking up escorting.  They think they can earn a fortune, but at some point they either have to spend it or imagine they can put it into something like property.  The problem with this lack of forethought is that cash cannot be spent so easily.  Retailers have an obligation to notify HMRC of any cash transactions over (I think) £10,000 (or else they - the retailer - are in trouble).  So those visions of retiring and buying a house are fantasy.  Banknote designs are changed regularly.  The usual reason given is to cut the possibility of forgery, but another reason is to force cash out from under mattresses.  Yes, you can take old banknotes in to get them changed for currency, but is a girl going to draw attention to herself for doing that?  I've heard stories from girls that just paying a couple of hundred quid into a bank in the form of cash is enough for the cashier to ask some very difficult questions.

Online Jimmyredcab

Banknote designs are changed regularly.  The usual reason given is to cut the possibility of forgery, but another reason is to force cash out from under mattresses.  Yes, you can take old banknotes in to get them changed for currency, but is a girl going to draw attention to herself for doing that?  I've heard stories from girls that just paying a couple of hundred quid into a bank in the form of cash is enough for the cashier to ask some very difficult questions.

The old £50 note will soon be taken out of circulation, you are correct, it is not just to stop forgery. Many people have a huge stash of currency that they can't bank, they could be drug dealers, bank robbers or even prostitutes.
Barclays refuse to change up these old notes, they tell you to put them through your account, you can change them at the Bank of England but anything over £1000 you have to provide two forms of ID.

Offline Whore Of Babylon

I can't speak for the whole of prositute kind but I can for myself and the few other WGs I know.

Haven't  been driven to renting my body out of desperation, lack of sufficient cash to live or lack of affection and/or sex.
I doubt in this country many are. With the the exception of those who have an expensive drug habit and any way of making fast cash would be appealing for them, the amount of drug addicted prossies is pretty low.
I had a fairly well paid job, 30k  a year which I didn't really enjoy. I took up whoring because I could earn more with something I enjoy a lot more. If that makes me greedy, then so be it. I make men and couples happy in return for cash. I wouldn't say I was lazy, I work 4days a week selling my wares and start at 9am and finish 9pm and 2days at my 'normal' part time job.
I'm sure there are a lot of greedy/lazy hos, the same as in any highly paid industry or indeed self employed person, who is doing well.

I think the price is high at an hourly rate because it's a 'taboo' job. Not everyone can/would like to do it. There are many more punters than prossies, simply - demand is higher than supply.

Tax - I'm self employed so pay it. I decided if I wanted to do this for years then I wouldn't be able to get away with not paying. So I keep the tax man happy. I know many who don't a few that do. That's all Ill say on the subject.

Would I want to give it up and earn less? Nope. But I might decide to, when/if I get too old but at the moment I'm saving for the future. So this is a career choice. Not one that's recommended by the careers adviser at school. But it's a good one for me.
I've also noticed the few older WGs I know are still doing well, so there are many punters who like/enjoy mature SPs.
A few Ladies I know have retired or tried to settle down with a boyfriend/husband find that they miss the variety and frequency of sex and of course the high wage. But mostly being your own boss.



« Last Edit: January 20, 2013, 07:18:43 PM by Whore Of Babylon »

I don't see how most WGs could give up escorting unless they are registered as being self employed, if they were escorting and not paying tax how would they explain why they had a big gap in their employment history when they apply for a job unless they have kids.

Online Jimmyredcab

I don't see how most WGs could give up escorting unless they are registered as being self employed, if they were escorting and not paying tax how would they explain why they had a big gap in their employment history when they apply for a job unless they have kids.

Simple answer.
They would be claiming benefits, that way there would be no gap, simply unemployed.  :drinks:

Offline James999

I don't see how most WGs could give up escorting unless they are registered as being self employed, if they were escorting and not paying tax how would they explain why they had a big gap in their employment history when they apply for a job unless they have kids.

They Lie  :hi:

Offline Whore Of Babylon



I don't believe the whole 'i'm doing this for college', it's a cliche that has been done to death and no one believes it anyway. I also don't believe the generalisation that most are uneducated. You can have a degree and still be working in a dead end job with no immediate prospects.

I know one WG who is at uni and one Lady who is lap dancing while at uni. They plan to pack it in when they have their degree. I don't know if they will succeed in their chosen field or work or not.

Offline Whore Of Babylon

They Lie  :hi:
They would have to do that one. Unless they were claiming benefits. If I decide to pack it in and become employed I would have to lie about the nature of my self employment.
« Last Edit: January 20, 2013, 07:35:20 PM by Whore Of Babylon »

Online Jimmyredcab

I know one WG who is at uni and one Lady who is lap dancing while at uni. They plan to pack it in when they have their degree.

Obtaining a degree does not guarantee that you will get a job ------ as thousands of students have found out.

The Labour government wanted 50% of school leavers to go on to further education, that watered down the value of a degree ------ it did wonders for the unemployment figures though.  :rolleyes:

Offline Whore Of Babylon

Very true, so you guys can expect more SPs, more choice, so lower prices. But punters will have less to spend.

Online Jimmyredcab

Very true, so you guys can expect more SPs, more choice, so lower prices.

That has already happened, the problem is finding quality, my first ever FR on auto-censored was in 2001, the fee was £100 an hour, 12 years down the line you can still find numerous girls at that rate.

Offline Whore Of Babylon

That has already happened, the problem is finding quality, my first ever FR on auto-censored was in 2001, the fee was £100 an hour, 12 years down the line you can still find numerous girls at that rate.
Yep, quality could go down due to extra WGs  -taking it up because they can't get their preferred job - are less likely to have a good attitude towards their work?

I was trying to look on the bright side for you Jimmy :D
« Last Edit: January 20, 2013, 07:51:53 PM by Whore Of Babylon »


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