How does punting change the way you view/interact with women

[a203203]

Punting first-timer here. Curious to hear from people who have been doing this for awhile. Does punting change your daily interactions with women? In the office? At bars? On the street? On dates?

[char45]

It doesn't for me, it's made my sexually more adventurous but knowing I can express that through punting means I'm less frustrated

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Punting hasn't changed the way that I view or interact with women and as a 30-year punter I doubt that it ever will.

What has changed my view of younger women is using Seeking Arrangement. Previously, I'd look at an attractive 20-year old and think that she was out of my league because of my age. Now I look and think "I wonder if she likes to fuck older guys". I've fucked many fit young girls in the last 6 months or so and it's been better than punting.

[DannyJames]

Punting first-timer here. Curious to hear from people who have been doing this for awhile. Does punting change your daily interactions with women? In the office? At bars? On the street? On dates?

It hasn't really changed me.

What it does for some guys is it makes them realise that they don't have to be controlled by women using sex. When you know that you can get a few quid out the ATM before sticking it in a whore not long after, you realise that you don't need to put up with the shit so many women attempt to pull.

[mrhappypants]

Punting first-timer here. Curious to hear from people who have been doing this for awhile. Does punting change your daily interactions with women? In the office? At bars? On the street? On dates?

In about 5 years, when you grow some hair on your chin and loose your virginity, come back and ask again.

Dave

[JamesCollins]

I now just walk up to women in the street and cum over their tits without asking

[Northernbloke]

In about 5 years, when you grow some hair on your chin and loose your virginity, come back and ask again.

Dave

Seems a perfectly reasonable question to ask. There's always some smartarse who jumps on someone else.

[Jerboa]

It hasn't really changed me.

What it does for some guys is it makes them realise that they don't have to be controlled by women using sex. When you know that you can get a few quid out the ATM before sticking it in a whore not long after, you realise that you don't need to put up with the shit so many women attempt to pull.

Yes true, I don't run around for women like a lapdog, and don't play their silly games.

[ickydicky]

i look at civvies and price them. how much would i pay to have them suck my cock and shag them

[Rockhead]

Yes true, I don't run around for women like a lapdog, and don't play their silly games.

Agree with this, and DannyJames post.

While I don't think my daily interactions with women have changed, I am no longer effected or remotely interested in the stress-inducing nonsense and game-playing that some undertake. Equals they are - made of precious china they are not.

[RedKettle]

not really - although I did wonder if the very cute EE girl serving me when I paid for petrol would like to earn some decent cash.....

[fatboy]

Agree with those who work out what they would pay.,....but also
Play an undressing game in the supermarket, that is look at a woman and decide where my hands would be next ( or tongue, or cock etc.)
Also smile a lot more at females and make eye contact, think it is my natural charm and then realise my flies are undone again. Bugger !

[OakTree]

I have a general confidence with women I never used to have. Where as in the past I'd be very self conscious in the presence of a really fit woman, I'm now not fazed at all.

[Falstaff]

Yes true, I don't run around for women like a lapdog, and don't play their silly games.

They are also instinctively repelled by singleton desperation, and that make it only harder to pull for me anyway. Not being desperate has the opposite positively attracting effect.

For married men it's a game changer as you can no longer be manipulated that way.

Either way you can see why civvy women hate the game. It levels the playing field.

[a203203]

Punting hasn't changed the way that I view or interact with women and as a 30-year punter I doubt that it ever will.

What has changed my view of younger women is using Seeking Arrangement. Previously, I'd look at an attractive 20-year old and think that she was out of my league because of my age. Now I look and think "I wonder if she likes to fuck older guys". I've fucked many fit young girls in the last 6 months or so and it's been better than punting.

Now you have intrigued me with Seeking Arrangement. Have searched here for details but don't see much. I gather it's a 'sugar daddy' type thing, but in practice, but difference does it make to getting the deed done? Is it more expensive? Better quality girls? More hassle to arrange?

[Ben4454]

Now you have intrigued me with Seeking Arrangement. Have searched here for details but don't see much. I gather it's a 'sugar daddy' type thing, but in practice, but difference does it make to getting the deed done? Is it more expensive? Better quality girls? More hassle to arrange?

It's £50 a month. You'll spend a bit of time trying to find someone but you can get overnights for £200-£300. In my opinion it is too much hassle. Right now its kind of mutating into pof. Stuck with women with entitlement issues. I will stick to AW.

[davison]

I have a general confidence with women I never used to have. Where as in the past I'd be very self conscious in the presence of a really fit woman, I'm now not fazed at all.

Hard to put into words but this is close to how I feel. It's a real leveller to be thinking "you look a hell of a lot like the polish girl I fucked in the ass last week" when you speak to a woman who is used to having men fall at her feet.

The unfortunate side effect is I now associate a female Romanian accent with a general willingness to suck my cock. Leads to misunderstandings with other customer facing servic professionals.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Occasionally muttering   "How much"?.

[MJ.spritzen]

I generally feel more confident around women, and dont regard any woman as "out of my league". It's also reassuring that every one of the girls I've been with that i regarded as "fit" actually have body parts that are less than perfect. Some cellulite here, some weird mole there etc. So the girls you seen in the clubs or on the street will have these things too.

Also, it's nice to see other guys fawning over a girl then you yourself getting a much nicer looking girl around your cock an hour later.

Cash is king.

[Ben4454]

It made me realise that all of the hoops you have to go through 'persuing' a woman is not worth it. Some guys love the chase and will spend all of their day texting a girl but me I have better things to do than chase a girl for her hole. I have passions/hobbies and work that I do. My life is too busy to fuck around with a woman.

When I started punting or a few years after I found I was better financially, had more time and resources when I primarily punted instead of chasing girls around. Guys are starting to realise this which is why i feel punting has taken off in recent years.

[Diehard]

Punting hasn't changed the way that I view or interact with women and as a 30-year punter I doubt that it ever will.

What has changed my view of younger women is using Seeking Arrangement. Previously, I'd look at an attractive 20-year old and think that she was out of my league because of my age. Now I look and think "I wonder if she likes to fuck older guys". I've fucked many fit young girls in the last 6 months or so and it's been better than punting.

How much work goes into SA though? To fuck one girl on SA, in the same time you could fuck ten through punting. That is the critical difference I believe

[Diehard]

Made me more ambivalent to women. I can't really bothered chatting them up and find now I really struggle to concentrate on anything they say unles it's about cars or sport.

I just think fuck it, I'll Book a hooker later if horny or the next day.

At the end of the day all men punt. Women love money and one way or the other the fuck a girl you pay for it. Some guys like to pretend they are able to pull a girl through their charm and looks but it doesn't work like that. Ultimately a woman makes her decision on whether she thinks he will fund her lifestyle.

Personally I prefer the punting route. Quicker, easier and I've no need to pretend I'm not an a hole.

Other than my ambivalence though, my perception of women is unchanged. I.e they are all money grabbing deceitful individuals full of contradictions

[OakTree]

Made me more ambivalent to women. I can't really bothered chatting them up and find now I really struggle to concentrate on anything they say unles it's about cars or sport.

I just think fuck it, I'll Book a hooker later if horny or the next day.

At the end of the day all men punt. Women love money and one way or the other the fuck a girl you pay for it. Some guys like to pretend they are able to pull a girl through their charm and looks but it doesn't work like that. Ultimately a woman makes her decision on whether she thinks he will fund her lifestyle.

Personally I prefer the punting route. Quicker, easier and I've no need to pretend I'm not an a hole.

Other than my ambivalence though, my perception of women is unchanged. I.e they are all money grabbing deceitful individuals full of contradictions

I have to say my experience of civvie women has been quite the opposite. In fact your description rather fits me in my younger days. I was generally with women far too good for me in that they treated me like someone special where as I was mainly and probably at best indifferent to them. Even now I have a doting wife who pretty much looks after me whilst I sneak around seeing prostitutes. Being deceitful is a way of life for me.

[Johnbean]

i look at civvies and price them. how much would i pay to have them suck my cock and shag them

This sums it up nice and eloquently. +1 from me.

[ickydicky]

a woman is just a fuck but a good cigar's a fine smoke

[Jumping Jack Flash]

How much work goes into SA though? To fuck one girl on SA, in the same time you could fuck ten through punting. That is the critical difference I believe

Personally I found it took no time at all. From memory it was 3 days from becoming a premium member to being balls deep in a hot 19 year old student. Read the thread in off topic if you have time, it's over 200 pages but is a goldmine of hints and tips.

I would much rather fuck a fresh teenager who is eager to please and very experimental than a jaded, clock watching WG.

[unclepokey]

I find that now I'm a punter I do act like a bit of a farmer and 'appraise' the conformation of the woman in the supermarket checkout, the woman waiting for the lift, the woman pushing the buggy down the road, the woman serving in every shop I visit, the women on the telly reading the news or giving the weather forecast (OH Carole - that bosom - the one I simply cannot take my eyes off!). But do you know?
The best bits of a woman are between her ears and whether she enjoys sex.
Uncle Pokey

[azrael]

Before i started punting i considered my self an introvert maybe even a recluse, two years since my first punt i can hold a conversation with a " hottie" in a bar. Just like last week walked upto a bar, planted my self next to a lovely lass and started chatting the topic came around to me saying i would like to take her home to bed (now i was all tressed and pressed, not in casuals mind you) she quipped that i had no chance, i replied not even for a million. She paused and said "yeah if you had it" i said "what about one thousand" her reply was "what kinda girl do you think i am" i replied "we've already established that, now we're negotiating" she poured her drink on me and left. But a few years ago i would havent said that at all 

[fairfield]

Before i started punting i considered my self an introvert maybe even a recluse, two years since my first punt i can hold a conversation with a " hottie" in a bar....

Azrael, like your style, shame about the result. Hope i am anywhere near as confident as yourself in another 18 months.
Punting too has given me confidence/resilience round women but as yet in a much smaller way.
Before,  if i tried to smile/speak to an attractive woman they would regard me as something they would scrape off their shoe. Over many years you get used to it, but you still cant help a wince inside.
After,  the bitches still act the same,  but now i shrug it off easily knowing i can be shagging a lot fitter/younger version (a whole lot fitter/younger!) with just an unsnap of a wallet.
[ofc my main problem now is avoiding WGs who regard me as something to be scraped off their shoe. Long live UKP!]

[azrael]

Azrael, like your style, shame about the result. Hope i am anywhere near as confident as yourself in another 18 months.
Punting too has given me confidence/resilience round women but as yet in a much smaller way.
Before,  if i tried to smile/speak to an attractive woman they would regard me as something they would scrape off their shoe. Over many years you get used to it, but you still cant help a wince inside.
After,  the bitches still act the same,  but now i shrug it off easily knowing i can be shagging a lot fitter/younger version (a whole lot fitter/younger!) with just an unsnap of a wallet.
[ofc my main problem now is avoiding WGs who regard me as something to be scraped off their shoe. Long live UKP!]

Nah it was all good, it had the desired effect i still went home lucky, just not with her mind you

[Jerboa]

Before i started punting i considered my self an introvert maybe even a recluse, two years since my first punt i can hold a conversation with a " hottie" in a bar. Just like last week walked upto a bar, planted my self next to a lovely lass and started chatting the topic came around to me saying i would like to take her home to bed (now i was all tressed and pressed, not in casuals mind you) she quipped that i had no chance, i replied not even for a million. She paused and said "yeah if you had it" i said "what about one thousand" her reply was "what kinda girl do you think i am" i replied "we've already established that, now we're negotiating" she poured her drink on me and left. But a few years ago i would havent said that at all 

The Churchill school of negotiation lol. 

[BonViveur]

Since I started punting, I've been trying to suss out who has dabbled in being, or is currently a working girl. Last year I worked with a woman who mentioned some practises involving needle play that I doubt most civvies would try, so I had my suspicions that she was an escort previously, she also just seemed different in a good way especially the way she engaged with the men. After she had resigned, I was browsing Adultwork a few months later, and there she was! Knew I was right...

[Swansea lad]

A few women have told me im cocky, I know im not shy with women anymore, I sort of have the attitude that i have banged much better looking girls than them so their nothing special.

[ickydicky]

Since I started punting, I've been trying to suss out who has dabbled in being, or is currently a working girl. Last year I worked with a woman who mentioned some practises involving needle play that I doubt most civvies would try, so I had my suspicions that she was an escort previously, she also just seemed different in a good way especially the way she engaged with the men. After she had resigned, I was browsing Adultwork a few months later, and there she was! Knew I was right...

well.....did you?????

[Jerboa]

well.....did you?????

Yeah did he go shag her?

[BonViveur]

I've just started getting back into punting after a year out so I haven't got round to it yet, but she is very much on my "to do" list. Can't wait to see her reaction when she opens the door... 

[Diehard]

Personally I found it took no time at all. From memory it was 3 days from becoming a premium member to being balls deep in a hot 19 year old student. Read the thread in off topic if you have time, it's over 200 pages but is a goldmine of hints and tips.

I would much rather fuck a fresh teenager who is eager to please and very experimental than a jaded, clock watching WG.

That thread is massive! I've said before I'm tempted but I do think it maybe only useful for guys based in in or around London city.

My main problem though is having to register with my credit card. Too much risk! Only takes one pissed off girl to make a false accusation and you are easily traceable.

I've no idea why a site like that doesn't allow people to pay by texting where they deduct say 15 quid off the balance for one month. Easy, quick and anonymous.

[Yeboahsleftfoot]

I've never been shy with women, confident bordering on cocky, punting is the only way for a married man to have as much sex as he desires and can afford with cracking young birds, no strings attached. After a good punt I feel fucking marvellous and for at least 48 hours afterwards, in my head, any female I come into contact with, in the street, bar, coffee shop, business, leisure looks at me in a way that shows she fancies me. Punting has probably skewed my opinion and makes women more of a commodity in my eyes.

[purple_t]

It's definitely changed me. On one hand, I am more confident with women generally, both talking to them and when having sex with them. On the other hand, I'm less bothered about approaching civs now. Younger women especially will use their sexual capital as a bartering tool, they know how to exploit the power they have over men, so they will play mind games, make you chase them, spend money on them etc... if a civvie seems too much like hard work now I'll just give up on her, because I know I can always book a WG to fulfill my sexual needs. I think this is why the majority of women have a deep dislike of prostitutes and prostitution, because they are putting a price on sex and turning it into a simple clear-cut transaction, sex that civs use essentially to try and control men.

[Dodo]

I look at really tasty girls in the street and think 'fuck me I've shagged better than you' and carry on with a nice satisfying smile on my face.

[anonyorks]

I look at really tasty girls in the street and think 'fuck me I've shagged better than you' and carry on with a nice satisfying smile on my face.

+1

Two years ago I'd be thinking "I wonder what it would be like".

I have far more confidence in talking with women socially or in business now