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Author Topic: Nice bloke syndrome  (Read 5770 times)

Offline SUMO61

I'm a nice bloke, get good feedback on AW, but I've noticed a downside to this..

My regulars have started getting more chatty at the start of the meet e.g chatting about all sorts and i'm going " yeah, how lovely etc.."

I just want her to shut the fuck up and get into slut role. I can't talk rationally with a hard on, i'm just focussed on the goods. Happy to chat afterwards, but not when I arrive all sexed up...

The trend is first punt, great, second, ok and then after that, goes downhill, usually ending up with wilt or a no cum scenario..

It's my fault, I shouldn't be so pleasant and approachable. I think i'll have to either tell them to zip it, or move on to new punts and be a bit less amiable...

Online cueball

They usually get the message with me early doors, she tries chatting, I knod my head and continue stripping her, feeling her up and sticking my tongue down her throat.

It seems to work a treat with the chatty lasses  :D

I'm happy to have a natter after but at the start I'm in podge mode with only one thing on my mind.

You've got to drive the punt in a respectful, polite way

Offline LL

Tell them you're experimenting with S&M and bring a ball-gag along for her  :hi:

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Offline Tierney

Got to admit I've noticed this on a couple of occasions.

I think for the girls they've got it in the back of their mind that every time they meet a new client that he's going to be an axe murderer so when they know they've got someone coming who isn't a total pain in the arse (unless they're up for anal of course) then they relax a bit more.

A tip I've learnt is that if I find a girl I know I'll want to see more than a couple of times I'll drop a few hints early one that a big fantasy for me is for the girl to answer the door naked. Most will be up for this, if they're indies, so even if they are in chatty mode then they're still naked and if they really insist on telling me about their life then I can always start the reverse oral.

Online Hertsgent

Not had that problem so much myself, although my habit is to strip down to my undercrackers in one smooth motion as I hand over the cash....perhaps this is a good signal  :crazy:

Offline unclepokey

Like Herts gent I waste no time in getting my kit off but my Sloggi Tangas for Men seem to make the ladies pause for breath to admire the contours of Uncle's bulge. They mostly continue to chatter away but the remedy is simple enough namely stuff their cake holes with cock.

Uncle Pokey

Chatting is just a way to run down your clock of paid time.

I just stick my cock in their gobs. Shuts them up nicely.

When i book a WG wether ive seen her before or not, business has to start within 10 minutes of me handing her the cash else i will ask the question eg. How come you havent started yet? sounds harsh but im here for the sex, if i want a long convo with someone ive got plenty of freinds who will do so, just saying  :timeout:

Offline ickydicky

aye just stick your cock in their mouth
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How often are you seeing these regulars op?could it be they think you are looking for a girlfriend substitute as opposed to just a fuck hence the chitchat?

Offline Roth

How often are you seeing these regulars op?could it be they think you are looking for a girlfriend substitute as opposed to just a fuck hence the chitchat?

+1 Your right.  :thumbsup: Sounds like they are. Trouble is that no matter how nice a bloke the OP is these prossies are still charging him for their time.  :( :( Different matter if the chat was off the clock afterwards.  Probably needs to be straight up with them or move on.  :hi:

Offline itk

Tell her, 'Let's get down to the business I'm here for, and we will continue the chat after my time.' Chances are she won't give you the time of day if it's over the allotted time

i get where the OP is coming from,  used to get this a lot,  and not wanting to be rude let it slide.

nowadays,  i still chat but make sure it doesn't stop me getting undressed,  then either start kissing them or guide their hand to where i want it to go,  this usually works and doesn't spoil the mood.

I do believe most aren't wasting time,  but genuinely just being friendly.

+1 Your right.  :thumbsup: Sounds like they are. Trouble is that no matter how nice a bloke the OP is these prossies are still charging him for their time.  :( :( Different matter if the chat was off the clock afterwards.  Probably needs to be straight up with them or move on.  :hi:
Agreed nothing wrong with chit chat as long as it's on top of the time you have paid  :hi:

some chat on arrival is necessary, to settle nerves on both sides, even with regulars.
And its the polite thing to do.
like most, I'm happy to chat while undressing. But when I'm stood in my underpants, sporting a semi, chat is over.

As cueball said "its your responsibility to drive the appointment in a polite and respectful manner"
when youre ready, I would stop responding to her chat, maybe nod and say 'hmmm', but no encouragement..
For me you cant just grab her - its rude and will piss her off. You need to get her to come to you.
I do this with a cheeky smile, eye contact and a beckoning finger.
Once shes within arm reach, its game on.

Offline two20

I'm totally afflicted by this, the trouble is its part of me and I can't turn it off. I'd love to say "I don't give a fuck if your cat's died" but in reality it's nothing like that. Maybe role play is the answer, you play the part of a WG and I'll be a Punter, Oh shit thats what its supposed to be  :)

I have experienced the chatty prossie syndrome many times. Nowadays I tell her that we can have a good old natter later but in the meantime I would like her mouth around my cock. I feel this unambiguous approach normally works.

I think it's time to move to another girl and take another approach this time. With my last regular i did have some of this but it didn't count as my time. If it started to i just used to change the subject to something sexual right away.

If she's naked push her on the bed and eat her pussy. She can talk away all she wants and you're happy enough.

The only problem with being direct is that the deluded woman might stick your details up on saafe as an abusive punter thus blackballing you from any more punts.

Funny how the prossie wants to chit chat during the punt or after the money has been handed over maybe suggest that the convo can be had after the punt, you will be surprised with the response you get back on that one  :hi:

Offline James999

I'm a nice bloke, get good feedback on AW, but I've noticed a downside to this..

My regulars have started getting more chatty at the start of the meet e.g chatting about all sorts and i'm going " yeah, how lovely etc.."

I just want her to shut the fuck up and get into slut role. I can't talk rationally with a hard on, i'm just focussed on the goods. Happy to chat afterwards, but not when I arrive all sexed up...

The trend is first punt, great, second, ok and then after that, goes downhill, usually ending up with wilt or a no cum scenario..

It's my fault, I shouldn't be so pleasant and approachable. I think i'll have to either tell them to zip it, or move on to new punts and be a bit less amiable...

Paid time is for shagging, if a pro$$ie wants a chat then do it in her time / off the clock  :thumbsup:

Just tell them you want to try roleplay, and the first one you want to try is her as a mute  :music:

If you're seeing a regular it's easy to set the ground rules. You return for a guaranteed good session. As such she needs to mix it up a bit and surprise you. Chat is for off the clock as you enjoy her company but you don't pay anyone over a £1 a minute for the pleasure. If that doesn't work for her it's time to move on for a good while. Tell her you need to watch your pound notes before hand and see what you get. Most regs will bend over backwards to keep a good reg. If not she shouldn't be your reg in the first place.

Offline Ellroy44

I know where you're coming from mate, am quite an affable fella myself. Best to be polite for a few mins while casually removing shoes and socks while engaged in chit chat. Make a show of putting your phone on silent etc throw a few compliments her way before moving things definitively towards fucking  :D

Offline mrfishyfoo

Its a familiarity thing fella like what others have said before me. A regular should know that you are there to f**k her not to chat with her.

If she wants to chat suggest she does it on her time after you have had your fun and see how she reacts to that !!!


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