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Men use relationships to get sex, women use sex to get relationships.
Once the man withdraws the relationship --- the sex gets withdrawn
Once the woman withdraws the sex --- the man cuddles her and says honey its ok and cuddles her in bed.
I think this is the reason sex dries up as soon as you get married. The woman knows you can no longer just simply walk away and find someone else.
This is why I choose to be unmarried and free. I can fuck who I want and never suffer from withdrawn sex at home. I could never stand for it. Although for some guys i know it is difficult when you have kids and a big family. It adds so many complications that simply walking away isn't an option.
All this.
I'd love to have met someone, fall in love n all that shit (I'm a romantic-I always offer the girl the wipes for her face before cleaning my cock!), get married, couple of nippers etc. But I'm not handsome or cool or successful enough to find the kind of woman who actually enjoys sex and is decent enough to recognise how vital it is in a relationship.
The thought of being with someone I love and being constantly rejected is horrible, the thought of being in a marriage with kids and having to leave it, only to see the kids at weekends and have them grow up calling some asexual wonder 'daddy' is fucking horrific.
I don't think I could be married and see WGs. Not judging anyone who does, you do what you need to. But i just don't like the idea of 'cheating', even if it's just a WG. You shouldn't really have to imo. It
should be part of the contract that you keep your partner satisfied.
Plus, if I'm honest, I do like variety...