Rebecca...I'd get your reply in quick if i were you or maybe what they are saying is true.
Oh, and it's not true if she does??
Some people have their eyes full of fluff. I've given her credit where credit is due. She has been polite, hasn't lost her temper, has said a few reasonable things inbetween justifying what is essentially spin, and is probably a very nice girl underneath it all. She is mature enough to acknowledge when she is in error to an extent but not yet mature enough to correct the error and contribute something of value to us here on the forum. She'll go away and hide instead probably. And (I am hoping) one day grow up to be a real person with something to be proud of. She asked for feedback and probably got a bit more than she bargained for perhaps, but none of it said in spite.
Why, dear fluffie Dave, do you well-meaningly suggest she compound her error by digging her heels in? She probably has the sense and dignity not to, even if your shiny-armour brain wants to assuage her delusion - or is that yours . . .