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Offline mystery7

Hey guys. I was wondering if any of you have fallen for a WG before. Or even dated someone who does escorting. I've seen a few girls who have partners or husbands and it baffles me how they keep it together. Also every now and then, I meet and escort I take a real shine to, bit of a headfuck to be honest. As any other time you'd just ask someone out, but obviously a bit tricky when you've just paid them for sex.
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Offline Jimmyredcab

Hey guys. I was wondering if any of you have fallen for a WG before. Or even dated someone who does escorting. I've seen a few girls who have partners or husbands and it baffles me how they keep it together.

Not hard to work out, the "husband" is happy to have found a terrific source of income.    :thumbsup:

Offline Lurtz

Hey guys. I was wondering if any of you have fallen for a WG before. Or even dated someone who does escorting. I've seen a few girls who have partners or husbands and it baffles me how they keep it together. Also every now and then, I meet and escort I take a real shine to, bit of a headfuck to be honest. As any other time you'd just ask someone out, but obviously a bit tricky when you've just paid them for sex.

I doubt it's easy, requiring trust on both sides. Their love would have to be strong to overcome the hurdles.

Offline jackdaw

Its a daft thing to do (fall for a WG). So, of course, I've done it. Fortunately, woman concerned was good of heart... and diplomatically told me to piss off.

Offline Uglybugball

Hey guys. I was wondering if any of you have fallen for a WG before. Or even dated someone who does escorting. I've seen a few girls who have partners or husbands and it baffles me how they keep it together. Also every now and then, I meet and escort I take a real shine to, bit of a headfuck to be honest. As any other time you'd just ask someone out, but obviously a bit tricky when you've just paid them for sex.

If you take a shine to an escort, and you click, the male protective instinct can come into play. That can be a strong bond, mainly for you, and expensive.

I haven't knowingly dated an escort. There are a few that go into clubs or on holiday and you may get shagged for free. Unless you know them completely, you'll never be sure what they do for a living.

Best hope is to get one to become a fuck friend out of hours, NSA. She can carry on as normal with her life choices and so can you.




Offline AnthG

Hey guys. I was wondering if any of you have fallen for a WG before.
I think all but the blackest of souls has fallen for an escort sometime or other. The thing is most likely that same escort probably hates every second of her time with you.

With regards to asking an escort out. I would say just do it. But kind of be prepared to give up booking with her when the answer comes back as a No.

I was planning, pretty much headstrong, to ask a particular escort out. But she retired just before I could do it. Sods law for you there.
« Last Edit: January 12, 2013, 04:07:00 PM by AnthG »

Offline haystacks79

This was what I posted when this came up previously:

From a personal perspective, which will probably be shot down, I'd say that in the highly unlikely event of a wg letting me know that she was interested in some sort of friendship/relationship (as I firmly believe it has to be the wg making the move), I wouldn't immediately dismiss it simply because she was a wg. I'd need to know what she was really like, and who she really was (as opposed to the wg persona she may be using during bookings) before I could know if anything was possible. Relationships have to start somewhere, and who's to say that it couldn't work out well?

Can't think of much to add now, my feelings haven't changed.

I am sure people have met in stranger circumstances, if you don't ask you won't find out! but like anth says be prepared for a no and having to give up the booking as a result.

The WG's work persona is different to her personal life one, have you met both sides of her or are you willing for the fantasy to fade as the reality of who the person is comes to light?

What an interesting topic.  As a long-time punter who’s only just discovered this website, I’m heartened by the comments made by Cassie, Sarah Jayne and Whore Of Babylon.
 
Although I’ve only just found this board, I’ve been punting for several years and am one of the older members on here.   These days, I’d much rather visit a smaller number of MILFs frequently than experimenting by visiting different Escorts; and I visit an Escort not just for sex, but in the hope of developing a rapport with her as a person.  If I find that rapport, then I’ll be back; and the Escort I see most often these days is someone with whom I’ve found shared [non-punting] interests outside our “business meetings”.  In such cases [and it’s happened before], then it isn’t a case of familiarity breeding contempt, it’s getting to know what ticks each other’s boxes which in turn with usually leads to better sex, as Cassie points out.

Like Paul with his Escort, I'm now like old friends with “mine”, buying each other presents at Christmas and birthdays.  When we meet, it's usually for a couple of hours “business”, followed by lunch at a nearby pub and I make a point of paying her rate for 3 hours - her AW profile doesn't show any longer appointment.  Although I haven't [yet!] seen her 186 times, like Paul and his regular, I simply enjoy seeing her.

Offline johnr1

As mentiond last time this subject came up, I went out with a WG for a while she was a great person to be with and stunning to look at but it did my head knowing what she was doing I thought I could cope with it but that was not the case, its easy to meet a WG that you  get on well with but in the end its a simple business transaction and a little bit of fun which we should never forget, you want some fun they want some money and taking it any futher will end in tears in the long run
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Offline mystery7

Really interesting points guys. Think the nail was hit on the head by the male protective instinct.

 I have clicked recently with a couple of girls, and instantly bizarrely found thinking about them afterward. I've seen other girls and the sex was great and had loads of fun, but then instantly forgot about them. Just took it for what it was.

 I'm still relatively young in this game and am adapting to the odd world of un-earned proximity. I'd like to ask the older members do these kind of things fade with experience?

I know its absurd and will probably never follow it up. Its a very interesting adjustment, just when you think you've experienced every emotion............
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Offline Dani

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Really interesting points guys. Think the nail was hit on the head by the male protective instinct.

 I have clicked recently with a couple of girls, and instantly bizarrely found thinking about them afterward. I've seen other girls and the sex was great and had loads of fun, but then instantly forgot about them. Just took it for what it was.


A prossie will love you as a client if you click as they always make the best bookings but do not take the pair of you clicking to mean anything else.  For the woman it happens quite often but it is still seen as business and there is little hope that it will be anything else.  You may become good friends, this has happened to me a few times and I have made some great friends that are clients but most of us would never take it any further than that.  Also if you imply you want more than a business relationship you will probably find she no longer takes a booking from you as it is normally easier to always be busy than to have to deal with a client who is expecting more.

I am speaking from experience.  Just take it that these women were good at their jobs and leave it at that.  Unless of course she says she would like to see you out of work.  If she is interested she will ask you, if not she wont and you asking will ruin any chance of booking her again

Offline mystery7

That would be cool to be good friends with one girl in particular. Its nice to know that its not a complete bummer for the girl your seeing.

 With most girls i've seen, its felt like i've met them at a pub/club, clicked, then gone back to theres for some fun. Which I never expected. Think i've been very lucky so far.

 Think its natural for a guy to want to look out for someone he's been close too. This isn't what is commonly referred to as "fluffy" on this site. Just a natural instinct when you feel a strong connection with someone (And they make you cum so hard you nearly pass out ha ha)
 :yahoo:

Your right Cassie. Defo better to get a strong business relationship with WGs you like. Less complicated for everyone and probably nice for the girl in question. As i'm sure as you become more comfortable with each other, the sex will inevitably get better too. Cheers guys  :drinks:
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Offline thickerdicker

 :rolleyes: i suppose as alot of younger girls are doing this now since the invention of Broadband ,meaning even the cheapest knocking off shops have web sites,you more likely to find appealing escorts on the game than old toothless hags! :lol:

This means alot of independents do this for not just the cash but a way of meeting males i guess! Look ,all these dating sites ,its almost legalised prostitution! :sarcastic:  Why do they go on these sites, yes some are looking for a proper partner but most go on there looking for easy 'lays'> ie.don't cost a thing and also fuck desperate women! There are many desperate women who go on their looking for true love and get fooled by con men or indeed fooled for a free fuck then never to be heard from again men! :P   These dating sites to me seem to be a free way of just to get free sex in all!

theres even a site that i cannot recall called incognito where you can have affairs with registered members/women who can be marries and its designed so neither you can ever get found out!  I love to remember tha name again,it was on Tv the bloke that runs ...something encounters? :yahoo:

I think i ended up fancying a girl i saw 6 or 7 times but she retired or i'm not sure what happened. It's a good thing anyway. I wouldn't date a wg because i believe faiftfulness is essential for my relationships, i don't comment on others. I don't think just because it's work negates the fact you're having sex with other men. Again, i'm not judging anyone (intentionally) that's my opinion and my standards for a relationship. I enjoy being single for variety, i enjoy being commited for commitment.

Offline haystacks79

Look ,all these dating sites ,its almost legalised prostitution!

but prostitution isn't illegal in this country (at the moment, anyway)...

And could you possibly make you posts sound a little less like an over-excited teenage girl? What's with all those exclamation marks? Makes it very hard to read an understand your posts.

Offline Marmalade

A comment to prossie Louise after her post on another thread, as nearly everything on this topic has been said before.

The difference between logic and emotion, which your bf has supposedly grasped and still has emotional blah blah for you. It was the 'turning away men with diseased dicks' comment (I've changed the words slightly, you should realise why). It might all be in a day's work to you dear, but I suggest such details are useful for a forum yet probably too much information for a guy romantically involved with you. Conjures up images that are far too graphic and offputting (that you turned him away doesn't necessarily lessen it).

You are maybe aware of this;  for guys that think it must be wow to date a prossie, remember the gap between fantasy (most gorgeous dame on the planet as you fuck her etc) and reality (it's your chemicals talking) is greater for a prossie situation than a civvy chick. It's nice to think she only sees nice guys. Reality is she will also fuck turdholes or at least be in close proximity. The euphemistic phrase for the intelligent and emotionally sensitive slapper to use if speaking to her boyfriend would probably be along the lines of 'just a difficult day at the office dear.'

 :lol:

(yes, I speak from experience dear!)
« Last Edit: January 13, 2013, 05:13:45 PM by Marmalade »

Offline Marmalade

ps I am possibly stretching the point suggesting there is such a thing as 'an intelligent and emotionally sensitive slapper' ...

"Marmalade once again gives it to us with both barrels fully loaded":) Can you be emotionally sensitive in any business? After all we all have targets to meet and bills to pay, I don't expect to ever get a hug from the invisible hand of capitalism.

HMD   

iv'e had two WGs ask if i would like to go out on a date not a punt but i didn't follow it up. At the time i had split up with a class girl who wasn't remotely sleazy and it felt bad enough losing her without finding myself going out with a hooker. In hindsight i should have done because i never did go on to meet another class girl.

Offline Louise 100% British

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A comment to prossie Louise after her post on another thread, as nearly everything on this topic has been said before.

The difference between logic and emotion, which your bf has supposedly grasped and still has emotional blah blah for you. It was the 'turning away men with diseased dicks' comment (I've changed the words slightly, you should realise why). It might all be in a day's work to you dear, but I suggest such details are useful for a forum yet probably too much information for a guy romantically involved with you. Conjures up images that are far too graphic and offputting (that you turned him away doesn't necessarily lessen it).

You are maybe aware of this;  for guys that think it must be wow to date a prossie, remember the gap between fantasy (most gorgeous dame on the planet as you fuck her etc) and reality (it's your chemicals talking) is greater for a prossie situation than a civvy chick. It's nice to think she only sees nice guys. Reality is she will also fuck turdholes or at least be in close proximity. The euphemistic phrase for the intelligent and emotionally sensitive slapper to use if speaking to her boyfriend would probably be along the lines of 'just a difficult day at the office dear.'

 :lol:

(yes, I speak from experience dear!)

Very unlikely that he would ever bother to read my posts on this forum.
He's not what you would call internet savvy (and no he is not old lol)
And in regards to work, we don't speak about it, it doesn't interest him, I am his partner and his baby's mother. Thats it, he doesn't disrespect what I do, nor does he judge it. He doesn't paticularly like it as his views on prostitution are somewhat different to mine.
I was doing this when I met him, so it's nothing new to him. I didn't lie or lead a double life like some women do. It's takes a different sort of man to be able to handle a hooker, however he had a choice. 
If I was unable to have a relationship due to work, then I would have to choose my relationship, prostitution doesn't rule my life, i do have a life outside of this. it pays for a lifestyle- I am not silly, I save the majority of my money to enable me to have a good future.
I am not a fucked up in the head hooker, and never will be. However this job won't last forever and I am fully aware of this and pleased. I do not want to be doing this when I am middle aged.  :thumbsdown:
Anyway I don't want to get in an argument about what goes on between me and my boyfriend, but we are happy and that's down to both our choices  :)
« Last Edit: January 13, 2013, 05:40:01 PM by Louise »

Offline Uglybugball


With some couples, there are open relationships combined with swinging, when desired.

The mentality from those that may wish to escort, (male or female), is, why not earn some money legally while doing this. If their overall mentality is strong, then having a partner that concurs, should work out fine. in theory.

Most escorts I have seen are looking at a 1-3 year window of opportunity and are ultimately looking to "settle down" in some form, in the short-mid term. It can be a way of meeting new people, but grim reality for some, is there are real shit heads out there.

Having said that, there are some that can't/won't break the cycle as it drags them back in, time and time again. As already highlighted, relationships can be difficult to form if your partner knows your history before he/she starts seeing you

So he loves you more then he hates your life choices?

HMD

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