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Offline AnthG

Further to my other topic. This is the second most annoying thing with punting. And that is how eye contact seems to be this thing that many girls don't do and think nothing of them not doing it.

I cannot see how you can be working as a prostitute and be unable to do eye contact during sex.

The annoying thing is I remember mentioning this in auto-censored and all the sisterhood rollicking me because its some sick domination thing that you are trying to control the girl.  Its not. Its sex. You want eye contact during it.

And like I say if a girl dislikes it. Then there should be a means for her to state she wont do it like she has the option to tick she wont do Anal or OWO or whatever.

Offline lovingfacials

eye contact during owo or reverse oral is simply a must!!!!!!!!!

its the feeling of connection not control, watching a girl give head and her watching me respond is fantastic as ive said eye contact a must, I awlways check before a punt

Offline AnthG

eye contact during owo or reverse oral is simply a must!!!!!!!!!
For me Eye Contact during missionary is a must. That is the whole point of Missionary.

I like eye contact while kissing I find it erotic, I'm that short sighted thast during oral I can barely see their face never mind their eyes

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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For me Eye Contact during missionary is a must. That is the whole point of Missionary.

I agree AnthG but some blokes don't like it either. Don't think adding it to the likes will make much difference as most will just tick it anyway which as you know doesn't mean your going to get it. Maybe be better to say on the initial contact that for you it's really important and is she comfortable with it. Of course she could still say yes and not do it but then you could add that to your review etc.

Offline Dani

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It can also be quite hard to do.  If a woman is concentrating on staring in your eyes then she is not concentrating on giving you the best oral possible.  Whilst I too like eye contact I sometimes just forget about it as I get carried away with what I am doing.

In RO if the guy is any good then he has no chance of ye contact at all, as I can only do that when I am not enjoying what he is doing, as normally my eyes are either closed in pleasure or my head is thrown back or I am laying with my nipples. 

Eye contact is nice but should be natural and if you say you expect it then she will put all her efforts into that and other things wont be so great for you as she will be so busy concentrating on eye contact that either oral or whatever else will suffer becuase of it.  Plus it also means there is only one position she can give you oral in i.e knelt between your legs, which a lot of guys dont want as they want to be able to reach bits of her

Forget putting eye contact on the AW enjoys list; I'd rather fingering was on there.

Offline skittish

I agree with Cassie and I think the I eye contact during oral has probably been popularised by POV porn, it's not a deal breaker for me. However if a girl hid under a pillow, looked out of the window or similar during missionary I would be severely pissed off.

Offline haystacks79


For me eye contact during oral or sex isn't important, and to be honest if I'm really enjoying it then my eyes are likely to be closed anyway. Eye contact while chatting can make a difference though. if that makes sense.

And when I'm busy giving oral as Cassie says...

In RO if the guy is any good then he has no chance of ye contact at all, as I can only do that when I am not enjoying what he is doing, as normally my eyes are either closed in pleasure or my head is thrown back or I am laying with my nipples. 

if this isn't happening then you may not be doing it right :P and I certainly can't remember being able to get into a position where I'd have been able to make eye contact :cool:

Offline Stiltskin

Knowing Adultwork they'd probably add - Eye contact and Eye contact (at discretion).

Offline TROBJ

Eye contact...ESSENTIAL in my opinion !

Forget putting eye contact on the AW enjoys list; I'd rather fingering was on there.

Totally agree with this one  :thumbsup:

As in definitions of GFE etc too - kissing, nipple sucking, RO, OW(O), fingering etc

I thought eye contact was a given? How else are you going to get feedback on whether the punter is really enjoying it? If you do something and a punter eyes roll to the back of his head you know you've hit a sweet spot!

Offline Matium

All the best OWOs are precisely that because of eye contact.

No eye contact is just cold.

Offline Manc Man

All the best OWOs are precisely that because of eye contact.

No eye contact is just cold.

Totally disagree with this. I couldn't give a toss about eye contact with any girl. A shit blowjob is still very much a shit blowjob whether she's looking at you, the floor, or the clock. As far as blowjobs go, I just want my cock sucked properly.

Offline AnthG

Totally disagree with this. I couldn't give a toss about eye contact with any girl. A shit blowjob is still very much a shit blowjob whether she's looking at you, the floor, or the clock. As far as blowjobs go, I just want my cock sucked properly.
And what about eye contact during missionary?

Offline Manc Man

And what about eye contact during missionary?

Couldn't care less.

Offline AnthG

Couldn't care less.
Then either I am a freak or you are as I cannot even come close to getting turned on without it. :)

Knowing Adultwork they'd probably add - Eye contact and Eye contact (at discretion).

hahahahahahahaha a cracker m8  :D

i love to make eye contact bukkake style  ;)  :yahoo:

Offline Melb

I told a prossie I wanted eye contact during the blow job - she took it out and rubbed it on my dick.

Anth, this is how you get eye contact during missionary:


Offline rpg

Totally disagree with this. I couldn't give a toss about eye contact with any girl. A shit blowjob is still very much a shit blowjob whether she's looking at you, the floor, or the clock. As far as blowjobs go, I just want my cock sucked properly.

+1 I'm not in love! A good blowjob is made weird if she looks at me.

Offline aardvark

Forget putting eye contact on the AW enjoys list; I'd rather fingering was on there.

DITTO!!!!

Offline mh

+1 I'm not in love! A good blowjob is made weird if she looks at me.

I didn't think I was bothered about eye contact during a BJ, until the first time a WG kneeled in front of me, deep-throated my dick and then opened her eyes wide and looked deep into mine. It was such a surprise I nearly came instantly. The novelty wore off a bit as she did keep looking at me whenever she sucked my dick then, but it was still a nice change from the girls who are probably closing their eyes and wishing/dreaming that they were somewhere else...


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