Falling in love..

[Brazilian Martian]

This is the girl with her second husband. Apparently he is alive still.

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[Rifte]

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Hmm seems to work without the https

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[Brazilian Martian]

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That just gave me the most jokes you can tell that is going to last she's obviously married for love. Not sure why pussy makes some guys lose all their common sense 

[E.L. Wisty]

Never fell in love with an escort. Difficult to do so.

[Nagilum]

Never fell in love with an escort. Difficult to do so.

For you personally, but others have fallen hard, it's why we have the term EAS.

[Brazilian Martian]

For you personally, but others have fallen hard, it's why we have the term EAS.

Yep aka the saddo syndrome

[AnthG]

Yep aka the saddo syndrome

I am really curious BM. Say for example, think back and imagine the fittest girl you have ever met in your life. Whoever she was. Imagine instead of getting nowhere (assuming you did, as this would be pointless if you didn't).

But instead of getting nowhere she said, "you seem nice Martian, how about we go out sometime, but by the way before we do. I need to be honest because I really can see this relationship going somewhere, I need to tell you I used to do this job for a few years...."

What would your reaction be;

Ok then by love
Or would it be, thinking to yourself, 'ok normally I would tell her to get lost. But this one girl is so unbelievably fit I would be mad to say no here'.

[Brazilian Martian]

I am really curious BM. Say for example, think back and imagine the fittest girl you have ever met in your life. Whoever she was. Imagine instead of getting nowhere (assuming you did, as this would be pointless if you didn't).

But instead of getting nowhere she said, "you seem nice Martian, how about we go out sometime, but by the way before we do. I need to be honest because I really can see this relationship going somewhere, I need to tell you I used to do this job for a few years...."

What would your reaction be;

Ok then by love
Or would it be, thinking to yourself, 'ok normally I would tell her to get lost. But this one girl is so unbelievably fit I would be mad to say no here'.

Hard one but I'm a person who over thinks things all the time, i would be with her and in the back of my mind I would be thinking about all the guys she's fucked or done stuff with. So no I could not get involved with a prossie ever plus if you introduce them to family or friends, if they were to find out what they used to do or still do for a profession.

Humiliating

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[Tony_Red]

I am really curious BM. Say for example, think back and imagine the fittest girl you have ever met in your life. Whoever she was. Imagine instead of getting nowhere (assuming you did, as this would be pointless if you didn't).

But instead of getting nowhere she said, "you seem nice Martian, how about we go out sometime, but by the way before we do. I need to be honest because I really can see this relationship going somewhere, I need to tell you I used to do this job for a few years...."

What would your reaction be;

Ok then by love
Or would it be, thinking to yourself, 'ok normally I would tell her to get lost. But this one girl is so unbelievably fit I would be mad to say no here'.

As far as day to day living and personality goes, I've only found 1 wg who I think I could actually spend time with. Even then, I am not very sure.

On the other hand is my Mrs, who wipes the floor with every WG I have met in terms of personality and practical daily living. However I would not call my Mrs 'fit'. Cute, yes, but not fit. Up until recently I was questioning how much I loved her because if I truly did, I wouldn't punt. However , I've come to realise that punting is just a ball emptying exercise and nothing more. Sometimes it's in a pleasant way and sometimes it's not. I still occasionally feel a bit of guilt and the aim is to eventually give up the game.

Sometimes I get the feeling some punters (not you) but a lot have never been in love, but more importantly never been loved in return.

[MrMatrix]

Up until recently I was questioning how much I loved her because if I truly did, I wouldn't punt. However , I've come to realise that punting is just a ball emptying exercise and nothing more. Sometimes it's in a pleasant way and sometimes it's not. I still occasionally feel a bit of guilt and the aim is to eventually give up the game.

Hi Tony-
 I'm with you on this one. There is also the slight issue that we do this because the OH doesn't put out. Not what we signed up for.

[paul_2407]

It's really simple guys. Just message your WG and ask her if you can meet on a particular day and see if she says "for how long?"

[Nagilum]

Hard one but I'm a person who over thinks things all the time, i would be with her and in the back of my mind I would be thinking about all the guys she's fucked or done stuff with. So no I could not get involved with a prossie ever plus if you introduce them to family or friends, if they were to find out what they used to do or still do for a profession.

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It wouldn't be right to hold it against somebody, especially if you are a punter.  WG's get married all the time and settle, its not unusual and love knows no bounds.  The heart sometimes wants what it wants.

My Ex's girlfriend, has a friend who was a WG. She married and has children, her husband was not a punter, but he was her flat mate when she used to work.

It's all a state of mind.

[Brazilian Martian]

It wouldn't be right to hold it against somebody, especially if you are a punter.  WG's get married all the time and settle, its not unusual and love knows no bounds.  The heart sometimes wants what it wants.

My Ex's girlfriend, has a friend who was a WG. She married and has children, her husband was not a punter, but he was her flat mate when she used to work.

It's all a state of mind.

Ok so would you personally be ok with a wg or ex wg as a partner with your family and friends knowing what she done or does for a living. For me it's more than a state of mind I would never put myself in that situation it's humiliating imho

[AnthG]

Ok so would you personally be ok with a wg or ex wg as a partner with your family and friends knowing what she done or does for a living. For me it's more than a state of mind I would never put myself in that situation it's humiliating imho

Why would you tell them is the ultimate question?

But if they did somehow know or find out. I think quoting Percy Sledge might be worthwhile here.

"If she is bad, he can't see it,
She can do no wrong,
Turn his back on his best friend if he put her down.
When a man loves a woman,
He'll spend his very last dime
Tryin' to hold on to what he needs.
He'd give up all his comforts
And sleep out in the rain"

[E.L. Wisty]

I really can't understand how someone could fall in love with somebody whom they are only seeing for a certain amount of time on a given day.

[Brazilian Martian]

I really can't understand how someone could fall in love with somebody whom they are only seeing for a certain amount of time on a given day.

Exactly

[Brazilian Martian]

Why would you tell them is the ultimate question?

But if they did somehow know or find out. I think quoting Percy Sledge might be worthwhile here.

"If she is bad, he can't see it,
She can do no wrong,
Turn his back on his best friend if he put her down.
When a man loves a woman,
He'll spend his very last dime
Tryin' to hold on to what he needs.
He'd give up all his comforts
And sleep out in the rain"

Why would you tell them well, that's what adults do family get together double dates with friends people talk I would never lie to my friends and family about a partners profession. Also these things always have a way of coming out some how, let's say you're at a friends party and she bumps into a ex client who also happens to be there awkward situation at best.

[AnthG]

But the person wouldn't be much of a friend if they took issue out of it. And your family should be supportive no matter what.

Yes obviously they would be disappointed you went with such a girl and likely think you could've aimed higher. And also they may even be thinking she is just using you for money (and to be honest they very well could be right on that too). Or even worse that this was just a booking and she aint really your partner and you paid and brought a random prostitute to this get together.

But at the end of the day. If you feel the girl is worth it. You will endure all of that and likely a lot worse. That is what the Percy Slede song was suggesting. Naturally the bar would be set higher than that of regular girls. But if you found someone out there you personally felt was worth it. You would endure it.

I would say dating a prostitute is somewhat like dating a girl with a criminal record. For example, you met what you thought was a nice girl. And then suddenly she came out and said she had a criminal record for committing something very serious and unpleasant. Many people would turn and run a mile. But again it's a good litmus test over how much you like the girl or not if you still stay.

[Brazilian Martian]

You have me there the heart does want what it wants, if we met and she was straight forward with the info that she used to be a WG maybe i may consider but if she hid it then told me after a few dates I would see red.

[hantshagger]

Imagine falling in love with a women you know has been podged thousands of times by thousands of cocks....

I'm falling in love with that thought , now!! Especially if she's fucking good looking!

[OakTree]

I really can't understand how someone could fall in love with somebody whom they are only seeing for a certain amount of time on a given day.

You might not understand it but it happens countless times. Besides it's hardly just seeing them, it usually involves the most intimate of acts between two people. ie: fucking.

I'm actually surprised it doesn't happen more often.

[purple_t]

There are some girls you click with more, and grow fond of after repeat sessions. But can't imagine myself falling in love with one.

I have to wonder how the job affects WGs views on love and relationships as well. Presumably a lot will find it hard to trust men in general, given the amount of guys they see who have wives and girlfriends

[DeWallenFan]

Falling in love with a working girl is unacceptable behavior from a punter. Sure your brain is in your penis, but your heart isn't! 

[Nagilum]

It doesn't matter whether you can imagine it or not, the fact is it happens. Some men can take it and some cannot.  You don't know until it happens.

Some guys meet WGs, fall in love and they retire. Sometimes it doesn't work out and she returns to escorting. I have seen these scenarios many times during my punting days. 

Now to answer the question about myself personally... I know what I'm going in for when I punt, I'm paying for a service and when I leave that service is over. Enter the next punter for the same great sevice. I have no emotional attachment that would cause me EAS and I remain a realist. I certainly have a fondness for regulars, but it stops there. 

Hypothetically - I meet a girl (outside punting). Fall in love, then discover, after she told me, what she did.  I would like to think, ideally, I could take it as it would make me hypocritical being a punter. Truth is nobody knows until they are in it, it's an unanswerable question. It's like when advising a friend to dump his obsessive girlfriend, you see it from an outsiders view, but being involved is different.

I also agree it's nobody's business other than yours and theirs, nobody needs to know what she did, but then again, my exes friend was known for it and family accepted her. They now have a child. Before you ask, she did not know about my hobby

[Nagilum]

You might not understand it but it happens countless times. Besides it's hardly just seeing them, it usually involves the most intimate of acts between two people. ie: fucking.

I'm actually surprised it doesn't happen more often.

Indeed.

[Nagilum]

You have me there the heart does want what it wants, if we met and she was straight forward with the info that she used to be a WG maybe i may consider but if she hid it then told me after a few dates I would see red.

Agreed, I like honesty and transparency.

[Caratacus]

On the other hand is my Mrs, who wipes the floor with every WG I have met in terms of personality and practical daily living. However I would not call my Mrs 'fit'. Cute, yes, but not fit. Up until recently I was questioning how much I loved her because if I truly did, I wouldn't punt. However , I've come to realise that punting is just a ball emptying exercise and nothing more. Sometimes it's in a pleasant way and sometimes it's not. I still occasionally feel a bit of guilt and the aim is to eventually give up the game.

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I'm with you there Tony_Red, but my Mrs actually is fit (just not that into sex).
But, going back the the OPs question. No, not love. Sometimes lust, sometimes fascination but never love. That's a different thing altogether.

[Tony_Red]

Gents, I was aiming for 7 punts in 7 days. I was on my 5th the other day but had to stop cos of a bereavement. After the 4th and 5th punt, I was getting a bit sick of looking at pussy! If you don't believe me, try it! Of course, you might need more punts than me to get put off, but eventually you will get put off. This was my aim as I intend to just punt a few times a year now instead of my 1 a week average. I think it's worked. Time will tell. Almost a week on and I don't even check out civvies as much as I use to.

This got me thinking: I got tired of pussy after 5 punts in 5 days (3 were average, 1 was outstanding and 1 was good)...well some ladies see that many guys in 1 day!  I'm certain many are sick of the sight of cocks.

Whether you fall for them or not, remember, you are just a walking £ notes to them.

[Nagilum]

Gents, I was aiming for 7 punts in 7 days. I was on my 5th the other day but had to stop cos of a bereavement. After the 4th and 5th punt, I was getting a bit sick of looking at pussy! If you don't believe me, try it! If course you might need more punts than me to get put off, but eventually you will get put off. This was my aim as I intend to just punt a few times a year now instead of my 1 a week average. I think it's worked. Time will tell.

This got me thinking: I got tired of pussy after 5 punts in 5 days (3 were average, 1 was outstanding and 1 was good)...well some ladies see that many guys in 1 day! No one, no matter what they tell you, is that horny lol. I'm certain many are sick of the sight of cocks.

Whether you fall for them ir not, remember, you are just a walking £ notes to them.

Give it two weeks you will be recharged and ready to roll. 

[Tony_Red]

Lol I hope not. Will see how it goes and report back.

[AgedCases]

I thought I was starting to feel something for a WG I'd seen recently as I cannot get her out of my head and am itching for another meet. But I think it's a mix of being an inexperienced punter coupled with the fact she's young enough to be my daughter.

Besides, I'm loving the single life too much. Seeing hot WGs when I want for uncomplicated sex then going back to my boring life is good.

[Nagilum]

Lol I hope not. Will see how it goes and report back.

My next review is going to be the most sordid yet, just for you Tony.  Now never say I didn't care 

[Nagilum]

Besides, I'm loving the single life too much. Seeing hot WGs when I want for uncomplicated sex then going back to my boring life is good.

Hold on to that bit as its a reminder of what you love being, status wise, and why you are doing it.  Don't fall for the act.

[Noah Hope]

Selected quotes from Geek Troll No Hope:
Or the best one was his review where he negged the girl because she opened and closed her eyes!
 
watching too much Zizek can drive you crazy

Unfortunately you are not a famous philosopher. Your humour verges on fantasy fixation.  But carry on entertaining. 

Well it was a frustrating punt because she was so hot.
I might try again.  She's got a new profile offering a special offer, no sex or kissing or GFE of any type but nuru slippery massage for a hundred quid. I think she must keep her eyes open during that, otherwise she wouldn't be able to tell where she's sliding with her body (unless she does it by touch.)

[Tony_Red]

I've found that the more I punt, the least likely I am to fall for EAS. Infact, the more I punt, the more I feel like quitting. Maybe it's just me.

[NervousJ]

Interesting read.

How many WG have ever got feelings for their punters...

Now there's a thought... Probably none, but they must have feelings and find some nice to be with...

Ha ha ha, I'm deluded aren't I..... Just a thought though....

[Brazilian Martian]

Interesting read.

How many WG have ever got feelings for their punters...

Now there's a thought... Probably none, but they must have feelings and find some nice to be with...

Ha ha ha, I'm deluded aren't I..... Just a thought though....

I would advise you to check out the saafe forum to see what most prossies think of punters, we are just walking pounds signs to them imho

[NervousJ]

I will...

I have no doubt whatsoever that they are.

Even someone as gorgeous as me... (Said tongue in Cheek)...

[zulu-lance]

I never thought I would ever fall for a prossie...ever, seen so many girls over the course of these years...they are just fuck dolls as we are walking ATMs for them. However, this one girl, seen her over the course of a few months now, ofcourse not going to name her, boy she has simply got into my head, and it's not because of anything special which she does, as even I am not sure what it is!. She is gorgeous, however seen many who were way more hot and horny than her. The last time I saw her, booked her for 2 hours and I didn't even want to have sex with her, just hold, cuddle and talk to her. I am not delusional and know pretty well she is using me to get what she wants, and it will all end in tears eventually, assuming things get that far However, even when I am with other girls, my mind keeps wandering back to her and wonder why is she an escort and worse that I never should have seen her in the first place, which I told her as well which prompted a look of shock and horror on her face! Maybe it's time for me to quit this hobby and occupy myself with something more productive and fruitful. Any tips how some of you might have managed this?

[Tony_Red]

Lance, those thoughts will go away with time or until you find a (and you will) better WG. You could keep busy with work, gym etc but that will only make your mind want to see her more. The mind is wired to make us do what gives us pleasure or avoid pain.

I don't know your situation but, ultimately,  a gf/wife who you can have a physically and mentally loving relationship beats with, as you prob know, beats paid sex with the best hooker a thousand times over.

This WG you talk about, does she happen to be Polish with brown hair?

[zulu-lance]

Thanks Tony, appreciate your comments. I do have a fairly active social life and busy work life too, however despite this, her thoughts keep nagging me all the time, which is the weirdest bit! I bloody hope this is just a passing infatuation which eventually runs its course. Also, does not help massively when you've been in a stable long-term relationship, as the chemistry just seems to be fizzling out with every passing day, which I would own up and say could be put down to me to some extent, another reason why I soon need to get out of this malarkey!

This WG you talk about, does she happen to be Polish with brown hair?

Are you a clairvoyant

[george r]

most men do with the first girl who swallows 

[Tony_Red]

...as the chemistry just seems to be fizzling out with every passing day, which I would own up and say could be put down to me to some extent, another reason why I soon need to get out of this malarkey!
Are you a clairvoyant

Put effort into your relationship...look at the good aspects in your partner and ask yourself if any wg you've met has any of those aspects. For me it was a big 'No'. But it took me ages to get to that stage. So, now I am looking for far fewer punts. I also cannot believe how I wasted so much cash on so many forgettable punts...but that's another topic entirely.

[Brazilian Martian]

Thanks Tony, appreciate your comments. I do have a fairly active social life and busy work life too, however despite this, her thoughts keep nagging me all the time, which is the weirdest bit! I bloody hope this is just a passing infatuation which eventually runs its course. Also, does not help massively when you've been in a stable long-term relationship, as the chemistry just seems to be fizzling out with every passing day, which I would own up and say could be put down to me to some extent, another reason why I soon need to get out of this malarkey!
Are you a clairvoyant

So you're developing EAS next time you visit this prossie that you only want to cuddle in your two hour bookings ask her for a free punt or a date outside of the prossie and punter relationship. The response you get will make you wake up and smell the Coffee 

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[Tony_Red]

I have to agree with BM.

Or ask for a cheeky tenner/twenty off her 1.5 hour rate and see what response you get. That will solve any EAS.

[zulu-lance]

Appreciate your comments Brazilian Martian and Tony. I have been in this game long enough to know what I'm getting into, as I said before I'm hoping this is just a temporary infatuation phase which tides over. As for the swallow, no she doesn't but she does CIM and we have snowballed once 
Also, during my sessions with her, I have always been way over time and she rarely gave a toss or tried to hurry me up unlike most prossies. I've however asked her out on numerous occasions and overnight which she apparently doesn't do, somehow skilfully manages to manouvre her way out of the subject    As Tony said its only a matter of time to get over her, until I find the next perfect punt

[Brazilian Martian]

Appreciate your comments Brazilian Martian and Tony. I have been in this game long enough to know what I'm getting into, as I said before I'm hoping this is just a temporary infatuation phase which tides over. As for the swallow, no she doesn't but she does CIM and we have snowballed once 
Also, during my sessions with her, I have always been way over time and she rarely gave a toss or tried to hurry me up unlike most prossies. I've however asked her out on numerous occasions and overnight which she apparently doesn't do, somehow skilfully manages to manouvre her way out of the subject    As Tony said its only a matter of time to get over her, until I find the next perfect punt

No offence but you are on a forum about prossies declaring that you would happily spend two hours hugging instead of fucking her. also your defence is that she does not rush you and allows overtime. That to me says you are past the the point of no return but it's your life I hope everthing pans out for you 

[HighlyMotivated]

One WG I had 'feelings' for I guess you could say but not stupid enough to act on it. Instead I saw her regularly until she retired about a month ago. On the last meet she showed her true colours, was being a bit of a cunt just trying to wind me up. Anyway just reaffirmed the fact that even the best prossies/actresses don't care if you get hit by a bus on your way out the door. Youd have to be a an absolute MUG to fall in love with a woman who you have to pay to spend time with

[Brazilian Martian]

One WG I had 'feelings' for I guess you could say but not stupid enough to act on it. Instead I saw her regularly until she retired about a month ago. On the last meet she showed her true colours, was being a bit of a cunt just trying to wind me up. Anyway just reaffirmed the fact that even the best prossies/actresses don't care if you get hit by a bus on your way out the door. Youd have to be a an absolute MUG to fall in love with a woman who you have to pay to spend time with

Unfortunately not all guys see it this way but it does make a enjoyable read when guys open up about their feelings and how a prossie has hurt them. 

[sloopjohnb]

The last time I saw her, booked her for 2 hours and I didn't even want to have sex with her, just hold, cuddle and talk to her

Reminds me of a post from a WG on SAAFE, on the lines of: "he just wanted to stroke my hair for an hour. It was awful!"