Falling in love..

[star69]

 Has anyone fell in love with a prossie by any chance ? By falling in love I don't mean emotional or sexual attachment, I mean as in being in love, constantly thinking about her and having genuine feelings. Only a very beautiful lady would do it for me and I have not come across one as of yet. But I guess it would be foolish to have such thoughts anyway as prossies do not give a damn about their clients.

 Would love to hear of any such experiences from others .

[Expl1cit]

Many of them on UKP, most are former members now - we call them fluffy delusional cunts! Some have resurfaced on UKE but dont last too long their either.

Most of us are sensible punters, we fuck prostitutes and dont fall in love with them. If we like them, we book again, always maintaining the punter-prostitute relationship.

Anything else you may read or believe is undesirable!

Fuck them and Fuck off.

[star69]

 Many of them on UKP ???
 I agree with what you said but is it a sin or wrong for punters to fall in love as you said ?
 Would love to hear from anyone who has had such an experience anyway.

[Expl1cit]

Its not a sin, its a crime.

One that ends in tears.

If you want to fall in love, go on a dating website or meet someone in real life, at work, socially or even online. If you want to fuck a prostitute, come to UKP. There are no blurred lines.

Punting is a business transaction, you pay to fuck and then you fuck off. The end.

[Jimmyredcab]

Had feelings -------------- many times in the last 35 years, not stupid enough to fall in love.   

[musicman007]

never fallen in love with a wg...lust maybe

[NickFury]

See the threads under relationships and EAS on the wiki...
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In summary, don't fucking fall in love with one. Almost did and glad I didn't.

[OakTree]

Falling love is not something you choose to do or not. It's an emotional state we have little control over. How you behave after is another thing. You have to walk away. Someone who doesn't and continues to book the subject of his love is dooming himself to heartbreak and misery.

I personally think that people who regularly punt are usually hard wired not to fall in love so easy and the same could be said of most working girls.

[Makkk1963]

I have once ,as I tend to find a girl that I like and stick with them,been seeing the latest for close on 5 years ...... Girl I fell for we had a proper relationship for a Cple of years she packed it all in got a proper job and we had a great time split up wen it had just run its course shame as she was a cracker.....in a solid relationship now but knocking on and well you know what happen as women get older no chance of love with the current girl as she's way to wild and young

[threechilliman]

No.

tcm

[MrMatrix]

yes once (may have been lust). Won't happen again.

[nike]

I;ve fallen in lust so many times but the girl has to be exceptional and not just in the looks department. As for love, maybe I'm too cynical, never with a wg.

[star69]

Falling love is not something you choose to do or not. It's an emotional state we have little control over. How you behave after is another thing. You have to walk away. Someone who doesn't and continues to book the subject of his love is dooming himself to heartbreak and misery.

I personally think that people who regularly punt are usually hard wired not to fall in love so easy and the same could be said of most working girls.

 Totally agree with you. Falling in love is something beyond our control, if it does happen with a WG one needs to refrain himself. Pretty Woman was a tale of fiction, come on how would a millionare fall in love with a hooker ? On second thoughts if it was Julia Roberts .... that was the point I was driving across..

[Nagilum]

Many of them on UKP ???
 I agree with what you said but is it a sin or wrong for punters to fall in love as you said ?
 Would love to hear from anyone who has had such an experience anyway.

You are speaking as if you have fallen for one.

It's wrong because you are falling for the act, it's not real and she is just a good provider. It's what you paid for and she is delivering.

Now - who is this that you have fallen for? I have the cure for EAS 

[smiths]

Has anyone fell in love with a prossie by any chance ? By falling in love I don't mean emotional or sexual attachment, I mean as in being in love, constantly thinking about her and having genuine feelings. Only a very beautiful lady would do it for me and I have not come across one as of yet. But I guess it would be foolish to have such thoughts anyway as prossies do not give a damn about their clients.

 Would love to hear of any such experiences from others .

Its not healthy to fall for a WG in my view unless she feels the same and even then a punter would have to be able to handle the fact she is fucking every Tom, Dick and Abdul who pays her.

IMO its far more likely to fall in lust with a WG than actual love, personally I need to get to know a woman properly to really fall in love with them, and I don't know any WG that well as they are virtual or complete strangers.

Good WGs offer a good service and that should be the goal not them caring for you or giving a damn as you call it, its a business transaction at the end of the day for those of us that realise this. There are punters about, some now banned off here thankfully who treat punting as dating and crawl up WGs arses with their white knighting fanboy shit. These types are a cancer on punting in my view as they seek to undermine UKP, and they will NOT succeed while admin is in charge and those of us that care are members.

[smiths]

Many of them on UKP ???
 I agree with what you said but is it a sin or wrong for punters to fall in love as you said ?
 Would love to hear from anyone who has had such an experience anyway.

A sin is a moral judgement if you believe is such things, its up to you if you think its a sin or not. Whether its wrong or not is also down to you, its very likely to end badly in my view but your life. I do know a punter who fell for as WG and it was mutual and last I heard they were still happy together, she was still a WG and he presumably was able to handle that.

[claretandblue]

In love?not a chance, there have been one or two girls who I have seen and in the post punt euphoria have thought wouldn't it be great if we could do that again that evening, the next morning and then the following day etc etc but I quickly snap out of it

[fredbassett]

Anything is possible, however unlikely.

I can understand someone having an 'attachment " or genuine liking for a WG, but you'd need to ally that with the fact that she's just shagged someone for money before you and will be shagging someone for money once you've had your fun with her. Not exactly a solid basis on which to fall in love if i'm correct?   The other point - as Smiths mentioned in an earlier post - is what if the WG wants to continue in her chosen career?  That would be one hell of an ask for the vast majority of guys to accept and live with.

In all honesty, my personal thoughts are that anyone who falls in love with a WG is either emotionally challenged or needs to spend more time in the real world. I couldn't see it ending any other way than badly, unfortunately. 

The whole question has more obstacles than the Grand National!

[cockneybstrd]

Has anyone fell in love with a prossie by any chance ? By falling in love I don't mean emotional or sexual attachment, I mean as in being in love, constantly thinking about her and having genuine feelings. Only a very beautiful lady would do it for me and I have not come across one as of yet. But I guess it would be foolish to have such thoughts anyway as prossies do not give a damn about their clients.

 Would love to hear of any such experiences from others .

Interesting you use Love a lot dont you. We have had a spate of people desperate too hear about other peoples experiences. Most of these have been trolls

Anyway you seem to be confusing love and lust. 

[Brazilian Martian]

Ask the prossie for a freebie or a date outside of the punter /prossie relationship and her response will bring you crashing back down to planet earth 

[Madone1]

Ask the prossie for a freebie or a date outside of the punter /prossie relationship and her response will bring you crashing back down to planet earth 

+1

It is in there interest to turn you into a regular client so they use the emotional manipulation skill that all women have but WGs get a lot more practice at. The important thing to remember is this is and should always be a business transaction.

Same goes for buying gifts never have never will.

[Jimmyredcab]

Ask the prossie for a freebie or a date outside of the punter /prossie relationship and her response will bring you crashing back down to planet earth 

Exactly ----------------- we are simply walking ATM's, nothing more nothing less.     

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[JupitersBurning]

I get bored of people pretty quick and if I'm constantly thinking about someone it quickly goes to being fed up with them. So no, I've not fallen in love. I've been kinda awestruck at times by how hot the WG is but that's it.

[fredbassett]

Exactly ----------------- we are simply walking ATM's, nothing more nothing less.     

By ATM...do you mean the cash machine version... and hopefully not the US acronym for  " A** To Mouth"  LOL   

[Brazilian Martian]

Exactly ----------------- we are simply walking ATM's, nothing more nothing less.     

Could not agree more the funny thing is when guys tip prossies or try to say they are good friends with them. Most prossies would not piss on us if we set alight without some sort of fee.

[Swansea lad]

Theres two main types of punter on here. You have the married with kids type, where the sex has dried up at home. They pay the money for a bit of fun then go back to the mrs and home life.

Punter number 2 is lonely, single and needs more than sex, hes more likely to fall for a wg.

[smiths]

Exactly ----------------- we are simply walking ATM's, nothing more nothing less.     

And why wouldn't we be to WGs, just like others like utility companies for example view us as such, they couldnt give one shit about me and I wouldn't expect them to, so I don't expect a WG to do so either.

For some punters though its because its sex of course, that makes it "special" to them and some of them take it a step further actually thinking the WG must care about them, deluded tools, or fluffy pricks, or worse still white knight fanboys.

[weedougie]

+1

It is in there interest to turn you into a regular client so they use the emotional manipulation skill that all women have but WGs get a lot more practice at. The important thing to remember is this is and should always be a business transaction.

Same goes for buying gifts never have never will.

+1

That's what makes them good. Enjoy it while you're there and leave it behind when you walk out the door

[smiths]

+1

It is in there interest to turn you into a regular client so they use the emotional manipulation skill that all women have but WGs get a lot more practice at. The important thing to remember is this is and should always be a business transaction.

Same goes for buying gifts never have never will.

Indeed so. Its business and not a sign a WG loves the punter, sadly some punters cant tell the difference for whatever reason.

[Mart1976e]

I fall in love with all of them, right up until the baby batter flies out. Then, I barely even notice their presence for a minute or so!

[star69]

You are speaking as if you have fallen for one.

It's wrong because you are falling for the act, it's not real and she is just a good provider. It's what you paid for and she is delivering.

Now - who is this that you have fallen for? I have the cure for EAS 

 I have not been in that situation but seeing that I am going to see quite a number of girls in my shagging adventure I was visioning a case of what if. I agree with what others have put in, it would be fucking useless and idiotic to faĺl in love with a prossie. Lust and love are completely different things, it is physical vs spiritual, by the way.

[Turtle Z]

Its not healthy to fall for a WG in my view unless she feels the same and even then a punter would have to be able to handle the fact she is fucking every Tom, Dick and Abdul who pays her.

IMO its far more likely to fall in lust with a WG than actual love, personally I need to get to know a woman properly to really fall in love with them, and I don't know any WG that well as they are virtual or complete strangers.

Good WGs offer a good service and that should be the goal not them caring for you or giving a damn as you call it, its a business transaction at the end of the day for those of us that realise this. There are punters about, some now banned off here thankfully who treat punting as dating and crawl up WGs arses with their white knighting fanboy shit. These types are a cancer on punting in my view as they seek to undermine UKP, and they will NOT succeed while admin is in charge and those of us that care are members.

Good post

[Madone1]

Theres two main types of punter on here. You have the married with kids type, where the sex has dried up at home. They pay the money for a bit of fun then go back to the mrs and home life.

Punter number 2 is lonely, single and needs more than sex, hes more likely to fall for a wg.

Don't agree with that sorry and your description of punter number 2 sounds like the sort of bullshit the media paints punters as. Some of us just like fucking a lot of young hotties without all the bullshit and games that go with it.

[mrdiamond77]

No.  I got close to a WG a few years ago and saw her outside of her work, but I still always paid her for sex and although I liked her I did not love her.

[mrdiamond77]

Don't agree with that sorry and your description of punter number 2 sounds like the sort of bullshit the media paints punters as. Some of us just like fucking a lot of young hotties without all the bullshit and games that go with it.

Agree completely with you.  I am single and have no wish for marriage or a relationship.  Shagging ladies who I will have no chance with in real world is the real reason why I punt.

[RedKettle]

quick answer no and if you are in that situation now think very carefully, with your head and not your dick.

there was a WG I saw a couple of times who was quite different and I did feel that she was someone that I could fall for.  Something about her that really appealed to me, not just for a shag!

I took the decision not to see her again.

[Mart1976e]

It's easy to see how it can happen.

Some, if not most, of these girls are out of the league of 9 out of 10 of their punters. If not more than that. The really hot, young birds that look like that just don't end up in the bed of the average bloke, and especially not if the average is 10/20/30/40 etc., years older.

It's easy to see how blokes could go all gaga over girls that are that much out of their usual experience.

Doesn't make them any less fluffy, sad, or pathetic when they lose all sense of reality. You can see how it happens, though.

[Marmalade]

Has anyone fell in love with a prossie by any chance ? By falling in love I don't mean emotional or sexual attachment, I mean as in being in love, constantly thinking about her and having genuine feelings. Only a very beautiful lady would do it for me and I have not come across one as of yet. But I guess it would be foolish to have such thoughts anyway as prossies do not give a damn about their clients.

 Would love to hear of any such experiences from others .

I rather doubt if you have ever genuinely been in love.

[paul_2407]

No.  I got close to a WG a few years ago and saw her outside of her work, but I still always paid her for sex and although I liked her I did not love her.

Good frame of mind and sounds like you didn't delude yourself but you enjoyed her company in the constraints regardless

[Brazilian Martian]

No.  I got close to a WG a few years ago and saw her outside of her work, but I still always paid her for sex and although I liked her I did not love her.

Forgive me but your saw her outside of work but you still ended up paying for sex how does that work  did you also pay full price

[BogBog1]

I generally want to be out the door fairly soon after I've shot my load. Only on a VERY few occasions have I been interested in hanging around and chatting. Maybe because at that moment, the contract is completed, on both sides. I'm done, and she's done her job and probably would rather you were out of her flat/hotel room so she can have some time to herself rather than having to shag some bloke she's never met.

But, I guess there are PLENTY of guys who "fall" (whether in love or just in lust) for WGs, and those feelings are reciprocated - just look at how many WGs, English ones especially, are married/attached. I wonder how those relationships started? How often is the husband/long-term partner of a WG a punter? Or do you reckon they met 'normally', in a bar or whatever, and only found out afterwards what their new girlfriend did for a living?

[Brazilian Martian]

I generally want to be out the door fairly soon after I've shot my load. Only on a VERY few occasions have I been interested in hanging around and chatting. Maybe because at that moment, the contract is completed, on both sides. I'm done, and she's done her job and probably would rather you were out of her flat/hotel room so she can have some time to herself rather than having to shag some bloke she's never met.

But, I guess there are PLENTY of guys who "fall" (whether in love or just in lust) for WGs, and those feelings are reciprocated - just look at how many WGs, English ones especially, are married/attached. I wonder how those relationships started? How often is the husband/long-term partner of a WG a punter? Or do you reckon they met 'normally', in a bar or whatever, and only found out afterwards what their new girlfriend did for a living?

Great post

[cueball]

In all my years punting I've never fallen in any kind of love with a prossie.

I've had some great laughs with some cracking lasses that's given me fantastic memories but I'm there to get my hands in her knickers, not walk hand in hand along the sea shore.

If you think that falling in love might be an issue for you then I don't think punting is for you.

Sometimes I despair that fully grown men can be so deluded and nieve.

The money transaction tells the whole story.

[signy]

Everybody likes falling in love, and it doesn't really matter with whom. Just ask any teenage girl (boys, popstars, family friends, anybody)! A nice shot of seratonin, and it's a lot cheaper and safer than popping a couple of E at the weekend (you've already paid for the escort). Just don't forget that is all it is, and move on to the next one soon.

[OakTree]

In all my years punting I've never fallen in any kind of love with a prossie.

I've had some great laughs with some cracking lasses that's given me fantastic memories but I'm there to get my hands in her knickers, not walk hand in hand along the sea shore.

If you think that falling in love might be an issue for you then I don't think punting is for you.

Sometimes I despair that fully grown men can be so deluded and nieve.

The money transaction tells the whole story.

Agreed!

If you are prone to that sort of emotional outpouring, punting is the wrong pastime. It's certainly something that's never happened to me. I rather suspect that those who have fell head over heels with a WG, more times than not its not their first time.

[star69]

It's easy to see how it can happen.



It's easy to see how blokes could go all gaga over girls that are that much out of their usual experience.

Doesn't make them any less fluffy, sad, or pathetic when they lose all sense of reality. You can see how it happens, though.

 Well said. I think this is a good point, you can't label someone fluffy if he does fall into that situation. Ideal thing would be just to never see her again. Good to see we have some intellectual punters here. 

[Grumpy Pumpy]

I've become fond of quite a few WGs, but never come close to falling in love.

Turning it on it's head, has any one ever felt that a girl was becoming too close to them?

[mrdiamond77]

Forgive me but your saw her outside of work but you still ended up paying for sex how does that work  did you also pay full price

She had stopped working at the parlour that I met her at and she was trying to find a civvie job.  I did pay the price I used to pay yes.

[Jindybandy]

I'd be interested to hear from any WG's on here if it's ever happened the other way?

Has any girl fallen for a punter before? If so, how does it affect your work? Do you hope to see them as often as possible, or have you told the punter how you felt?

Interesting to see which way round would be considered the most...I don't know, 'dangerous' I guess is the way to put it?