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Instead I saw her regularly until she retired about a month ago. On the last meet she showed her true colours, was being a bit of a cunt just trying to wind me up. Anyway just reaffirmed the fact that even the best prossies/actresses don't care if you get hit by a bus on your way out the door.

Amen

I've seen many a true colour and definately didn't like what I saw/heard, and reaffirmed for me that the majority are not people I'd want a relationship with. I've seen forum darlings bitch about other darlings, girls dissing punters and all sorts.

Flip the coin and imagine you're a WG...
-You have no idea if a punter is going to become a regular
- you see 15-30 cocks and pairs of balls everyweek which you want to make cum asap
-you end up hating men and having trust issues
-your 1 upside is the relatively large sums of money you receive for being born with a pussy.

Then, you come across a nice punter with 'saviour' syndrome...what do you do? (Keeping point 1 in mind)...you're obviously going to try and milk the guy for all he's worth.

This is a very simplistic way of looking at it and very generalised...but all i'm trying to show is that whether or not you fall for a WG...it is near impossible for her to have any feelings for you.

We are walking ATMs.

One of my favourite shags EVER invited me to a friend's bday party as her 'guest/partner'. I politely declined. A week later she rang me asking for a loan lol. When I said I don't have anything to give...she showed her true colours and gave me the cold shoulder.
Plenty of fish in the sea...


Well a keyword search on AW reveals 52 pro's in Greater London offering either cuddles or cuddle therapy (in the main profile text,  since it's not a tickable "like.")
 There's obviously a market for it.  If there's no coercion, where's the harm? There might be risk (of E. A. S. /infatuation /falling in love) but punting is supposed to be a vice. A vice without risk is like nicotein free cigs or alcohol free beer.
Here's a prediction...  at the next radical feminist conference (a Hogarthian scene in itself) where it's agreed it's no longer PIV sex,  or  kissing,  but cuddling is the new true horror of punting.
Sarcasm aside,  of course,  AW isn't a good place to look for love. But what can you do?  People should be allowed to fuck up their life. Every free society has casualties.

Offline MrMatrix

Amen

I've seen many a true colour and definately didn't like what I saw/heard, and reaffirmed for me that the majority are not people I'd want a relationship with. I've seen forum darlings bitch about other darlings, girls dissing punters and all sorts.

Flip the coin and imagine you're a WG...
-You have no idea if a punter is going to become a regular
- you see 15-30 cocks and pairs of balls everyweek which you want to make cum asap
-you end up hating men and having trust issues
-your 1 upside is the relatively large sums of money you receive for being born with a pussy.

Then, you come across a nice punter with 'saviour' syndrome...what do you do? (Keeping point 1 in mind)...you're obviously going to try and milk the guy for all he's worth.

This is a very simplistic way of looking at it and very generalised...but all i'm trying to show is that whether or not you fall for a WG...it is near impossible for her to have any feelings for you.

We are walking ATMs.

One of my favourite shags EVER invited me to a friend's bday party as her 'guest/partner'. I politely declined. A week later she rang me asking for a loan lol. When I said I don't have anything to give...she showed her true colours and gave me the cold shoulder.
Plenty of fish in the sea...
Zulu - couple of years ago this is pretty well what happened to me. She kept giving me enough slack to think she was interested and like a pratt I kinda fell for it. Doesn't help that I was vulnerable at the time but there you go. 2 years on I still think about her. But its all bollocks she was only ever interested in my money but like you I can't get her out my system. But I will never go and see her again. I wont get caught out again...lesson learnt. And probably still learning. :hi:

Offline nervous1

Amen

I've seen many a true colour and definately didn't like what I saw/heard, and reaffirmed for me that the majority are not people I'd want a relationship with. I've seen forum darlings bitch about other darlings, girls dissing punters and all sorts.

Flip the coin and imagine you're a WG...
-You have no idea if a punter is going to become a regular
- you see 15-30 cocks and pairs of balls everyweek which you want to make cum asap
-you end up hating men and having trust issues
-your 1 upside is the relatively large sums of money you receive for being born with a pussy.

Then, you come across a nice punter with 'saviour' syndrome
...what do you do? (Keeping point 1 in mind)...you're obviously going to try and milk the guy for all he's worth.

This is a very simplistic way of looking at it and very generalised...but all i'm trying to show is that whether or not you fall for a WG...it is near impossible for her to have any feelings for you.

We are walking ATMs.

One of my favourite shags EVER invited me to a friend's bday party as her 'guest/partner'. I politely declined. A week later she rang me asking for a loan lol. When I said I don't have anything to give...she showed her true colours and gave me the cold shoulder.
Plenty of fish in the sea...

Last year when I resumed my punting career I had couple of meets with this one WG who on both occasions used to talk about boyfriends from the past and her hopes of getting one in the near future.  All woe is me shit, who would want a GF who does what I do, etc.  Being an awkward, amiable and fairly undemanding guy who can afford to spend north of £100 on one hour of fun I felt, particularly the second time, that she was working on me to an extent.  I think this type of emotional manipulation is quite common & comes naturally to some of them as they see the potential in gifts and other benefits while making you feel like you are 'different' from all the other guys they see.  Certain types of punter, like me, who are obviously not a massive hit with the ladies but are otherwise easy to deal with are going to be targeted by some WGs.  If it's love you are looking for then you need to up your game with the civvies because 99.9% of the time you will never find it with a prossie.

Offline TomThumb

I've thought long and hard about replying to this thread - as a review of my previous posts will have documented I was getting too close to a WG and thought i had gotten my head around it instead I declared my feelings and she and I started to see each other. Long story short (Some members have PM'ed me and supported me through this all) we started dating, it got serious (she was still working), I asked for a divorce from the Mrs (Who didn't know the occupation of the 'other person) - six months, lots of sex (which isn't as good once you start dating) and much money spent on lawyers I came to a rude awakening of WHAT AM I DOING .... that was January of this year - Six months a working at my marriage and therapy have shown me that that was the relationship to work on ... not the one with the WG.

The working girl in question is still working (Couple of reviews on this site) - after we agreed to take a break she never contacted me again - i still drive past her apartment every day on my way to work where i know she still lives but have never stopped. Sometimes consider it but COLD HARD REALITY has taken hold - you are just a wallet ... and they can't have real feelings for you ... it hurt for months to get my head around that ... I hope my experience helps - its not some sob story, you couldn't make up the year i've had - i've put a stop to punting (Still like reading this site though) ... concentrate on your most important relationship if you have one ... because the time you've already invested, kids you may have , life you currently enjoy can disappear and then what you are a guy renting a flat, having got a divorce, whilst dating a WG who is still working .... COLD HARD FACT OF LIFE ....

Thanks for the post Tom. Real eye opener.

But, i'm not sure if you wanna continue reading this site if you have 'quit'.

That's like someone who's just had a liver transplant after alcohol fucked up his liver, and then spending all his time in the pub.

Offline TomThumb

Agreed - but i look at where i am now having come full circle - started punting because of a lack of sex life with the OH ... now i still have no sex life with the OH (But we're working on it - long way to go) but have the pressure / guilt / atmosphere of an 'affair' along with it ... i won't say that i'm not tempted (and have slipped once or twice at Phoenix) but more in that 'group' type setting rather than 121 - much easier to punt where you see the other person getting nailed by someone else in the same room rather than it be out of sight / out of mind and allow the 'fantasy' to develop.

Offline zulu-lance

Appreciate all your comments guys, some brutally honest and some I can empathise with, that's the purpose of sharing things on a forum, anonymously I may add, helps put things into perspective, which tbh I will struggle discussing with anyone in my daily life.
TomThumb, thanks for sharing your experience, it is not easy thinking and writing about it. Before I joined this forum, I know of an ex-colleague who nearly messed up his life getting involved with a stripper/prossie, I am not sure how things are with him now  :unknown: At that point I was like how can someone be so daft and you feel so confident it is never going to happen to you until it does!
I wish you the very best of luck on your relationship and sincerely hope it's all going well for you now.
Also, to be fair to the WG in question, it has been me doing all the chasing, she has never texted or messaged me out of turn and I am fairly confident she never will, apols if I sound like some fluffy white knight, but that is what it is.
Also, I can hookup with civvies at any point, however for me I just can't be bothered with the hassle which comes attached. Reading through all this, and thinking about it, it just dawned upon me why I embarked on this hobby in the first place, no-strings sex and intimacy with some really hot girls, albeit at a price, so why do I want to disturb something which has been working effectively so far. Not sure yet whether I shall continue seeing her but this discussion has really helped clear up some of the fancy thoughts I may have held before, so thanks once again chaps for sharing your comments/experiences and may the punting gods continue to shower their blessings on us all  :yahoo:

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Offline MrMatrix

Thanks Tom Thumb for sharing your story. A lot of us can empathise with you. Yes its difficult to shake off that loved up feeling when really when you want to experience it at home as it should be. I'm still going through withdrawal symptoms, but I didn't get as far as starting a divorce, but started thinking along that route. I now know which side my bread is buttered now and I won't take any more chances like that....but as blokes we often wonder what if..
Nope just don't go there.

Well a keyword search on AW reveals 52 pro's in Greater London offering either cuddles or cuddle therapy (in the main profile text,  since it's not a tickable "like.")
 There's obviously a market for it.  If there's no coercion, where's the harm? There might be risk (of E. A. S. /infatuation /falling in love) but punting is supposed to be a vice. A vice without risk is like nicotein free cigs or alcohol free beer.
Here's a prediction...  at the next radical feminist conference (a Hogarthian scene in itself) where it's agreed it's no longer PIV sex,  or  kissing,  but cuddling is the new true horror of punting.
Sarcasm aside,  of course,  AW isn't a good place to look for love. But what can you do?  People should be allowed to fuck up their life. Every free society has casualties.

I find no harm in cuddles, do it all the time, but I rarely visit ladies more then a few times, they move on and I move on for new adventures. But I love a good snog and a cuddle. It can be friendly without pitfalls and the main thing is that it makes mister happy stand to attention.

I find no harm in cuddles, do it all the time, but I rarely visit ladies more then a few times, they move on and I move on for new adventures. But I love a good snog and a cuddle. It can be friendly without pitfalls and the main thing is that it makes mister happy stand to attention.


That sounds a wise policy Horizontal pleasures.  :thumbsup:
I suppose it goes back to fl0atab1lity's argument of post 2 on page 1 of this thread that punters who fall in love with prossies are "fluffy delusional cunts." Fl0atab1lity further suggested that anything else you may read is "undesirable."!
f is imo a case of a broken clock right twice a day. He might be onto a half truth. Do disappointed in love punters turn into delusional psychotic stalkers of prossies? Or is this something that's talked up to fit another agendas?  There's no empirical research on it.  (Unless RosieBTG looks into it as part of her sex worker and client questionnaires and interviews survey. )
Certainly there might be a link between delusion and psychosis. I've been reading a lot in my final retirement from punting (4 weeks @the time of this writing) along with lurking in web cam whore free chat (methodone for punting cold turkey.) This is from a book on Lacan, the psychoanalyst:

[Bleuler (who influenced Lacan) wrote]'I call dementia praecox "schizophrenia" because (as I hope to demonstrate) the "splitting" of the different psychic functions is one of its most important characteristics."... Bleuler believed that delusion could be meaningful, even in psychosis: for example, an auditory delusion-the hearing of voices-could be seen as an internal discourse which has a relation to the subject. (Lionel Bailey, Lacan:A Beginner's Guide, )

. A while ago someone posted on an escort forum about a punter who had told her he had fallen in love with her. She said (ims,  I think it was this:) she gave a tantra explanation which was that it was an aspect of himself he'd fallen in love with. She nailed it! And it's similar to the psychoanalytic explanation.  Fingers crossed you don't fall in love and enjoy your adventures in the Kali Yuga Hp! Cheers  :drinks:



I've always fallen in love with civvies easily so that was my worry when I started punting. The first WG I ever saw kept dropping hints that she wanted to be "friends" so I cut off all contact and never booked her again.

After punting for almost a year now, I don't think I can fall for a WG. I'm quite happy punting once every few weeks and enjoying the single life with sex when I want it.


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