At Discretions

[ramrodronnie]

I'm sure I can't be the only one who is pissed off with most of these WGs who brag in their profliles about giving a True GFE, and a lot of them go into graphic detail about all of the dirty things that they want to do with us punters. But when you look through their List of things that they Enjoy, they come out with many at Discretions?? Mostly where it comes to; French Kissing, OWO, CIM, and Swallow. In their wording they tend to go on about all of the sexy things that they're going to do, but I'm convinced that they are just trying to lure us in? When we turn up for a booking, give them our money, then they know that they can say NO I put that as at my Discretion, or if they're foriegn, they use the language card by saying that they didn't write their profile?? This I am convinced is an opt out ploy.

Comments Please everyone.

[purple_t]

Think it depends on the girl... for some 'at discrection' means as long as you're clean, for others it means you will be paying extra, and for some I'm guessing it means no chance in hell. Best to e-mail the girl stating which services you are interested in and asking if this all comes under the basic cost... once you turn up though, it is still something of a gamble.

[vw]

With the professionals is all down to cleanliness and fresh breath.  Some offer you a shower at the start often a no flicks this discretion switch off for OWO.

And anal may be a discretion due to size.

With ladies with bad attitude its only there to get bodies through doors, always check here for past reviews often the questions in the comments confirm or deny these things.

[Roth]

With ladies with bad attitude its only there to get bodies through doors, always check here for past reviews often the questions in the comments confirm or deny these things.

Standard Romanian trick.

[ramrodronnie]

Rothi, I know that a lot of Romanian prozzies can be devious, lying bitches, but in fairness there are many others from all different parts of the world that are on the game over here that are using the same tactics.   

[ramrodronnie]

Sorry mate, I should have said Roth   

[vw]

Sorry mate, I should have said Roth

But Rothi sounds 10 years younger much like hamoddbonnie

[ramrodronnie]

Mmmmm, Thanks VW, I accept that cleanliness does play a big part (rightly so) but I'm still suspicious, that a lot of these WGs talk about all of the dirty things that they want to do with us, then use these "At Dicretions"  they are then able to use it as an excuse to say NO once they've got their their money grabbing hands on our hard earned wonga?   

[ramrodronnie]

You getting tongue tied again VW ?  lmbo   

[ramrodronnie]

I know Purple_T. But they should make it clear on their profiles. They know axactly what they're doing. They must think we are all Cupis Stunts?  Grrrrrrr   

[vw]

Anyway if it becomes completely illegal Trading Standards will have a field day.

Maybe Dominic Littlewood & Melinda Messenger could get together for a new tv show Cowgirl Hookers

While Dominic tracks down the cowgirl hooker, Melinda could be putting things right for the punter.

[Dani]

The at discretion part is a little pointless (although I do Tick it as some don't read profiles) as all services are at discretion.  However if using it then a quick explanation of what it means in the profile is not hard to do and it stops any confusion

I did make a suggestion to AW to put a section in the interview so we could simply fill in what at discretion means to us personally but I must have been the only one to ask for something like this as it was ignored and they not add a feature once they get more than a handful of suggestions for the same thing

At the moment it's used as a get out clause by those too lazy to do that service or by. Scammers to pull guys in

[smiths]

I'm sure I can't be the only one who is pissed off with most of these WGs who brag in their profliles about giving a True GFE, and a lot of them go into graphic detail about all of the dirty things that they want to do with us punters. But when you look through their List of things that they Enjoy, they come out with many at Discretions?? Mostly where it comes to; French Kissing, OWO, CIM, and Swallow. In their wording they tend to go on about all of the sexy things that they're going to do, but I'm convinced that they are just trying to lure us in? When we turn up for a booking, give them our money, then they know that they can say NO I put that as at my Discretion, or if they're foriegn, they use the language card by saying that they didn't write their profile?? This I am convinced is an opt out ploy.

Comments Please everyone.

Of course its an opt out ploy for some WGs. In reality until a WG has smelt your breath, cock and body its all at her discretion unless she is prepared to kiss punters with bad breath, smeggy cocks and bo.

If you punt with WGs recommended on here by punters you find credible that will increase your chances of getting the services you want assuming you are clean.

[Marmalade]

Oh cmon on! 

When you meet someone, you size 'em up, decide what they're like, how much you believe them.

Looking at an AW profile, all you have is some words on a page. Same as a dating site for that matter. How are the odds on fantasy fulfilment, how much is she talking bollocks, how much do you care?

By and large, a WG is free to write any old shit if she wants to, or 100% true, or a flirtatious or avaricious mix; and you, Mr Punter, you're free to place your chips on any part of the roulette table you like.

It makes me laugh when punters talk about AW profiles as they were some sort of legal document. How did you lose your virginity? On facebook??

I've been slagged off for liking intelligent prostitutes. One ofvthe main reasons is there are more clues on the profile to decide what to believe!

Maybe punters need to show more discretion in what they choose to believe.

[Roth]

But Rothi sounds 10 years younger much like hamoddbonnie

I like it! 

[Roth]

Rothi, I know that a lot of Romanian prozzies can be devious, lying bitches, but in fairness there are many others from all different parts of the world that are on the game over here that are using the same tactics.   

Yep that's true.    Just seems that just about every Romanian does it - though there's a few in Bristol that are decent - same everywhere.   

The bad ones let the good ones down. 

[Ben4454]

At discretion means she enjoys those activities with punters but certain conditions need to be put in place

- How clean your cock is / personal hygiene
- charges extra
- If she is Romanian like others have said - opt out ploy.

Whatever it could mean the terms of that discretion should be listed on her profile.

[Ali Katt]

I don't read the profile text anymore, only the stats, prices and reviews on UKPunting. If a prossie intrigues me I will take my chances.

Most prossies lie about A-Levels (apparently 3 inches is massive), DFK\FK apparently a peck on the lips is deep, more tattoos than an American crack addict are partially discreet. 34C tits are apparently large. As the joke goes: how do you tell if a woman is lying they move their lips.

[nike]

Think it depends on the girl... for some 'at discrection' means as long as you're clean, for others it means you will be paying extra, and for some I'm guessing it means no chance in hell. Best to e-mail the girl stating which services you are interested in and asking if this all comes under the basic cost... once you turn up though, it is still something of a gamble.

+ 1

I've asked for clarification via email and then had to ask on the phone because I didn't get a full response. I've not gone ahead with booking a wg, twice, because they didn't offer the advertised. service.

One wg who confirmed owo then tried to give me covered and had to be politely reminded. 

[LoneWolf2020]

at discretion is one of the most abused features on adultwork, abused to the point i think you have to assume that whatever they do 'at discretion'... assume they dont do it.

[Marmalade]

At discretion means she enjoys those activities with punters but certain conditions need to be put in place

- How clean your cock is / personal hygiene
- charges extra
- If she is Romanian like others have said - opt out ploy.

Whatever it could mean the terms of that discretion should be listed on her profile.

I think with EEs it often means the pimp has decided to include it but realise she might not do it. Put an RB in for some of the outlandish stuff and you won't get many genuine replies.

[Roth]

I think with EEs it often means the pimp has decided to include it but realise she might not do it. Put an RB in for some of the outlandish stuff and you won't get many genuine replies.

Yep.  Particularly with Romanians. 

[pking_paul]

Oh cmon on! 

When you meet someone, you size 'em up, decide what they're like, how much you believe them.

Looking at an AW profile, all you have is some words on a page. Same as a dating site for that matter. How are the odds on fantasy fulfilment, how much is she talking bollocks, how much do you care?

It makes me laugh when punters talk about AW profiles as they were some sort of legal document. How did you lose your virginity? On facebook??

I've been slagged off for liking intelligent prostitutes. One ofvthe main reasons is there are more clues on the profile to decide what to believe!

Maybe punters need to show more discretion in what they choose to believe.

+1 and also fully understand that a fat sweaty punter with bad breath will probably score low when it comes to discretionary offerings. Common sense really.

[purple_t]

at discretion is one of the most abused features on adultwork, abused to the point i think you have to assume that whatever they do 'at discretion'... assume they dont do it.

Really?! I've never been refused anything that is 'at discretion'... at least not so far. I know there are some cynical guys on this forum but I think a lot of the girls will do these services with hygienic, respectful punters, and just have the 'at discretion' part so they can refuse say OWO if some smelly, sweaty bastard turns up

[johnnyboy61]

Really?! I've never been refused anything that is 'at discretion'... at least not so far.

Would be good if you can share some of these with the rest of us via a review or two then. 

[Ali Katt]

Really?! I've never been refused anything that is 'at discretion'... at least not so far. I know there are some cynical guys on this forum but I think a lot of the girls will do these services with hygienic, respectful punters, and just have the 'at discretion' part so they can refuse say OWO if some smelly, sweaty bastard turns up

Or if they don't fancy man, if they think he is a mug, if he is an ethnic. Prossies will do what they want depending which way the wind blows.

[purple_t]

Would be good if you can share some of these with the rest of us via a review or two then. 

Yes I realise I should give back to the community... I will review my two most recent punts imminently

[purple_t]

Yes I realise I should give back to the community... I will review my two most recent punts imminently

I've now posted some reviews

[vw]

I've now posted some reviews

Nice one will pop along and have a gander !

[yumyum3]

I'm sure I can't be the only one who is pissed off with most of these WGs who brag in their profliles about giving a True GFE, and a lot of them go into graphic detail about all of the dirty things that they want to do with us punters. But when you look through their List of things that they Enjoy, they come out with many at Discretions?? Mostly where it comes to; French Kissing, OWO, CIM, and Swallow. In their wording they tend to go on about all of the sexy things that they're going to do, but I'm convinced that they are just trying to lure us in? When we turn up for a booking, give them our money, then they know that they can say NO I put that as at my Discretion, or if they're foriegn, they use the language card by saying that they didn't write their profile?? This I am convinced is an opt out ploy.

Comments Please everyone.

Good post. Can't blame them too much for the at discretion but I can't stand long lists of extras. Sure fire way to make me click off their profile.
They would have to be well-reviewed by trusted members on here to make me consider paying.

[Roth]

Good post. Can't blame them too much for the at discretion but I can't stand long lists of extras. Sure fire way to make me click off their profile.
They would have to be well-reviewed by trusted members on here to make me consider paying.

Agree. 

[Dirty Harry]

The at discretion part is a little pointless (although I do Tick it as some don't read profiles) as all services are at discretion.  However if using it then a quick explanation of what it means in the profile is not hard to do and it stops any confusion

I did make a suggestion to AW to put a section in the interview so we could simply fill in what at discretion means to us personally but I must have been the only one to ask for something like this as it was ignored and they not add a feature once they get more than a handful of suggestions for the same thing

At the moment it's used as a get out clause by those too lazy to do that service or by. Scammers to pull guys in

Hi sorry could you please expand on this? Unless you mean that all services, in other words the whole deal, is off - no services no money changes hands.

[SophieScott]

I think that if it literally says 'all services are at my discretion', she is probably saying it meaning she has the right to refuse (ie. if you are drunk, abusive, on drugs or similar reasons).

If it's OWO, DFK, CIM and Swallow, as others have said, it will most likely be down to cleanliness and no cold sores, rashes down there or anything similar. 

This is the way I know most genuine WGs work.  I guess some will be scammers putting at discretion as a get out clause to avoid doing the services once you are there.

[ramrodronnie]

Hi SophieScott, thank you for your take on this subject. But "Genuine" and "Scammers" are the Operative words.

[vw]

But "Genuine" and "Scammers" are the Operative words.

Good vs Evil in my words

[SophieScott]

Hi SophieScott, thank you for your take on this subject. But "Genuine" and "Scammers" are the Operative words.

No worries, yeah I guess that's always the problem isn't it.  We don't like girls putting those things down as a way to take your money under false pretenses either, as it makes client suspicious of us having that down there, when our reasons are genuine.

It's bad for everyone.

[yumyum3]

No worries, yeah I guess that's always the problem isn't it.  We don't like girls putting those things down as a way to take your money under false pretenses either, as it makes client suspicious of us having that down there, when our reasons are genuine.

It's bad for everyone.

Good post