Posting Negative Review - Special case

[Hawkwind71]

I hope this is my last forum question as a newbie. Better out than in as they say.

As any of you may have noticed I have been quite open about the stupid things I did when I first started punting. Paid too much, booked too long, fluffy undeserved AW reviews. I figured it would help people avoid my pitfalls. But on reflection I now realise the dumbest thing I did was use my real mobile phone number.

All this has now ceased but it has left a legacy.

Would I be stupid to post a descriptive negative review of someone I know has my real phone number ?

Or am I overthinking this. Don't hold back guys, developing a real thick skin on here.

[sublimetoridiculous]

Does your phone have a blocking facility?

I've always used my real phone (yes I know!). Never had cause to block but I can if I need to.

[Jimmyredcab]

I only have one phone, but I am single with no one to answer to.

If you are married or have a partner it would not be a good idea to piss off any pro$$ies who have your mobile number.   

[Hawkwind71]

Does your phone have a blocking facility?

I've always used my real phone (yes I know!). Never had cause to block but I can if I need to.

Yes but girls generally won't answer them. As I said, not a problem going forward. Got me a prossie phone now.

[Happyjose]

I hope this is my last forum question as a newbie. Better out than in as they say.

As any of you may have noticed I have been quite open about the stupid things I did when I first started punting. Paid too much, booked too long, fluffy undeserved AW reviews. I figured it would help people avoid my pitfalls. But on reflection I now realise the dumbest thing I did was use my real mobile phone number.

All this has now ceased but it has left a legacy.

Would I be stupid to post a descriptive negative review of someone I know has my real phone number ?

Or am I overthinking this. Don't hold back guys, developing a real thick skin on here.

I think you're wise to be cautious. How much do you have to lose if you're outed?

Is your phone linked to any of your social media accounts? Have you tried putting your number into google and see what that throws up?

Experience on here shows that disgruntled prossies can be dangerous

You could change details in your report to mitigate against you being identified, and if some time has passed any memory she has of you will no doubt be lost amidst a sea of anonymous cocks, but not sure if I would be that brave

[Hawkwind71]

I only have one phone, but I am single with no one to answer to.

If you are married or have a partner it would not be a good idea to piss off any pro$$ies who have your mobile number.   

This is my view too.

Sadly it means all my old posts will only be the positives and I'll have to 'wish' for a future negative before I can post one. Which sounds strangely bizarre.

Just worried about coming over too fluffy with all positives.   

[Happyjose]

This is my view too.

Sadly it means all my old posts will only be the positives and I'll have to 'wish' for a future negative before I can post one. Which sounds strangely bizarre.

Just worried about coming over too fluffy with all positives.   

Reporting a good punt as positive doesn't make you fluffy

[Hawkwind71]

I think you're wise to be cautious. How much do you have to lose if you're outed?

Is your phone linked to any of your social media accounts? Have you tried putting your number into google and see what that throws up?

Experience on here shows that disgruntled prossies can be dangerous

You could change details in your report to mitigate against you being identified, and if some time has passed any memory she has of you will no doubt be lost amidst a sea of anonymous cocks, but not sure if I would be that brave

I think you have summed up my dilema. A year from now I won't give a shit. Just this intervening period. If I was outed it would be interesting and life changing shall I say that. It is not linked to social media and at the moment my google search just brings up a bunch of anonymous china based stuff.

I think I have my answer. Positives until my next future negative.

[Hawkwind71]

Reporting a good punt as positive doesn't make you fluffy

I'm gunna make em rock, truthful but complete.

Sorta compensate for being chicken on the negs !!

[Jimmyredcab]

This is my view too.

Sadly it means all my old posts will only be the positives and I'll have to 'wish' for a future negative before I can post one. Which sounds strangely bizarre.

Just worried about coming over too fluffy with all positives.  

Start worrying when you have 30 positives ------------------ so far you only have 3 reviews.   

[123Mel456]

I have used both my 'usual' phone and 'A N other phone', and not had any calls or text on them that I wasn't expecting. Only time is to give ma an address or a thank you that was nice straight after.  Must admit the one thank you I got did make me think ' careful could be a bunny bolier and might get others to ask if coming back but thankfully nothing like that ever happened.
I now use only my usual phone as I think getting caught and having to explain A N other mobile to the management  would be harder than explaining a wrong number - I have so many names and numbers in my 'phone I can't remember who half of them are anyway so I wouldn't be lying if I said I hadn't a clue who it was from 

[vw]

I'll have to 'wish' for a future negative.

That's not nice are you in to self punishment !

[SirFrank]

I only have one phone, but I am single with no one to answer to.

If you are married or have a partner it would not be a good idea to piss off any pro$$ies who have your mobile number.   

+1. Don't piss on your chips, unless you don't give a shit! Your personal number makes you identifiable so I'd chalk this one up to experience and move on. Fortunately for me I'm the master of disguise so I never look the same when I rock out with my cock out. That way no one knows what I really look like - although good looking generally covers it

[vw]

I'm the master of disguise.

Me to, cannot see my face over my belly. 

[webpunter]

The fact that you made a schoolboy error in not having a punting phone is now sorted with you now being 'tooled up'
Whilst you are concerned about this & its high on your agenda then you will rapidly fade from any AW girlies memory.  Iffy review or not.  You are well at the bottom of their attention.  Until you make another booking and turn up with CASH.  They'll just start a new profile if needs be or they'll stop for a while and they then bin the profile as they have to pay AW

You will have gained some experience from the events.  With better familiarity with AW & more importantly being on UKP then no particular reason you should have a crap punt going forward.  Especially if you avoid cheap AW girls in crap locations who have shite or zero feedback.  When the price is say 40 for half hour WTF does the punter expect in terms of looks / service & accomo ?   Reading your reviews then not the case anyways.  I haven't had a crap punt for a good few years.  Nowhere near since being on UKP.  Although i still get a buzz with going "off-piste" when little / no FB.  Gets the heart beating when rocking up - just that bit more than when you've been before.  All part of the fun ! 

[webpunter]

+1. Don't piss on your chips, unless you don't give a shit! Your personal number makes you identifiable so I'd chalk this one up to experience and move on. Fortunately for me I'm the master of disguise so I never look the same when I rock out with my cock out. That way no one knows what I really look like - although good looking generally covers it

What was the last edit - deleting 'very' between 'although' and 'good' by any chance ?? 

[purple_t]

OP, if you post a negative review on here, will they know who you are based on your review? If your AW username is the sane as your username on here, you dun goofed

[webpunter]

OP, if you post a negative review on here, will they know who you are based on your review? If your AW username is the sane as your username on here, you dun goofed

 
You can change your nic.  See the thread from Admin

[Jimmyredcab]

The fact that you made a schoolboy error in not having a punting phone is now sorted.

Not everyone needs a punting phone, I have never needed one ------------- and I am sure NIK doesn't have one.   

[yorkshire123]

This is my view too.

Sadly it means all my old posts will only be the positives and I'll have to 'wish' for a future negative before I can post one. Which sounds strangely bizarre.

Just worried about coming over too fluffy with all positives.   

Why the hell you would wish for a future negative is beyond me! It sounds like you are trying to gain a level of acceptance on this forum for some reason or another.

Excuse my pessimism but why would that be may I ask?

The last fucker who tried this hard didn't even have a cock.

[Tdydl]

 
You can change your nic.  See the thread from Admin

Although your old nic will remain in any quoted text. May be easier to change name on AW.

[webpunter]

May be easier to change name on AW.

Don't think you can do this very easily
Start a new profile - but don't go into the old profile then the new profile on the same web browser at around the same time.  Otherwise this could show up as a linked profile - punters can't see this but the AW girlies can

[sticko]

Don't think you can do this very easily
Start a new profile - but don't go into the old profile then the new profile on the same web browser at around the same time.  Otherwise this could show up as a linked profile - punters can't see this but the AW girlies can

I changed my aw profile name a few months ago - it was simple so unless they've changed anything that's what I'd do.  I also let a couple of regs know about the new name, just to avoid any confusion.  My ukp profile is more useful to me so that one stayed the same.

[Hawkwind71]

OP, if you post a negative review on here, will they know who you are based on your review? If your AW username is the sane as your username on here, you dun goofed

Actually, that I am careful of, initially I did use AW username (another goof) but changed it with admin before I posted anything. The problem with my 'best' negative is what happened may give the game away and if I don't include it on the review then there is no point to the review anyway. Catch 22

Think I will take up all the wise comments here and just move on. But I needed to ask.

[Hawkwind71]

Why the hell you would wish for a future negative is beyond me! It sounds like you are trying to gain a level of acceptance on this forum for some reason or another.

Excuse my pessimism but why would that be may I ask?

The last fucker who tried this hard didn't even have a cock.

You are right Yorkshire, I don't wish for a negative, just concerned that all positives would look a bit weird.
I do overthink things. I have my answer so no further peep from me.

Your last comment is scary as hell. But I checked my pants and its still there thank God 

[arthur]

You are right Yorkshire, I don't wish for a negative, just concerned that all positives would look a bit weird.
I do overthink things. I have my answer so no further peep from me.

Your last comment is scary as hell. But I checked my pants and its still there thank God 

Although id like to see all negative experiences documented on here so the prossie has it stick with her, and future punters warned; your anonymity is most important. If you cant edit the facts to try and hide who you are then its best to keep it secret. Maybe give her a negative due to the rest of the punt if you can.

[Trevor12]

Just to add to what's already been posted, if you wanted to warn others whilst minimizing the risk to you, you could always PM a heads up to punters in your area who you trust and think may be tempted.

[iPad3]

You are right Yorkshire, I don't wish for a negative, just concerned that all positives would look a bit weird.
I do overthink things. I have my answer so no further peep from me.

Your last comment is scary as hell. But I checked my pants and its still there thank God 

Hawkwind, your over thinking this way too much. All you need to do is crack on with some punting, post informatively and tell it like it is. I couldn't give a toss if my positive percentage is high, it simply demonstrates I do my homework and don't take risks.

My budget is also a factor as presently I can't justify a large enough spend per month to allow me a risky one here and there.

Good luck and I look forward to a review or 2 in due course.

[Hawkwind71]

Hawkwind, your over thinking this way too much. All you need to do is crack on with some punting, post informatively and tell it like it is. I couldn't give a toss if my positive percentage is high, it simply demonstrates I do my homework and don't take risks.

My budget is also a factor as presently I can't justify a large enough spend per month to allow me a risky one here and there.

Good luck and I look forward to a review or 2 in due course.

Thank you for this. I do over think, it is the bane of my life not just in punting. I am only going to review new punts. My hl is made up of WGs with positive reviews on UKP so I see no issues.  That's it. I'm done with all my questions. 

[smiths]

I hope this is my last forum question as a newbie. Better out than in as they say.

As any of you may have noticed I have been quite open about the stupid things I did when I first started punting. Paid too much, booked too long, fluffy undeserved AW reviews. I figured it would help people avoid my pitfalls. But on reflection I now realise the dumbest thing I did was use my real mobile phone number.

All this has now ceased but it has left a legacy.

Would I be stupid to post a descriptive negative review of someone I know has my real phone number ?

Or am I overthinking this. Don't hold back guys, developing a real thick skin on here.

IF you don't post the exact date and time of the punt which you don't have to do on here in reviews and just say why it was a negative punt without going in to minute detail the WG might not even know who you are from the review. However, if you think she would be able to work out its you then up to you to decide to review or not, if the number you used to book her with cant be easily changed and is a phone you answer in front of family and friends, or worse one of them might answer it then in my view the risk is to high.

Moving on well done for now having a punting phone, always the smart thing to have if you have anything in life to lose by being outed as a punter.

[azrael]

I hope this is my last forum question as a newbie. Better out than in as they say.

As any of you may have noticed I have been quite open about the stupid things I did when I first started punting. Paid too much, booked too long, fluffy undeserved AW reviews. I figured it would help people avoid my pitfalls. But on reflection I now realise the dumbest thing I did was use my real mobile phone number.

All this has now ceased but it has left a legacy.

Would I be stupid to post a descriptive negative review of someone I know has my real phone number ?

Or am I overthinking this. Don't hold back guys, developing a real thick skin on here.

Just wait a while then change time and day that you saw her, theres mothing in the rules (as far as i know) that states you have to post a review straight away. Post the review up next week saying you saw her the day before you write your review.

[threechilliman]

IF you don't post the exact date and time of the punt which you don't have to do on here in reviews and just say why it was a negative punt without going in to minute detail the WG might not even know who you are from the review. However, if you think she would be able to work out its you then up to you to decide to review or not, if the number you used to book her with cant be easily changed and is a phone you answer in front of family and friends, or worse one of them might answer it then in my view the risk is to high.

Moving on well done for now having a punting phone, always the smart thing to have if you have anything in life to lose by being outed as a punter.

I'd agree, don't mention any specifics, just why it was a poor punt. Leave it at that.

tcm

[smiths]

I'd agree, don't mention any specifics, just why it was a poor punt. Leave it at that.

tcm

IMO this is another excellent feature on UKP, the right to not have to give exact dates and times, on another punting forum I know some WGs REALLY hate this as they want to be able to work out who the punter was, whereas nowadays I want to be as anonymous as possible but still post on here, so if exact dates and times were required I would have to seriously consider doing any reviews.

[Hawkwind71]

IMO this is another excellent feature on UKP, the right to not have to give exact dates and times, on another punting forum I know some WGs REALLY hate this as they want to be able to work out who the punter was, whereas nowadays I want to be as anonymous as possible but still post on here, so if exact dates and times were required I would have to seriously consider doing any reviews.

This has given me a great idea. I am going to change every irrelevant detail and just keep the important stuff true. I now use UKP reviewed girls so unlikely to have another occurrence. Unless I get the nerve to TOFTT one day.

[smiths]

This has given me a great idea. I am going to change every irrelevant detail and just keep the important stuff true. I now use UKP reviewed girls so unlikely to have another occurrence. Unless I get the nerve to TOFTT one day.

Yes that's all you need to do, what matters to me is that the punt was quite recent, the WG looked like her photos, had a good attitude, charged what was advertised not more and what services she offered and the area and first part of her postcode. That is all general info that any punter who has punted with her would know. One thing though on services say she offered you rimming but doesn't advertise she offers it, if you mention you got it from her you MIGHT be the only punter she offered that to making it easier for her to know who you are.

[ramrodronnie]

Just to add to what's already been posted, if you wanted to warn others whilst minimizing the risk to you, you could always PM a heads up to punters in your area who you trust and think may be tempted.

Good point Trevor12.

It really does boil down to each individuals personal circumstances, for example if a guy is single, so whatever the WG says, or does, it surely doesn't matter that much. I can only speak from my own personal cicumstances. Personally I couldn't give a shit if I give a Negative on Any WG who's given a crap service, or lied about what sevices she's offering, or bait & switch. I've got the same nic on UKP as I have on AW. I'm a single bloke, if a WG starts vebally attacking me, and or threatening me, I say "Bring It On" I shoot from the hip (no pun intended) A recent example being a certain Indian WG. So I personally think that it all depends on personal circumstances. Nothing hidden from me, for now anyway.   

[smiths]

Good point Trevor12.

It really does boil down to each individuals personal circumstances, for example if a guy is single, so whatever the WG says, or does, it surely doesn't matter that much. I can only speak from my own personal cicumstances. Personally I couldn't give a shit if I give a Negative on Any WG who's given a crap service, or lied about what sevices she's offering, or bait & switch. I've got the same nic on UKP as I have on AW. I'm a single bloke, if a WG starts vebally attacking me, and or threatening me, I say "Bring It On" I shoot from the hip (no pun intended) A recent example being a certain Indian WG. So I personally think that it all depends on personal circumstances. Nothing hidden from me, for now anyway.   

One point to bear in mind about being single and open about ones punting, again this is a general point is yes a punter may be single NOW but IF he meets someone and his mates mention to that person about his punting that person could end the relationship, so my advice is be VERY careful how open you are and the wise course of action in my opinion even if single is to punt as anonymously as you can telling no family or friends.

I know this from my own experience because I was going to tell a very good mate I was a punter but fortunately I didn't as a while later we had a terminal falling out and he would of certainly told my then partner if he knew out of spite.

[Cuntminion]

I use my own phone

But I get a barrage of ppi, injury calls and texts fuck knows how they got my number

But it's already out there so fuck it use it for this

[Type_O_Negative]

Many prossies have my real phone number - i'm single so i don't care as well.

[hungrypunt]

@hawkwind1

Leave a neg review but the one main detail you said dont want to put in there for her knowing its you, then just stick a message in there "PM me for the real shit deatils"

then your done, (as long as she doesnt PM you ) whoooooooooo!

Oh and as regards the mobile number being found out I thought I was well camouflaged, never had my mobile linked out to anything and not searchable on google but found out its on sync.me, sync.me are cunts ...ha ha

[Hawkwind71]

@hawkwind1

Leave a neg review but the one main detail you said dont want to put in there for her knowing its you, then just stick a message in there "PM me for the real shit deatils"

then your done, (as long as she doesnt PM you ) whoooooooooo!

Oh and as regards the mobile number being found out I thought I was well camouflaged, never had my mobile linked out to anything and not searchable on google but found out its on sync.me, sync.me are cunts ...ha ha

Thats a great idea. Learning all the tricks. Ill check sync.me as well. Thanks for the levity.

[NIK]

Not everyone needs a punting phone, I have never needed one ------------- and I am sure NIK doesn't have one.   

I have had the same number - not the same phone - since I first acquired a mobile in Dec 1997. 

I have never given a fuck about needing a punting phone!