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I wouldn't do that. What about the people sat directly in front.. they are in the splash zone. I think a blow job in the cinema is the way to go.
For myself long bookings, social time, overnights and holidays etc only work if they are with someone I have some connection with and genuinely like as a person.
Sometimes people on both sides of this pastime will create a persona for the duration of the booking. That's great for an hour or two... but its hard work to keep the pretence long term. Wearing a chair out in a restaurant may sound like easy money but if the conversation doesn't flow it becomes hard work for both sides.
Quite a few years ago I had a full evening of sex and room service planned at a great hotel in London. I knew the girl well and phoned an hour before our meet and told her I wanted to alter the plan as there was a musician I wanted to listen to at Ronnie Scotts. I knew she liked music and she told me who was on before I told her. So off to Ronnies then to a Club then back to a house and finally back to the Hotel at 04:00am. Straight to sleep, I checked out at 07:00am and off to the airport.
So I spent the entire night with a stunning vivacious young woman and never get her pants off. Fluffy?...maybe to some but I had a fantastic night out in one of the worlds greatest cities. As for sex we made up for that in Copenhagen a month or so later.
For myself the key to a good booking whether it is for 15mins or 15 nights, whether it is vanilla or S/M is communication. Set the boundaries and be fluid but in control of the dynamic.
Why did I write all this? It is an easy way to explain that I don't divide a long booking into social/sexual time, its just time.
Communication is so important because if the girl above had hated Jazz and "just came along" it would have ruined both our evenings and that would be an evening wasted and gone forever. And if I knew she disliked Jazz... I would have payed her fee for the evening on her arrival at the Hotel and sent her on her way. She had honoured her part of the contract it was myself that changed the plan.
I get the impression that long bookings are generally disapproved off by many members of this august body. But I think overnights and weekends away etc are more frequent than some think.
I appreciate if someone is having trouble hiding their "spare" phone the above will be of little interest to them. Luckily or perhaps unluckily I am single and travel extensively for work so I am free to spend my spare time how and wherever I want which allows a level of flexibility which may not apply to many.
One thing to bear in mind is the longer the booking, the more personal it becomes so I would expect individual experiences to vary enormously.
So Mr AnthG to me its not a social booking or a sexual booking its just a booking the rate is the same whatever occurs.