escorts and disability

[Marmalade]

I met a guy once who was quadraplegic. He can actually type a decent email using just one foot and a touch-sensitive pad on his wheelchair as well as operate various household items with the same touch pad. So he's pretty clued in. He's been paralysed from birth and consequently his body is shrunken and he has to jerk it in order to get the words out to speak. He's aware that he can look a bit shocking to someone unprepared. His sex-drive is fully functioning and unless a nurse helps him out (as I gather happened once in the past), he is a bit stuck. I advised him to get in touch with a sauna/parlour and see if there were girls willing to service him.

From chatting to WGs, I know their willingnesses and capabilities in this area vary enormously. Some list it in their likes. Quite a few either have a social work background or are else very caring people by nature and really like this type of appointment. Others don't really find it comes easily and I don't think there's any moral superiority in wanting or being willing to shag/suck off a paraplegic, just a case of what some feel comfortable with and others don't.

It's not a subject I've seen raised on the punting boards before. If there are WGs who really enjoy and welcome this type of client, it might be good to hear from them and how they approach it and feel about it. It also might be reassuring to any disabled punter who happens to log on to UKP.

the story is a true one, by the way, but not a current or recent one

[Hampton]

An escort that I know well once told me about a website that provides information about this topic.

A quick google search later and here it is, for any that might find it useful

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[Marmalade]

An escort that I know well once told me about a website that provides information about this topic.

A quick google search later and here it is, for any that might find it useful

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Great site

[impossible_princess]

I have seen a gentleman bound to a wheel chair before when I was touring Manchester, the only warning I got was "I can't walk very well". He got to me and told me he couldn't feel from the chest down, so we had a drink and a chat in the front room which moved onto the bedroom. We spent a lovely time together, I must admit I thought I was a little scared I would hurt him or make him leave feeling sexually frustrated but I didn't. He stayed much longer than he booked for, I seem to have verbal diarrhea, and left very happy.
I don't "specialise" in seeing disabled people, expsically from home as I have a three bedroomed house with steps to get to it, but I would never say no to someone who is disabled. I have seen TLC's website too, its brilliant.

[Leroy Jethro Gibbs]

Hi to one and all. Joined the site in the last few days. I am disabled with limited mobility problems and the TLC site mentioned in this thread is very good and actually got me "punting" Met my first WG in Brighton and she was brilliant. Access is a problem if there are too many steps or parking isn't close by the venue . However, there are a few WGs on AW that seem to avoid  responding when I mention disability Bit I'm sure in time I will find a few more WG who will be happy to offer their services to me

[ladyofthemansion]

I am more than happy to see disabled men but I worry about the men who genuinly cannot speak or hear and want to communicte by text. A lot of the time their texts will be ignored as a lot of wankers will claim they are deaf because they dont want to call. I know a genuine guy who is like that and the only reason I replied to his texts is because he pointed out his AW feedback. He only had the 2 but one was from  a lady who had lots feedback herself, otherwise I would have ignored him. :-( and all disabled people have to start somewhere.

[Strawberry]

I am more than happy to see disabled men but I worry about the men who genuinly cannot speak or hear and want to communicte by text. A lot of the time their texts will be ignored as a lot of wankers will claim they are deaf because they dont want to call. I know a genuine guy who is like that and the only reason I replied to his texts is because he pointed out his AW feedback. He only had the 2 but one was from  a lady who had lots feedback herself, otherwise I would have ignored him. :-( and all disabled people have to start somewhere.

This has been my experience too, and it's a shame but the claim to be deaf or have a speach defect has been abused.

[eli69]

This is a 25 minute sketch but it is brilliant

Its Jim jeffries story about when he took a disabeled friend to see a wg

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[eli69]

sorry here is links that work:

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[philuk1uk]

I think any lady willing and able to see a disabled punter and do everything she can to ensure he has a good experience should be applauded.

Being honest I don't know whether I could do it or not, I will admit that through my life I have struggled sometimes feeling comfortable around people who have disabilities.

[Leroy Jethro Gibbs]

I think any lady willing and able to see a disabled punter and do everything she can to ensure he has a good experience should be applauded.

Being honest I don't know whether I could do it or not, I will admit that through my life I have struggled sometimes feeling comfortable around people who have disabilities.

You'd be surprised how often I have heard that over the years . I have often been treated with bad attitudes and disrespect because of a couple of "unhinged bones" but it has always been wgs who were friends that have helped me through some bad times . I have much respect for most of them . I also wished I'd started punting much sooner.

[softlad]

Hi to one and all. Joined the site in the last few days.

Welcome on board LJG 

[Jacob]

Welcome on board LJG 

Likewise, I hope you find things useful and continue to contribute.

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If you came across one that looks like Abby let me know. 

[Fatpro$$ie]

Jacob Pauley perrette is hot isnt she especially as she is 42. I definately would be in line for any wg who looked like her

[TwinkleTootsies]

I'm disabled, but to look at me you wouldn't know.  Letting a girl know is a double edged sword.  Some are OK, others will see you as an opportunity for exploitation.  One woman took my money and left me on the bed.   20 minutes later when I went to investigate her whereabouts, I was met by  a beefy security guard who told me to get back into the bedroom.  20 minutes later, I got dressed and left.  I never did get seen.  I did hear sometime later that the security guard fell down some steps.  Oh well. 

[Lurtz]

I'm disabled, but to look at me you wouldn't know.  Letting a girl know is a double edged sword.  Some are OK, others will see you as an opportunity for exploitation.  One woman took my money and left me on the bed.   20 minutes later when I went to investigate her whereabouts, I was met by  a beefy security guard who told me to get back into the bedroom.  20 minutes later, I got dressed and left.  I never did get seen.  I did hear sometime later that the security guard fell down some steps.  Oh well.

That's Karma for you. Welcome to the board TwinkleTootsies. (Did you pick that name on purpose to make all us hard men sound effeminate when we addressed you?  )

[TwinkleTootsies]

Yup, you've rumbled me 

[blondelover1990]

All of my escorts that I saw were aware of my Asperger's and I am happy for it.

[Marmalade]

good for you mate!

[vw]

All of my escorts that I saw were aware of my Asperger's and I am happy for it.

There are some great escorts out there, were the ones you met all blonde, guessing so because of your name here ?

[blondelover1990]

There are some great escorts out there, were the ones you met all blonde, guessing so because of your name here ?

Eight blonde and two brunette escorts that I saw over the past seven years since I lost my virginity to a 34 year blonde escort.

Most recently, I saw a blonde escort last Thursday.

[vw]

Eight blonde and two brunette escorts that I saw over the past seven years since I lost my virginity to a 34 year blonde escort.

Most recently, I saw a blonde escort last Thursday.

Who's your favourite then ?  Did you get any recommendations here in the past ?

[blondelover1990]

Who's your favourite then ?  Did you get any recommendations here in the past ?

My favourite punt was with Drew (Scottish lass) to whom I had my first overnight with her and most recently, Goldie (both blondes and also both from Stansted Escorts).

My recommendations is to all Asperger's men to see Goldie, she's lovely and bubbly.

[Dani]

Most people with Aspergers or on the higher end of Autism spectrum don't really bother informing us as it really doesn't make a lot of difference.  Seeing an Aspie does not need the booking modified as it does with other disabilities
The difference becomes further down the spectrum where behaviours are radically different and the prossie would need to know to modify the booking and her behaviour to suit.  No good being really bouncy and loud towards someone who cannot tolerate people moving around too much or who become aggressive if someone does something that makes them uncomfortable or with loud noises or with cannot tolerate music etc.
Physical disabilities do need to be told before hand incase there are modifications that need to be made to how one normally works.  You may have to undress them and move them which is not easy if the guy is 16stone and the girl 8stone so she may need a hand from someone.  You may need to have a room where a PA can sit and have a drink and watch TV after helping with lifting and moving and then help again at the end.  Some may even need a PA in the room at all times

I am sure many girls are happy to disabled men just as I am sure many are not for a variety of reasons.  The TLC trust is fantastic in that regard as it only lists women who are not just happy to do so but have an understanding of how disabilities can affect someone not just physically but mentally too.  It takes a long time to get accepted by them as they do checks on you, I think it took almost a year for me to be finally accepted.  However it does not list enough prossies and I have no idea why many enquire but dont get accepted.  It may be because they don't have their own website or they don't mention seeing disabled men but truthfully I have no idea and I know many good prossies who have not been accepted on there which is a shame as there needs to be many more on the site.  I know they do have to be careful who they put there as it is seen as a recommendation but they don't need to refuse quite so many without giving a reason as it could be something that could easily be rectified and it lets the site down that they don't have enough prossies on there

[Marmalade]

The TLC trust is fantastic in that regard as it only lists women who are not just happy to do so but have an understanding of how disabilities can affect someone not just physically but mentally too.  It takes a long time to get accepted by them as they do checks on you, I think it took almost a year for me to be finally accepted.  However it does not list enough prossies and I have no idea why many enquire but dont get accepted.  It may be because they don't have their own website or they don't mention seeing disabled men but truthfully I have no idea and I know many good prossies who have not been accepted on there which is a shame as there needs to be many more on the site.  I know they do have to be careful who they put there as it is seen as a recommendation but they don't need to refuse quite so many without giving a reason as it could be something that could easily be rectified and it lets the site down that they don't have enough prossies on there

yeah the TLC Trust has done a lot of good. But it's still a very individual thing and that shouldn't be lost, partly as there are too many different disabilities for almost any one single person to be familiar with and partly as some people simply have the common sense without all the checks.

Dani, remember we punters see a lot of prossies. Some of them are excellent and some are utter shite, and a lot in between. It's not a regulated industry. On that basis, I think it might be a good idea with anyone with a disability (even something as common as 'very obese') to make it known in advance and ask if the prossie is ok with it. It also gives her time to think outside the box and maybe even 'phone a friend.' If she declines, the punter is best accepting it gracefully rather than shouting that she is 'prejudiced.'

Handling a blind person, a wheelchair person, and persons on all different parts of the spectrum of autism are each different and require different skills or at least insights and ability. You can't always expect an 18-yr old always to have the experience or maturity to have those, just because she decides to earn money shagging.

[Marmalade]

Likewise, I hope you find things useful and continue to contribute.

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If you came across one that looks like Abby let me know. 

Just noticed this old post from Jacob.

No fucking way mate. Top priority keep her to myself. (Currently my hot dream fantasy fuck!)