Using an escort for sex training/coaching?

[Cohesivepunk]

Hey all,

So Im in my late 20's & have only slept with 6 woman, 3 of them being WG's.

None have been great experiences to be honest, a lot of anxiety and awkward fumblings.

Has anyone ever used a girl for the express purpose of getting coached/learning or know any girls around the berkshire area that would provide this type of service?

[Ali Katt]

Don't waste your money. If you want to learn what turns a woman on it'll be a fruitless task; I'm not an expert, but women are confusing. If you want to shag better, not sure if punting will help. It'll not make you less nervous.

[flybynightpm]

I would have thought a lady with high AW feedback and English would be your best bet.. explain what u want and book an hr...only person on my HL in that area is Berkshire Playmate.. Not met her myself.. but positively reviewed.

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[bensonhedges20]

Hey all,

So Im in my late 20's & have only slept with 6 woman, 3 of them being WG's.

None have been great experiences to be honest, a lot of anxiety and awkward fumblings.

Has anyone ever used a girl for the express purpose of getting coached/learning or know any girls around the berkshire area that would provide this type of service?

Use porn.

If you want coaching you should join a dating website and state it like naughtyadults.Co.UK or pof

Pressies are in it for cash first and anything else later. While you may get or find someone who will do it there is.different sex with a partner as there is with a wg.

[Denholm]

To be honest mate, it sounds like what you need is to find a girl who's actually into you. That's the only way you'll get the sexual confidence you're looking for. Some of them do a great job of pretending to be, but at the end of the day WGs are there to get paid and deep down you'll know that even if their performance is flawless.
Find someone nice who you have a connection with and explore. If you're in your late 20s then you're entering a good period of your life for this. What's good for us men is that, conversely to women, we seem to become a bit more attractive to the opposite sex once we've got a few years under our belts. Don't worry about not having been with many girls up to this point, it'll get easier from now on.
The funny part is that once you've made that connection with someone and really found out who you are sexually, you'll then realise that sex isn't such a big deal - that's when punting becomes really good fun 

[Trevor12]

None have been great experiences to be honest, a lot of anxiety and awkward fumblings.

I wouldn't advise actively picking out WGs who you think would be able to 'train' you, just pick you punts based on girls you find attractive, who are well reviewed for providing a good service, and enjoy.

If you have very little sexual experience, at the very least, this will help minimize 'akward fumblings' in civvie life as the practice will help you with the 'mechanics' of sex- positions, smoothish position changes, rhythm etc.

[Marmalade]

Yes, when I was a lad I asked. I don't know that the advice was particularly helpful but the actual act of actually asking a woman was. Just a polite and humble "how do you..."

[306]

you can tick off your bucket list with wg with no great problems
i have ticked cim , fisting and young 20yrs oldgirl  , black girl ee girl, big boobs  still many more to tick but you will have fun  ticking them off
wg  sex is not normal life  sex dont mistake it for that

[CBPaul]

If you really must seek training from a prossie then pick an 'older' British prossie but I think you're barking up the wrong tree. A poor punt will teach you nothing and a good / great punt usually has a lot of acting by the prossie. Plus she'll do what you want and what you like, getting to really know what they like is a whole different matter.

In my early days I had short term civvy hook-ups, I wouldn't say relationships because they didn't last long enough. I also picked up my fair share of prossies (OK they were street prossies). I gained experience but all I really learned was that the civvy girls liked all sorts of things and what worked for one was a resounding failure for the next. I also learned that the prossies wanted me to spunk and go as quickly as possible because they hated punters but loved the brown.

Forget porn too, I pity the younger generation now because they will all think women are constantly wet and ready and it's standard practice to unload over her arse and / or tits. The population will go into decline in another 10 years 

I only really explored things when I had a longer term relationship.

[Dani]

If you genuinely want to learn how to pleasure a woman don't watch porn.
Why not ask the civvie girls you sleep with what gets them going. You could book someone but they will only show you how to please them and every woman is different so you will still be in the same situation. The best way to know is to ask the girl you are with as each one will like something different. 

[cueball]

The best way to know is to ask the girl you are with as each one will like something different.

So, have I been getting it wrong over the years, I thought all women want is for me to jump on, pump as fast as I can, shoot, wipe my dick on the curtains, jump back in bed, roll over, fart and go straight to sleep snoring with one hand on a tit and the other hand between her legs and I'm in the dry patch.

I'll watch this thread closely

[J_H]

Fuck me! I've been making the same mistake!! No wonder I've resorted to knobbing prossies!!!

Seriously though, I noticed a WG on AW Glasgow who advertised 'confidence building sessions' for punters. I thought that was quite clever, exploiting that area of the market - I'd certainly never seen it, or thought of it, before .... but then as an incorrigble curtain-dick-wiper, it wouldn't, would I?!

Rather spoilt the effect though, as she also offers BB!

[CBPaul]

So, have I been getting it wrong over the years, I thought all women want is for me to jump on, pump as fast as I can, shoot, wipe my dick on the curtains, jump back in bed, roll over, fart and go straight to sleep snoring with one hand on a tit and the other hand between her legs and I'm in the dry patch.

I'll watch this thread closely

Selfish bastard !

You could at least be a gentleman and dab the wet patch with her pillow. Incidentally that's what I wipe my dick on, saves the effort of walking to the curtains.

[cueball]

Rather spoilt the effect though, as she also offers BB!

Bacon Butty?

That's a real girlfriend is that

[Sparquin]

Definitely do not look at porn for inspiration: that is for wanking only.

If you want to do your researches then I would suggest tracking down a book by the enchanting title "Lesbian Love Secrets for Men". It has good insight from the female side of the fence.

You might also try "She Comes First" which is a very detailed book on cunnilingus and I can definitely say its teachings have generated some pretty amazing results in my sex life, or rather those on whom I have been able to apply the teachings.

Even if you do not read it then pretending to read it with the cover clearly on view whilst sitting in Starbucks might help you pull.

[Aspen]

Why not ask the civvie girls you sleep with what gets them going.

That's what most guys who pay for it lack.

Funny how almost all women don't understand or have any concept of that.

[Aspen]

Has anyone ever used a girl for the express purpose of getting coached/learning.

I think the serious answer to this is that you can certainly get some practice, and that builds a lot of confidence despite what some say. If you find a regular that you are comfortable with, that works, but you might be looking for a long time. Decent WG's are very few and far between and getting rarer. There is a danger that you get so used to it that it becomes preferable to a proper relationship, so ask yourself if you want to go down that road. With some WG the sex itself is better, but you don't get the feeling of real closeness you do with a partner. As the saying goes, you pays your money and takes your choice.

[Marmalade]

I think there's tow different things. 1) There is much to be learnt from having the humility and balls to ask (any woman, prossie or civvy, as long as it is asked with sincerity). 2) There is a lot to learnt about punting: you just get a lot better at it (or some people do) but it's not related to fucking, merely fucking prostitutes.*



*And in 99.9% of cases it is a waste of time to expect them to help or do anything but mislead if you ask for advice on that. Ask UKP instead.

[adindas]

Hey all,

So Im in my late 20's & have only slept with 6 woman, 3 of them being WG's.

None have been great experiences to be honest, a lot of anxiety and awkward fumblings.

Has anyone ever used a girl for the express purpose of getting coached/learning or know any girls around the berkshire area that would provide this type of service?

Do not waste your money. Attend an orgy, gangbang party and then look what other people are doing and then copy and adapt it for your self.

[Jonny888]

I'm in my late 20's too. Kind of decided to see WG's for practice and pleasure at the same time.

Chatting up a lass is a different thing to being in the bedroom.  For some reason your supposed to automaticly know how to please a lass in bed without ever asking - WG's are the perfect way to get some practice for stamina, nerves, positions, ect.

Plus, WG's will probaly give you some solid advice if you ask them.