"...so I returned the favour"?

[Fush]

In reading reviews I see a lot of the following type of thing:

"[she gave good OWO]...so I returned the favour by giving her RO"
"I think she came and showed her appreciation with some nice kissing."

Obviously outside of punting you want to ensure that your partner is happy. However in the punting world we are paying clients, so, obviously to a degree and all done with the best of respect, we can ask for/do what we want? What I mean by that is if a SP gave you great OWO for example, I wouldn't feel then need to "return the favour" by giving her RO for example. If I want to, then great, but wouldn't feel obliged to. Equally just because you made her cum, I wouldn't expect 'better' service? The service should be the service, yes?

I could be overthinking this but I've seen it for a while now and while everyone is entitled to do whatever they like, it's their money after all, just thought I would see what everyone else thought. Would a SP provide better service if she also had a great time as well?

[Blackpool Rock]

In reading reviews I see a lot of the following type of thing:

"[she gave good OWO]...so I returned the favour by giving her RO"
"I think she came and showed her appreciation with some nice kissing."

Obviously outside of punting you want to ensure that your partner is happy. However in the punting world we are paying clients, so, obviously to a degree and all done with the best of respect, we can ask for/do what we want? What I mean by that is if a SP gave you great OWO for example, I wouldn't feel then need to "return the favour" by giving her RO for example. If I want to, then great, but wouldn't feel obliged to. Equally just because you made her cum, I wouldn't expect 'better' service? The service should be the service, yes?

I could be overthinking this but I've seen it for a while now and while everyone is entitled to do whatever they like, it's their money after all, just thought I would see what everyone else thought. Would a SP provide better service if she also had a great time as well?

Correct, it's just a turn of phrase

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[RandomGuy99]

You are overthinking it.

Bookings are about the SP making you cum and enjoying yourself

SPs aren't that bothered about cuming. In fact most would rather not as it takes a lot out of them and they might have another 4 SSs to please before the end of their working day. If an SP is seeing an SS and they seem set on making them cum then the SP has been known to fake it just to get the SS to stop trying. SPs don't like the pressure of having to cum on a booking.

My advice is focus on you not the SP.

[Fush]

Correct, it's just a turn of phrase

End of Thread 

Fair enough!

You are overthinking it.

Bookings are about the SP making you cum and enjoying yourself

SPs aren't that bothered about cuming. In fact most would rather not as it takes a lot out of them and they might have another 4 SSs to please before the end of their working day. If an SP is seeing an SS and they seem set on making them cum then the SP has been known to fake it just to get the SS to stop trying. SPs don't like the pressure of having to cum on a booking.

My advice is focus on you not the SP.

Good info - thanks!

[Heph]

I could be overthinking this but I've seen it for a while now and while everyone is entitled to do whatever they like, it's their money after all, just thought I would see what everyone else thought. Would a SP provide better service if she also had a great time as well?

It looks like you may rather have underthought this.

Yes- very generally speaking, of course, if someone is going to be nice to you, or makes effort to make time together mutually pleasurable, there's a good chance this will result in a virtuous circle. But whether that transpires or not, what's important is that the person doing so thinks it might.

Also- it's just a turn-of-phrase

[scutty brown]

"[she gave good OWO]...so I returned the favour by giving her RO"
"I think she came and showed her appreciation with some nice kissing."

Anyone spouting crap like that is delusional

[lewisjones23]

Punters put it in there because other fluffy delusional punters have done the same.

I would be very surprised if even 1% of the WG do actually come from anything a punter does with them.

Now remember gents, treat her well ... 

[daviemac]

"[she gave good OWO]...so I returned the favour by giving her RO"

It's a figure of speech mate, just like "I handed over the tokens" and other such terms. You don't pay in tokens do you?

I could be overthinking this

You're very much overthinking it. Making the SP cum does happen but only on very rare occasions and I would say it would be with a reg, 99.9% of the time it's part of the fantasy.

[MLawro93]

It's a figure of speech mate, just like "I handed over the tokens" and other such terms. You don't pay in tokens do you?
You're very much overthinking it. Making the SP cum does happen but only on very rare occasions and I would say it would be with a reg, 99.9% of the time it's part of the fantasy.

Speak for yourself 

[Stevelondon]

I regularly put it into any correspondence I have with a SP.

“I’ll only book you if I can make you cum”

[midspunter]

This made me think of when a few years ago I did a review on an escort where I said I appeared to make her cum and, if I hadn't, I appreciated the effort she had put into realistically faking it. She politely told me off next time I saw her, said she never faked it, and pointed out her squirting as a sign of proof.

[Doc Holliday]

It's a figure of speech mate, just like "I handed over the tokens" and other such terms. You don't pay in tokens do you?
You're very much overthinking it.

I believe guys have a duty to treat her well and provide the SP with an orgasm, as a token of your appreciation for the favour she has done for you.

I won't go into further detail as to whether she actually achieve's her reward, as I prefer what goes on in the room to remain private.

[GreyDave]

This made me think of when a few years ago I did a review on an escort where I said I appeared to make her cum and, if I hadn't, I appreciated the effort she had put into realistically faking it. She politely told me off next time I saw her, said she never faked it, and pointed out her squirting as a sign of proof.

  There are tell signs that cant be faked , the red flush on chest, being jumpy and sensitive the tightning and concentration to get over the line 

To be fair in my 40 years of punting I only got to see this when I was a teenage with the MUCH older Soho ladies  then maybe 1 every few years then along "came" the Chinese girls who seemed to like it and almost every 3rd or 4 one Ive seen has cum ...Only a few of the regulars Ive seen came and then it was as part of a longer session LisaFF did multi and my MMF meets its Always been the intention to get a cum from the lady before we finish...... Yes I ve encounted loads of fake Oh yes `s and breathing  I usally pull a funny face and act up too  . Its a job and business to them and many just wouldnt be able to do it cumming with every punter...Its entirly up to the Girl if she wants to or not thought you can not force a cum out of her like she can us 

[midspunter]

There are tell signs that cant be faked , the red flush on chest, being jumpy and sensitive the tightning and concentration to get over the line 

I've known regulars who insist they come with almost all their punters and others who say they never genuinely cum out of principle - they save it for their private life. Personally, I find it effectively impossible to tell between a good faker and a genuine orgasm.

[Blackpool Rock]

This made me think of when a few years ago I did a review on an escort where I said I appeared to make her cum and, if I hadn't, I appreciated the effort she had put into realistically faking it. She politely told me off next time I saw her, said she never faked it, and pointed out her squirting as a sign of proof.

Hmmm herein lies a problem when most / many of us believe squirting is just a girl ejecting a bit of piss intentionally (let's not open up that debate again  )

[Blackpool Rock]

I believe guys have a duty to treat her well and provide the SP with an orgasm, as a token of your appreciation for the favour she has done for you.

I won't go into further detail as to whether she actually achieve's her reward, as I prefer what goes on in the room to remain private.

Doc are you a reporter, did you make your excuses and leave   

[midspunter]

Hmmm herein lies a problem when most / many of us believe squirting is just a girl ejecting a bit of piss intentionally (let's not open up that debate again  )

Yeah, absolutely. My point kind of was her saying that muddied the waters (and the bed towel) even further.

[MissWolf]

Hmmm herein lies a problem when most / many of us believe squirting is just a girl ejecting a bit of piss intentionally (let's not open up that debate again  )

🤐🤐🤐

[Shrubby]

Funnily enough I was privately thinking the same thing earlier. I'd been reading a review whether the punter claimed to have spent 20 minutes of it going down on the service provider, and I was wondering whether I was selfish for thinking "sod that for a lark." 

It's a transactional situation, I'm parting with cash for my own pleasure. Going down on a WG seems akin to me with going out for a meal and putting in a shift in the kitchen.

Perhaps I am selfish, but it really does surprise me how many reviewers engage in RO.

[daviemac]

It's a transactional situation, I'm parting with cash for my own pleasure.

What if that pleasure is giving RO? is that punter not doing something for his own pleasure? 

Should we all not just do what gives us pleasure in a booking without comments from others?   

BTW those who enjoy RO are just as selfish as you, just not in the same way.

[Thephoenix]

Some of us actually enjoy RO with the excitement of witnessing the wonderful female orgasm (or in my case of course, multi-orgasms).

According to Fag-ash Lill I've been mentioned in dispatches on the SPs forums a number of times.

Lill should know as she's a part time chiropterologist and says I've got a tongue like a Tube Lipped Nectar Bat.

These days the SP's are more likely to get a happier ending than I am, however I have occasionally resorted to faking my own orgasm when I can see the poor girl's running out of steam.
I'd even go as far as to say my acting skills are on a par with any SP. 

[Shrubby]

Should we all not just do what gives us pleasure in a booking without comments from others?   

Of course.

I'd just observed that most punters seem to engage in RO, and it baffles me as the cash would have to be flowing in the opposite direction with me for that to happen. 

If your money, your time, do what you want with it. I'm not judging anyone.

[dunkyfunky70]

Yeah, absolutely. My point kind of was her saying that muddied the waters (and the bed towel) even further.

If she muddied the waters you have another issue 

[Massagetugga]

I generally start with massage (on me obviously) but in a one hour punt I quite often switch to massaging the girl. Obviously it’s great for them having to do SFA but I’ve found it surprising how much they relax and enjoy it. I keep it non erotic for 10+ minutes then start switching it up with teasing and light kissing.  As above, hard to gauge how genuinely turned on they’ve got, but I’ve found it’s made for good sex that they seem to be really quite into. It hasn’t always felt like this but when the girl has really relaxed, that seems to be the key.

I’d say it’s fairly likely to be genuinely appreciated and enjoyed more than the usual they suck you/you lick them routine.

[OakTree]

I personally enjoy going down on a woman. As it’s mainly a GFE I go for and it’s what I would do in a non paid encounter therefore I do it in a paid one.

As for her actually cumming? I very much doubt it. There have been a few that could make you believe it’s real but let’s face it, it’s their job. They’re skilled experts at their trade. Well some of them are.

Only the other week one exclaimed she was cumming and I’d only been down there for literally a minute.

[koshkaj]

Funnily enough I was privately thinking the same thing earlier. I'd been reading a review whether the punter claimed to have spent 20 minutes of it going down on the service provider, and I was wondering whether I was selfish for thinking "sod that for a lark." 

It's a transactional situation, I'm parting with cash for my own pleasure. Going down on a WG seems akin to me with going out for a meal and putting in a shift in the kitchen.

Perhaps I am selfish, but it really does surprise me how many reviewers engage in RO.

a booking is about you, so i don't think you can be considered selfish for focusing on yourself and your pleasure. Most SPs understand this.

i prefer a minimum of 60 min bookings, and as i generally am unable to finish twice in an hour (sometimes not even once), with 30 mins feeling too rushed, RO is an important aspect for me. i also enjoy it, and whether the SP cums or not, it does seem to relax them most of the time to prepare them for the tough road that lies ahead ahead Depending on how i feel and how the SP responds, at times i have spent 20 - 30 mins at it.

i would venture that i am better at RO then most SPs i have visited are at giving head, so i do draw the line at paying extra for the privilege. 

[alabama1]

a booking is about you, so i don't think you can be considered selfish for focusing on yourself and your pleasure. Most SPs understand this.

i prefer a minimum of 60 min bookings, and as i generally am unable to finish twice in an hour (sometimes not even once), with 30 mins feeling too rushed, RO is an important aspect for me. i also enjoy it, and whether the SP cums or not, it does seem to relax them most of the time to prepare them for the tough road that lies ahead ahead Depending on how i feel and how the SP responds, at times i have spent 20 - 30 mins at it.

i would venture that i am better at RO then most SPs i have visited are at giving head, so i do draw the line at paying extra for the privilege. 

Not that you are biased 

[webpunter]

Only the other week one exclaimed she was cumming and I’d only been down there for literally a minute.

I've had that - with the SS Mcr burd Jordan - the SP about who i started the 'SS burds where are they now' thread
It was a picture her fake tanned enhanced rack long blonde hair which she knew how to display [laid on her back legs akimbo] spread over the white sheets
Her hair looked like an advert she looked FAF
I dived down did some lapping & within about 30 secs there was heavy[er] breathing & i'm gonna cum
I said wow i like to think i'm good i didn't realise quite how good
Which brought her acting to a halt tho thankfully it didn't impact adversely on the rest of the meet

[webpunter]

i would venture that i am better at RO then most SPs i have visited are at giving head

how good are you at giving head ?

[MaxVerstappen]

how good are you at giving head ?

I’ve had better

[webpunter]

I’ve had better

 

[OakTree]

I've had that - with the SS Mcr burd Jordan - the SP about who i started the 'SS burds where are they now' thread
It was a picture her fake tanned enhanced rack long blonde hair which she knew how to display [laid on her back legs akimbo] spread over the white sheets
Her hair looked like an advert she looked FAF
I dived down did some lapping & within about 30 secs there was heavy[er] breathing & i'm gonna cum
I said wow i like to think i'm good i didn't realise quite how good
Which brought her acting to a halt tho thankfully it didn't impact adversely on the rest of the meet

Funnily enough this was an ex SS burd too.

On a side note I saw a post earlier that Jordan had sadly passed away.

[koshkaj]

how good are you at giving head ?

I’ve had better