Well worth trying it, go small , some thing like a Aneros, about the size of your big finger, plenty of lube. Just lie there with it in to get use to it, allow at least 45 mins , totally relax and switch her on. Savour the sensations, don't play with your cock. Eventually milky fluid dribbles out of your cock. Keep it in, eventually you will have a prostate cum, with out even touching the cock, depends on how much you have cum previously, it may be thick wads or thin milky secretions. First time I got fucked by a prostate massager I cummed loads, felt gr⁹eat for days , totally relaxed and could piss like a horse. I then went bigger, but it didn't make much difference. The aneros is right for me . If I don't go whoring that week then I use the implement to empty my self and get relaxed.