I ask because despite my intermediate experience as a punter (I've had around 20 escorts), I can still never really fuck like I used to with my ex or when I'm swinging. I find I'm a lot more hesitant and always ask to do stuff, I don't do anything sensual like neck kissing, it's just different and a lot more cold. Any tips to be comfortable and to build chemistry/rapport with escorts? I've been meaning to find a regular but travel and girls touring make it difficult. I'd love to fuck them in the way James Deen or Manuel Ferrara do but can never bring myself to just take control like that.