Asking for the masseuse's phone number

[PumpDump]

Do many of you guys ask for the masseuse's phone number? If I meet someone I like and want to keep seeing I usually ask for her number. I have never been refused. The reason I do this is more than once I have phoned up to make a booking with my favourite girl only to be told she no longer works here. The receptionist will almost never tell you where they have moved to. So for that reason I highly recommend you ask for the number (and keep it to yourself) if you find someone you want to keep seeing.

[GingerNuts]

Chances are the establishment where you met the girl has no idea where they've gone, at least not specifically.

Perhaps the London girls mainly move around in London but outside it the Chinese girls (which seems to be what you go for) tend to move around a lot. They could be in Cardiff one week, Manchester the next, Leeds the next, Nottingham the next etc.

[Thephoenix]

Do many of you guys ask for the masseuse's phone number? If I meet someone I like and want to keep seeing I usually ask for her number. I have never been refused. The reason I do this is more than once I have phoned up to make a booking with my favourite girl only to be told she no longer works here. The receptionist will almost never tell you where they have moved to. So for that reason I highly recommend you ask for the number (and keep it to yourself) if you find someone you want to keep seeing.

A masseuse has occasionally  offered me her phone number with the suggestion that more might be on offer privately, but I can't recall ever asking for it.
Do you ask all the masseuses you see? Even legit ones?
I also don't ask my hairdresser or chiropodist for their phone numbers.
Maybe I'm old fashioned but I think it sounds a bit creepy.

Probably just me chum, but I wonder how many tell you to sod off.
It's hard to believe everyone you've asked is comfortable to give their private number.

Also if a masseuse has left an establishment, it maybe because she's retired from the business.
She may not want to get unsolicited phone calls throughout the day from blokes when she's with her family or partner.

[gguk]

I recently gave one my card, she took it , but didn't offer her number.

[GingerNuts]

I recently gave one my card, she took it , but didn't offer her number.

Is that a special punting card or one with your real details?

[Stevelondon]

I recently gave one my card, she took it , but didn't offer her number.

I have one of those. They stamp it for you and when you reach ten. You can choose something from the menu for free on your next visit.

Oh wait a minute. No…… that’s my Chinese takeaway 😂

[scutty brown]

I have one of those. They stamp it for you and when you reach ten. You can choose something from the menu for free on your next visit.

Oh wait a minute. No…… that’s my Chinese takeaway 😂

One of the local Thai massage parlours has (or had) exactly that.
I've half a memory that I've seen them in one of the Chinese places around Soho as well

[Stevelondon]

I can’t recall ever asking a lass for her personal number, massage parlour or otherwise.
But I’ve been given numbers by a couple of SP’s over the years.

[PumpDump]

A masseuse has occasionally  offered me her phone number with the suggestion that more might be on offer privately, but I can't recall ever asking for it.
Do you ask all the masseuses you see? Even legit ones?
I also don't ask my hairdresser or chiropodist for their phone numbers.
Maybe I'm old fashioned but I think it sounds a bit creepy.

Probably just me chum, but I wonder how many tell you to sod off.
It's hard to believe everyone you've asked is comfortable to give their private number.

Also if a masseuse has left an establishment, it maybe because she's retired from the business.
She may not want to get unsolicited phone calls throughout the day from blokes when she's with her family or partner.

I only ask the ones who have given great service and I want to see then again and am worried they will move to another shop. None have ever hesitated to give it, I do get the impression it is normal for them to give it out. I also suspect they are using a burner number for this purpose.

[PumpDump]

Chances are the establishment where you met the girl has no idea where they've gone, at least not specifically.

Perhaps the London girls mainly move around in London but outside it the Chinese girls (which seems to be what you go for) tend to move around a lot. They could be in Cardiff one week, Manchester the next, Leeds the next, Nottingham the next etc.

I'm not talking about Chinese girls in flats who move every week, I am talking about the girls who have regular working patterns in massage shops.

[scutty brown]

getting a girls phone number is always a good idea if you think she's being trafficked or controlled
It gives another way for the pimps to be linked to her through tracing the metadata of who calls her with instructions

[meptalon]

I only ask the ones who have given great service and I want to see then again and am worried they will move to another shop. None have ever hesitated to give it, I do get the impression it is normal for them to give it out. I also suspect they are using a burner number for this purpose.

That is really the best move. As others have said, at least for Asians, they are kind of moving all over the place every week (usually change on Monday as with full service rotas). If you really want to stay in touch, it is even better to consider having WeChat, as they are fairly likely to change phone number for any number of reasons, but rarely change their WeChat.

[southcoastpunter]

That is really the best move. As others have said, at least for Asians, they are kind of moving all over the place every week (usually change on Monday as with full service rotas). If you really want to stay in touch, it is even better to consider having WeChat, as they are fairly likely to change phone number for any number of reasons, but rarely change their WeChat.

yes, I agree:  i have one Chinese lady's WeChat - she is rotated every two weeks all over the UK (she is independent in the sense she holds her own passport, can come and go as she pleases etc but uses the chinese network to keep her in jobs )  and she lets me know when she is next my way and we arrange a couple of hour slots in the shop and usually an overnight at my place.  Obviously i like her and she gives good service.

[PumpDump]

That is really the best move. As others have said, at least for Asians, they are kind of moving all over the place every week (usually change on Monday as with full service rotas). If you really want to stay in touch, it is even better to consider having WeChat, as they are fairly likely to change phone number for any number of reasons, but rarely change their WeChat.

I got banned from WeChat! I was using the people nearby feature too much to chat up pretty Chinese ladies and they cut me off!

[southcoastpunter]

I got banned from WeChat! I was using the people nearby feature too much to chat up pretty Chinese ladies and they cut me off!

you must have been reported a few times as being rude/abusive or a pest or soliciting for sex. they don't just ban you for using a feature!

[PumpDump]

you must have been reported a few times as being rude/abusive or a pest or soliciting for sex. they don't just ban you for using a feature!

I was none of those things. Just sent a friendly non-sexual message to quite a few nearby women. The banning message gave me the reason which was overuse of the feature. I can get back on if I get an existing user to verify me but I didn't bother.

[mr.bluesky]

A masseuse has occasionally  offered me her phone number with the suggestion that more might be on offer privately, but I can't recall ever asking for it.
Do you ask all the masseuses you see? Even legit ones?
I also don't ask my hairdresser or chiropodist for their phone numbers.
Maybe I'm old fashioned but I think it sounds a bit creepy.

Probably just me chum, but I wonder how many tell you to sod off.
It's hard to believe everyone you've asked is comfortable to give their private number.

Also if a masseuse has left an establishment, it maybe because she's retired from the business.
She may not want to get unsolicited phone calls throughout the day from blokes when she's with her family or partner.

Exactly that, you have to be aware that they do have "a private life" as well as a  "work life" and would not want to receive unsolicited texts or phone calls.

[Azucar D Artagnan]

Thanks for the WeChat idea- could be useful 

[bigboy96]

I've only asked for a number once. Not only did she give a very good massage, she also gave a good blowjob!  I texted her twice for an appointment, but this was a few years ago now. A few weeks after i last saw her, a Chinese girl  waved at me on the local railway station. Looking puzzled, she lifted her sunglasses up, and it was the same girl!  We chatted for a minute or so. I felt like saying 'Sorry, I didn't recognise you with your clothes on' lol.  I may text her again to see where she is now.

[rokujuukyuu]

It's a bit off topic, but bigboy69's comment got me thinking, is anyone here Chinese or part of a Chinese community? I've avoided any Chinese establishments partially out of paranoia, I'm not particularly active in the community but my family are and I'm (irrationally?) worried that it may all come around. Would appreciate any info.

[catweazle]

I've just scrolled through the "contacts" on my phone; I have a dozen or so masseuse's numbers, and I have only ever called two of them.

[scutty brown]

It's a bit off topic, but bigboy69's comment got me thinking, is anyone here Chinese or part of a Chinese community? I've avoided any Chinese establishments partially out of paranoia, I'm not particularly active in the community but my family are and I'm (irrationally?) worried that it may all come around. Would appreciate any info.

Something from around 30 years ago.
My brother (non-Chinese) married a Hong Kong girl (she'd lived in the UK from around the age of 8). They lived about 90 minutes from London by train.
One day he went to London and spent some time around Soho shopping without telling her (I think he was looking for a birthday present or similar).
By the time he got home the "Chinese grapevine" had told his wife he'd been seen in Soho and even which shops he'd been seen in.
It can be a very small world

[Bounce master]

If you've built up a relationship with a masseuse, they'll probably offer it to you themselves. Mine texts me now and then to see how I'm doing.

[Thephoenix]

If you've built up a relationship with a masseuse, they'll probably offer it to you themselves. Mine texts me now and then to see how I'm doing.

Ok if you're single.

[King Kenny]

Ok if you're single.

I used an old phone as a punting phone for a while but never really got in to it. Still use my personal phone for punting, but now I have a work mobile so having 3 mobiles on the go just won't work.

I make use of the WhatsApp locked chats. Whenever I message a girl on WA I lock the chat. Any replies don't show up in notifications. That way they stay discreet. Locked chats can only be opened by face id.

[Thephoenix]

I used an old phone as a punting phone for a while but never really got in to it. Still use my personal phone for punting, but now I have a work mobile so having 3 mobiles on the go just won't work.

I make use of the WhatsApp locked chats. Whenever I message a girl on WA I lock the chat. Any replies don't show up in notifications. That way they stay discreet. Locked chats can only be opened by face id.

 

[Pedalwall]

I've never asked but have occasionally wished I had when I've seen someone whose massage I've enjoyed and then they've just disappeared. If I've really enjoyed the meet whether it's massage, FS etc then I will say at the end "is it OK to come and see you again next time I'm in this part of the world" and usually get "of course" but I'm always aware that they may have moved on. On one occasion the SP said she didn't always work at that shop and gave me her number so I could contact her and find out where she was working. After a couple of successful meets, the next time I contacted her she asked if I was staying over and suggested she came to me instead. That led to more than I could have expected from her in a shop and lasted a number of visits before my work in that part of the world sadly finished.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

It seems that most all massage ladies are part of a wanderiing internerant population. One i was takling to the other day roams over most of the cental area of southern england with forays up North,,

Perhaps they just like travelling around the UK?..

Or maybe they are favoured by their customers who cant follow them around as such?..

[Thephoenix]

It seems that most all massage ladies are part of a wanderiing internerant population. One i was takling to the other day roams over most of the cental area of southern england with forays up North,,

Perhaps they just like travelling around the UK?..

Or maybe they are favoured by their customers who cant follow them around as such?..

More so with the Chinese ladies.
They're often on Fortnightly rotas.

[scutty brown]

It seems that most all massage ladies are part of a wanderiing internerant population. One i was takling to the other day roams over most of the cental area of southern england with forays up North,,

Perhaps they just like travelling around the UK?..

Or maybe they are favoured by their customers who cant follow them around as such?..

they keep wandering so the authorities can't ID and catch them

[gguk]

Is that a special punting card or one with your real details?

Had real details on it.
I'm single and not married though.

[PumpDump]

I recently gave one my card, she took it , but didn't offer her number.

A card with your details! Are you still living in the 1980s?! Do you still use a fax machine?!

[gguk]

No, I also give the cards to attractive civvy girls I meet and tell them to call me. Most wont, unless they are a submissive type who follows instructions (what I am looking for  )