Tantric massage

[Sibiu]

I've never had  a tantric massage. Can someone tell me what it's like and what is involved please. Is it like edging? I've a trip to Germany lined up and am considering trying it out. Thanks.

[FLYING BLUE]

From the 'search' function - may be useful

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=searchposts2

[standardpostage]

Just a body to body massage, with a happy ending, I think.
Loads of oil used.

[Lou2019]

I've never had  a tantric massage. Can someone tell me what it's like and what is involved please. Is it like edging? I've a trip to Germany lined up and am considering trying it out. Thanks.

Have you tried Google 

[Sibiu]

Have you tried Google 

Yes I have. I was looking for info from someone who has experienced it for real.

[daviemac]

Yes I have. I was looking for info from someone who has experienced it for real.

I've only ever found one SP who did it but she packed in ages ago but it isn't something that can be easily described apart from it's nothing like a normal massage and HE.

The one I had she remained almost fully clothed and there was no touching her at all, it was an hour of totally relaxing sensuality culminating in just about the most intense orgasm I've ever had with very little wanking action.

Never been able to find another one who can do it, it's like an art form.

[shed]

I've only ever found one SP who did it but she packed in ages ago but it isn't something that can be easily described apart from it's nothing like a normal massage and HE.

The one I had she remained almost fully clothed and there was no touching her at all, it was an hour of totally relaxing sensuality culminating in just about the most intense orgasm I've ever had with very little wanking action.

Never been able to find another one who can do it, it's like an art form.

Totally agree and spot on . Tantra is an art and ritual that is nothing to do with nudity or nakedness. I lived in eastern Europe for many years and was fortunate to meet a professional tantric goddess who I learned so much from in terms of relationships and the art of sensuality.  Tantric now is a totally misused and misunderstood experience. It was first mentioned here in the UK by Sting lead singer of the band Police many years ago. Finding a qualified tantra specialist is extremely difficult sadly

[houseboot]

Tantric now is a totally misused and misunderstood experience. It was first mentioned here in the UK by Sting lead singer of the band Police many years ago.

Mentioned by Sting ... Yes, 

First mentioned here in the UK by Sting ...  Nope


99% of those that advertise "Tantric" haven't got a clue what it means but use the term to "justify" a higher charge.

If they offer half hour appointments then that's further evidence they haven't got a clue ... most real practitioner's advise 2 hour appointments or at least 90 min.

Likewise if they offer Outcall then they haven't got a clue either because creating the right ambience is important and doing that in a strange, unfamiliar place is just not going to work.

It is very much a "one way" experience with them touching you only and you having the patience to just lay there.

Finding the right person is difficult and you need to explore sites like SouthWestTantra ... and it is expensive which is why I've dabbled but given up the chase.

It was interesting though being "the body" in a training session ... in a yurt ...in Glastonbury ... sometimes you've just got to donate your body to a good cause.

[nwluvit]

I always wondered what went on in yurts in Glastonbury!

[houseboot]

Just a body to body massage, with a happy ending, I think.
Loads of oil used.

  Nope

[s0whatsnew?]

I'd say its best not to expect too much.  Like searching for true love;  it exists but doesn't turn up just because you look for it.   More chances of finding real tantra in Germany?   Why would that be?   Snake-oil sales ppl are everywhere.

[shed]

Mentioned by Sting ... Yes, 

First mentioned here in the UK by Sting ...  Nope

That is my recollection from my time as he mentioned it re a 7 hour session he had in 1990 and it became news. That's as far back as I go  Who mentioned it before in the UK.out of interest that put it in the public domain 🙂

[shed]

That is my recollection from my time as he mentioned it re a 7 hour session he had in 1990 and it became news. That's as far back as I go  Who mentioned it before in the UK.out of interest that put it in the public domain ??🙂

[Sattob]

I agree with the above few. Tantric, real tantric, is rare. I've had it once, and it was orgasmic (deliberate pun), but most 'tantric' is really just a HJ. A pity, I'd pay over the odds for it again.

[LincsLad12]

Judging by areas of your reviews she is probably a bit far out the way for you, but there is a girl in Lincoln who has tons of positive reviews on here. Tantric is all she does, so thst might say something in itself

Think her name is Helena or something similar - she's on AW

[Sattob]

Judging by areas of your reviews she is probably a bit far out the way for you, but there is a girl in Lincoln who has tons of positive reviews on here. Tantric is all she does, so thst might say something in itself

Think her name is Helena or something similar - she's on AW

A tad far unfortunately... Thanks for thinking of me though!

[houseboot]

Judging by areas of your reviews she is probably a bit far out the way for you, but there is a girl in Lincoln who has tons of positive reviews on here. Tantric is all she does, so thst might say something in itself

Think her name is Helena or something similar - she's on AW

Having just read her Reviews, Tantric? Not a chance.

All she is providing is B2B.

As per my earlier post on this thread, lots of SPs use the words "Tantra" & "Tantric" without having a clue what they mean.

[nwluvit]

Tantra is as much about a ritual and a lifestyle, as it is about massage. If you search tantric goddess you may find genuine practitioners.

[Doc Holliday]

Tantra is as much about a ritual and a lifestyle, as it is about massage.

It is indeed in the strict sense and as others have said it is a much abused and inaccurate description with sex work. It should be about connecting with the partner and sharing sexual energy.

But that is probably not really relevant in the paid for massage sense. To come close though it is very much about relaxing and about 'touching', rather than traditional 'pressure' massage techniques.

The other important feature is that there is a giver and a receiver and that must be adhered to. The receiver does not 'actively' touch the giver. The giver can be clothed or naked and may use other parts of  their body for the touching such as breasts, but it should not really be a full 'body to body' massage in the sense we know it.

The touching will normally involve the receiver's whole body at various stages, but will concentrate mainly on erogenous zones (some specific to the receiver) to slowly build up the level of sexual energy. It will normally culminate with a lengthy edging lingam massage for men or Yoni massage for women. It should not involve a blow job or penetrative sex although it could be a precursor to a subsequent session. It does not strictly speaking have to end with an orgasm (but sod that  )

Something along these lines is an example External Link/Members Only If it appeals good luck finding it!

When done properly it can be mind blowing.

[shed]

They also teach you to have an internal orgasm rather than ejaculation. Not everyone can experience that feeling unfortunately. 

[Jonestown]

..........there is a giver and a receiver.........

Too true, and the giver must be experienced as should be the receiver.

Its not realistic to expect to walk off the street and be able to have a tantric experience first time off, its something that has to be learnt and practiced to gain the full effect.

[Sattob]

When done properly it can be mind blowing.

Oh God yes

[puntingking]

I've never had  a tantric massage. Can someone tell me what it's like and what is involved please. Is it like edging? I've a trip to Germany lined up and am considering trying it out. Thanks.

I've been to a few. Take a look at my review of raisa - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=338137.0

[Sattob]

Wow, Raisa sounds excellent. Expensive, yes, so it'll be a rare pleasure, but, it sounds great. Thanks for the review and link.

[dickthin]

Has anyone got a recomendation in wales or south west.

[nwluvit]

Has anyone got a recomendation in wales or south west.

There must be someone near/ in Glastonbury!!

[petermisc]

They also teach you to have an internal orgasm rather than ejaculation. Not everyone can experience that feeling unfortunately.

I seem to recall mentioning that orgasming and ejaculating were separate things on here awhile back, to some incredulity from some.  I was taught how to orgasm without ejaculating, which is good if you want to cum multiple times.

[shed]

I seem to recall mentioning that orgasming and ejaculating were separate things on here awhile back, to some incredulity from some.  I was taught how to orgasm without ejaculating, which is good if you want to cum multiple times.

Totally agree 

[killjames]

I imagine there is a lit youve never had quipid.

[spiralnotebook]

There used to be Devi on the Wirral who did this, great if you enjoyed blindfold strawberry eating and sniffing farts and things. She’s been mentioned on here before but -

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[Thephoenix]

There used to be Devi on the Wirral who did this, great if you enjoyed blindfold strawberry eating and sniffing farts and things. She’s been mentioned on here before but -

External Link/Members Only

That brings back memories.

One of my reviews I put on her site is still showing, but that must be at least 25 years ago when she first started.
I went quite a few times including 4h with another lady, and also with her partner.

The sessions lasted about 180 minutes including scented bath, meditation and various sensory experiences.

She's been discussed on here but more so on the old NW site years ago.
It appeared the experience was a bit marmite and wasn't for everyone, but for me it was mind-blowing.
I probably achieved some of the best orgasms I've had.

She took the whole process very serious as can be seen from her website, and she'd had genuine training from tantric masters in London.
The session was completely centred on the client.
She remained clothed and no touching was allowed.

As well as her expert edging techniques, she would use a variety of aids including blindfolds and earphones to enable you to just concentrate on her touch, but it wasn't just her hands, she used a combination of aids to intensify the feelings ranging from feathers, vibrators,  crops and wartenberg wheels etc.

As she sensed you were eventually reaching orgasm after prolonged edging, she would run the wheel over your nipples or testicles to heighten the pleasure.

Her advert is still live as far as I can see, but it hasn't been updated for years.
She was a bit of a hippy. I wonder if she's still providing the service, or just touring the festivals with her henna tattoos.

I've responded to lots of so called tantric massage adverts since but none have matched the experience I had with Devi.