I had a similar experience to you. Didn't bother after the deposit request. I think I offered to book via adultwork and also the proposed meet time was less than half hour away. Yet she remained adamant. I left it.
ALSO when I made a throwaway comment about her profile being relatively green/could be a scam, she brought up and sent me a link to UKP reviews of Rebecca Ryder that low level pornstar who hosts swinger parties as well. She claimed that was her; her point being along lines of I'm not a scammer check out all my reviews.
SO pretending to be someone else does indeed suggest it's a scam profile.
To be fair and for balance, all 3 hidden aw reviews are positives