Decided to walk and she threatened me...

[Chezdon2]

Wondering if I could have played this any better. Girl can stay nameless unless there is demand. Got to her place, immediate disappointment upon her opening the door. She gave me a towel to get fresh. Was umming and ahhing in the bathroom but I've paid before when I knew it was wrong and regretted it later. Have successfully walked a number of times with girls usually being understanding.

I said to her I wasn't feeling it, and she gave me a look of disgust. Said I should pay her for lost time. So I took a £20 out. She said £50 or she'll call someone over and I'll regret it. She locked the door. There was another working girl in the living room on the couch at the time smirking. This girl was my height, big build. In the end I obviously paid but fucksake. I'm actually glad I paid £50 and walked compared to giving that whore £100 though.

Anyone had this situation before? I get that I inconvenienced her, and to be fair she wasn't too unlike the photos, but she did lie about her height and her face and attitude were just not my style. Didn't even want her near my goods. Argh. 

[Tdydl]

This not only deserves a name and shame, but also a negative review.

Glad you got away.

[Dipper]

Yes, of course there’s demand please.

[Bonker]

It's the delay between seeing the wg and making an exit that causes problems.
You risk getting trapped/ getting into an argument/ being persuaded to go ahead.

The best thing, I've found, is to get while the getting's good. While the door's still accessible.

I've never regretted walking but I have regretted staying.

[Chezdon2]

Sorry, realised this isn't a London specific part of the sub so probably meaningless to the vast majority.


In Croydon. Proper rough girl.

Would be genuinely worried about being out and about and bumping into her somewhere. Hopefully London is large enough that that never happens.

[lewisjones23]

it obviously depends on the individual but id be prepared to stand my ground if threatened etc

for those who are a bit more nervous etc, have an excuse ready, the old failsafe of left your wallet in the car will do

WG know it is a lie but they lie enough so who's counting 🤷🏻‍♂️

[MissWolf]

So let me just check I read this right, you got there, went in, she gave you a towel to go shower and you headed for the bathroom all before you paid her? And this was all from the lounge before you got anywhere near a bedroom?

[8MillionDollarMan]

So let me just check I read this right, you got there, went in, she gave you a towel to go shower and you headed for the bathroom all before you paid her? And this was all from the lounge before you got anywhere near a bedroom?

To be fair I've done exactly the same once,I did have a decent excuse to leave though.

[MissWolf]

To be fair I've done exactly the same once,I did have a decent excuse to leave though.

Oh it's not the walking thats not an issue at all I agree if it's not right walk away, I'm just questioning the fact he went in and was offered a clean towel and shower before having to hand over the fee

[8MillionDollarMan]

Oh it's not the walking thats not an issue at all I agree if it's not right walk away, I'm just questioning the fact he went in and was offered a clean towel and shower before having to hand over the fee

I'm saying I've done exactly the same as the OP ie gone to the shower and then changed my mind.

[Puntingutils]

The Hyprocisy is laughable. She complains on her lost time, demands money,  but she's the on who decieved you by lying about her age and apperance. She should owe you for your time. I agree that it should in itself be a negative review, so her AW can be indexed.

[Punterperson1971]

Name her and post her profile on here as it may save someone else’s money and potentially a lot more

[webpunter]

Name her and post her profile on here as it may save someone else’s money and potentially a lot more

Reply #4

OP, as for you walking 
Fifty aint a disaster, i'd have done the same most likely
Intel shared 
Unless i'm mistaken its TOFTT which can be added to the subject line

Its an occupational punting EdenHazard, just now & again a crap one
IMO Croydon aint the best area for our fave sport

[SonofAJohn]

I was wondering if I could have played this any better. Girl can stay nameless unless there is demand. Got to her place, immediate disappointment upon her opening the door. She gave me a towel to get fresh. Was umming and ahhing in the bathroom but I've paid before when I knew it was wrong and regretted it later. Have successfully walked a number of times with girls usually being understanding.

I said to her I wasn't feeling it, and she gave me a look of disgust. Said I should pay her for lost time. So I took a £20 out. She said £50 or she'll call someone over and I'll regret it. She locked the door. There was another working girl in the living room on the couch at the time smirking. This girl was my height, big build. In the end I obviously paid but fucksake. I'm actually glad I paid £50 and walked compared to giving that whore £100 though.

Anyone had this situation before? I get that I inconvenienced her, and to be fair she wasn't too unlike the photos, but she did lie about her height and her face and attitude were just not my style. Didn't even want her near my goods. Argh.

OP, why did you crumble and pay her?
I think you could have been smarter in this situation. Irrespective of nerves. It seems you have a thing for bbw Ebony women. You could have handled this differently!

[surreyvisitor]

It's the delay between seeing the wg and making an exit that causes problems.
You risk getting trapped/ getting into an argument/ being persuaded to go ahead.

The best thing, I've found, is to get while the getting's good. While the door's still accessible.

I've never regretted walking but I have regretted staying.

100% this, in my early days I didn't have the guts to just walk and every time I regretted it, not just going through with it with a girl I didn't fancy but the utter waste of money.

As you say, best time to walk is when the door is still open, I have made a judgement call as soon as I walked in, turned straight around and walked away.   Also trust your gut, if it doesn't feel right then just walk.

Also if you get the "5 minutes please" text when you are waiting outside after 15 minutes has passed as she has clearly double booked then just walk.

Nothing better than the feeling of relief of a bullet dodged as you walk back to your car with the money still in your wallet.

Or do what I do and just avoid any girls who state "Romanian" in the advert like the plague.  Never once have I had good service, they just want your money and you gone with the minimum of effort possible and the photos are usually fake or photoshopped to hell.

[shed]

OP, why did you crumble and pay her?
I think you could have been smarter in this situation. Irrespective of nerves. It seems you have a thing for bbw Ebony women. You could have handled this differently!

So how could/should he have handled it differently??
He was in a very tense unknown situation and obviously decided he didn't want any confrontation. It's all down to individual choice but I would like the OP handed over the fifty quid and scarpered unscathed and out of a potential hostile situation. In the end she is the loser although may not realise that as she is as thick as shit 

[SonofAJohn]

So how could/should he have handled it differently??
He was in a very tense unknown situation and obviously decided he didn't want any confrontation. It's all down to individual choice but I would like the OP handed over the fifty quid and scarpered unscathed and out of a potential hostile situation. In the end she is the loser although may not realise that as she is as thick as shit

I'm seeing it as this, what is the worst an escort can do if I came to see her and decided to walk? Is she going to kill me? No, then what problem really is there that I want to walk away?
OP sounds like he didn't know whether he wanted to stay or go then ultimately decided to go which wasted the SPs time because she gave him a towel etc.
He said he was immediately disappointed so he should of immediately walked away.

[Chezdon2]

I could have possibly tried other avenues, but when she clicked the lock on the door and threatened to call people I was obviously a bit concerned. She's been trying to call me on a private number just now, which also has me a bit spooked.

Wouldn't actually mind if you could take this thread down please, mods. Or at least remove the link/name. Probably shouldn't have started this. I just hope it ends here because it's caused me a lot of stress today.

Edit: to clarify, I was in the bathroom for one minute. I didn't shower. I was trying to think. When she answered the door it could have gone ahead but her mate being right there and her attitude put me right off.

[daviemac]

I could have possibly tried other avenues, but when she clicked the lock on the door and threatened to call people I was obviously a bit concerned. She's been trying to call me on a private number just now, which also has me a bit spooked.

Wouldn't actually mind if you could take this thread down please, mods. Or at least remove the link/name. Probably shouldn't have started this. I just hope it ends here because it's caused me a lot of stress today.

Txt her back and remind her that threatening people, locking them in the house and demanding money is illegal and you are contacting the police.

[SonofAJohn]

I could have possibly tried other avenues, but when she clicked the lock on the door and threatened to call people I was obviously a bit concerned. She's been trying to call me on a private number just now, which also has me a bit spooked.

Wouldn't actually mind if you could take this thread down please, mods. Or at least remove the link/name. Probably shouldn't have started this. I just hope it ends here because it's caused me a lot of stress today.

Edit: to clarify, I was in the bathroom for one minute. I didn't shower. I was trying to think. When she answered the door it could have gone ahead but her mate being right there and her attitude put me right off.

[Chezdon2]

Txt her back and remind her that threatening people, locking them in the house and demanding money is illegal and you are contacting the police.

I blocked her number. Clearly calling from her mates phone. I have absolutely no idea why she'd be calling (I answered, heard her voice and hung up). She got her money and humiliated me.

Honestly I'd appreciate it if you could remove the link/name as I'm genuinely worried as to what she might do.

[Chezdon2]

So let me just check I read this right, you got there, went in, she gave you a towel to go shower and you headed for the bathroom all before you paid her? And this was all from the lounge before you got anywhere near a bedroom?

Got in, went to bedroom, she handed me towel, I went there for one minute, back to bedroom, said I wanted to leave. She locked the door and stood Infront of it and demanded payment or essentially she'd be getting the muscle over.

Yes I could and should have 180'd at the door but it was a 50/50, it wasn't until her sour demeanour became apparent and the flatmate being there that I decided it wasn't worth £100.

[Hardman123]

Mate, I think you did the right thing. Safety over everything and £50 to not get intro rough and tumble sounds like a sensible move.

We learn and rise again. You’ll know what to do if there is a next time

[daviemac]

I blocked her number. Clearly calling from her mates phone. I have absolutely no idea why she'd be calling (I answered, heard her voice and hung up). She got her money and humiliated me.

Honestly I'd appreciate it if you could remove the link/name as I'm genuinely worried as to what she might do.

Phone the police and report her or at the very least tell her you are.

[Munter84]

The troublemaker in me would have been tempted to put the £20 away, and tell her if she wants trouble, you'll call the police and we can see who gets there first.

In reality who knows what I would do in an unexpected and stressful situation like that. Quite possibly I would have folded and done exactly what OP did.

I do hope all comms were done with a punting phone? Presumably she doesn't know your name or address so there's very little she can actually do aside from be abusive over the phone.

[webpunter]

In the end she is the loser although may not realise that as she is as thick as shit

Thick in all senses
More like fat
In years to come gravity will start kicking in 

When it comes to her 'calling someone over' at some point it will go pear shaped
& whoever comes over will get a pasting from the most unlikely of indivduals

Shows what utter BOLlocks Awank FB is

Best steer clear of Croydon unless a dead cert is my suggestion *
Its a shit hole full of tosspots
Lets not even bother getting started on the SPs there

* any decent SP who in error decides to base herself in Croydon will soon realise & depart sharpish

[webpunter]

The troublemaker in me would have been tempted to put the £20 away, and tell her if she wants trouble, you'll call the police and we can see who gets there first.

In reality who knows what I would do in an unexpected and stressful situation like that. Quite possibly I would have folded and done exactly what OP did.

I do hope all comms were done with a punting phone? Presumably she doesn't know your name or address so there's very little she can actually do aside from be abusive over the phone.

A perfect example that even UKPers who on the surface of it think its ok to use their main mobile need to think again
PAYG never pay for the phone / top up by card
It would take MI5 type resources to link a mobile with a card & link the card to an individual
Much less resources to find a paid for mobile registered at an address
£250 tops & about an hour, maybe less dosh

Folding [as i have referenced above] is the best approach indeed

If i wanted to be cuntish i'd use an anonymous email & inform the local council that the property is being used as brothel
& provide the Awank link + address + mobile [& the friends mobile too]
If you have a printer also send em a letter unsigned without an address - from a 'concerned resident' stating the same
& include the profile + photos
That could cause whoever is renting or owns the property [& renting it out to SPs] some problems

[JontyR]

She got her money and humiliated me.

Yes, she got some money. But humiliated you? Nah mate. Any feelings like this are generated by yourself. 

Earlier on you said that you were glad you paid the money rather than going through and paying the full fee. Try to sticking ot these feeligns rather than beating yourself up. 

She only humiliated you if you want to be humiliated. And don't give her (or anyone) that satisfaction

[Nightingale]

Yes, she got some money. But humiliated you? Nah mate. Any feelings like this are generated by yourself. 

Earlier on you said that you were glad you paid the money rather than going through and paying the full fee. Try to sticking ot these feeligns rather than beating yourself up. 

She only humiliated you if you want to be humiliated. And don't give her (or anyone) that satisfaction

Very wise words.

[s0whatsnew?]

Yes, she got some money. But humiliated you? Nah mate. Any feelings like this are generated by yourself. 

Earlier on you said that you were glad you paid the money rather than going through and paying the full fee. Try to sticking ot these feeligns rather than beating yourself up. 

She only humiliated you if you want to be humiliated. And don't give her (or anyone) that satisfaction

Absolutely.  Its a really tricky situation.  Look on the bright side; you've had a valuable experience which will tell you exactly how to react the next time an immediate choice has to be made.

[Steve6901]

" If i wanted to be cuntish i'd use an anonymous email & inform the local council that the property is being used as brothel& provide the Awank link + address + mobile [& the friends mobile too]
If you have a printer also send em a letter unsigned without an address - from a 'concerned resident' stating the same
& include the profile + photos
That could cause whoever is renting or owns the property [& renting it out to SPs] some problems..." 

It must have been a very bad feeling.  I'm sorry.  But £50 is just a small loss.  Your physical integrity and health are much more important.
Intimidation and blackmail are much more serious.  That's why she really deserves the anonymous letter to the council.

[Chezdon2]

Yes, she got some money. But humiliated you? Nah mate. Any feelings like this are generated by yourself. 

Earlier on you said that you were glad you paid the money rather than going through and paying the full fee. Try to sticking ot these feeligns rather than beating yourself up. 

She only humiliated you if you want to be humiliated. And don't give her (or anyone) that satisfaction

Yeah, perhaps humiliate is an exaggeration. I'm glad it didn't turn out worse. £50 isn't much really.

But definitely spooked after she called me twice (whilst I was out with my mates for a beer) five hours later from a private number. Curious as to what she would have said but I didn't want a conversation with her whilst I was out.

Don't use a burner phone but will definiely think about it. Won't bother going down the tip-off route but definitely a nice idea!

[Iloveoral]

100% this, in my early days I didn't have the guts to just walk and every time I regretted it, not just going through with it with a girl I didn't fancy but the utter waste of money.

As you say, best time to walk is when the door is still open, I have made a judgement call as soon as I walked in, turned straight around and walked away.   Also trust your gut, if it doesn't feel right then just walk.

Also if you get the "5 minutes please" text when you are waiting outside after 15 minutes has passed as she has clearly double booked then just walk.

Nothing better than the feeling of relief of a bullet dodged as you walk back to your car with the money still in your wallet.

Or do what I do and just avoid any girls who state "Romanian" in the advert like the plague.  Never once have I had good service, they just want your money and you gone with the minimum of effort possible and the photos are usually fake or photoshopped to hell.

Great advice
You seem to be lacking reviews of these experiences over the last 5 years ?

[Hardman123]

A perfect example that even UKPers who on the surface of it think its ok to use their main mobile need to think again
PAYG never pay for the phone / top up by card
It would take MI5 type resources to link a mobile with a card & link the card to an individual
Much less resources to find a paid for mobile registered at an address
£250 tops & about an hour, maybe less dosh

Folding [as i have referenced above] is the best approach indeed

If i wanted to be cuntish i'd use an anonymous email & inform the local council that the property is being used as brothel
& provide the Awank link + address + mobile [& the friends mobile too]
If you have a printer also send em a letter unsigned without an address - from a 'concerned resident' stating the same
& include the profile + photos
That could cause whoever is renting or owns the property [& renting it out to SPs] some problems

Revenge at its finest

[Adoniron]

Yeah, perhaps humiliate is an exaggeration. I'm glad it didn't turn out worse. £50 isn't much really.

But definitely spooked after she called me twice (whilst I was out with my mates for a beer) five hours later from a private number. Curious as to what she would have said but I didn't want a conversation with her whilst I was out.

Don't use a burner phone but will definiely think about it. Won't bother going down the tip-off route but definitely a nice idea!

If its any consolation, outing her on here will cost her a lot more than the £50 she took off you.

[berksboy]

OP "Don't use a burner phone but will definiely think about it."

FFS rule no 1 in the Janet and John guide to punting is use a burner phone ! I hope OP sorts one out before his next punt and lets hope its a good one !

[webpunter]

OP "Don't use a burner phone but will definiely think about it."

FFS rule no 1 in the Janet and John guide to punting is use a burner phone ! I hope OP sorts one out before his next punt and lets hope its a good one !

Some people arent meant to be helped
& they then wonder why when the wheels come orf 

[scutty brown]

Sorry, realised this isn't a London specific part of the sub so probably meaningless to the vast majority.

External Link/Members Only

In Croydon. Proper rough girl.

Would be genuinely worried about being out and about and bumping into her somewhere. Hopefully London is large enough that that never happens.

This needs converting to a negative review and she needs adding to the puntingwiki blacklist.
That way we can maximise her losses from this.
Are you agreeable with this?

[jkandjol]

To OP:

Was the other prossie in the living room this one you think? External Link/Members Only
I notice they often work same location same days. But the prossie I linked seems petite? You describe a big girl.

[jamiekinkxxx]

To OP:

Was the other prossie in the living room this one you think? External Link/Members Only
I notice they often work same location same days. But the prossie I linked seems petite? You describe a big girl.

Petite?! 

[BlessedTalent]

To OP:

Was the other prossie in the living room this one you think? External Link/Members Only
I notice they often work same location same days. But the prossie I linked seems petite? You describe a big girl.

Definitely looks like they work together. What was your experience like with her?
I am considering booking her and possible requesting both for a 3some

[Stevelondon]

We all handle things differently and we all know some of us will be more confident in certain situations than others. So I’m not going to even say how I would have dealt with this or how I would be dealing with the aftermath.

#OP……… Davie has given you the simplest and best advise.

[jkandjol]

Petite?! 

Lol I'm a big fella so 5 foot 1 and "size 8" means I can defo lift her up and fuck her all over the gaff and ergo in my eyes she is petite 

[jkandjol]

Definitely looks like they work together. What was your experience like with her?
I am considering booking her and possible requesting both for a 3some

Sorry to be clear I haven't seen, booked, or met her. She is kind of sporadically on my radar. Mixed Brownie was too. But Mixed Brownie a no go for me given this thread, and so will the Lithuanian if they are indeed linked.
For what it's worth, if they are indeed linked I don't think they offer threesomes. Have reached out in early stage comms before and I recall being offered extras for 1 on 1 bookings but never a threesome.

The Lithuanian has one, quite recent, review.

I've bought content of both of them on adultwork and they're hot imo, but I've been in the game long enough now to not let downstairs brain lead upstairs brain.