Often UKP gets demonised by service providers and I feel it is often unfair.
For example gymfitbex has often criticised UKP on her twitter account but has 73 postive reviews out of 82 total which will have obviously driven much trade her way.
Looking at the first page of the South West reviews at the time of writing there are six negatives and five neutrals which shows that the majority of reviews are positive which surely are a good thing for the girls who offer a good service.
I would be interested to see some analysis of review ratings by date and area but I cannot find anything that shows this. Would it be possible for someone to generate this?
Really? A site which has a "worst escort picture challenge" thread and you wonder why it's vilified? Agreed the site has become less toxic over the last few years but it will take a lot of time before its reputation will soften.
Yes, most reviews might be positive but what about the negative ones? They can damage business. Also, any perceived slight could be taken personally, even in a positive review. How many people do you know who are 100% OK with being given "honest" feedback privately let alone on an open internet forum? What do you say when your other half asks if she looks fat in a new dress?
Perhaps when a SP raises the topic with you again you can explore what's driving her perception. Feel free to try and defend UKP
but maybe just tell her that they all sound like a bunch of nasty pricks to you. I saw an SP once (some years ago now) who went on an unprompted rant about UKP at the end of the meet talking about its toxicity and impact on sex workers' mental health (not her own). Funny old thing I've never reviewed her.