have you ever given a escort/worker a gift?

[KatieEdinburgh]

More than I would normally have spent on her but couldn't take it back.

I hope you’re trolling us…… right? You spend more on gifts for hookers than you ever have gifts for your wife??? 

[versace]

Once bought a necklace for a girl who was about to retire, but didn't get to see her again before she did - so it became my wife's Christmas present instead!  More than I would normally have spent on her but couldn't take it back.

Have also bought gifts for a regular or if punting near Christmas time

Why though? What’s the point? Waste of money 

[mj]

Why though? What’s the point? Waste of money 

Why buy gifts for anyone? Because it's a nice thing to do.

[RedKettle]

I hope you’re trolling us…… right? You spend more on gifts for hookers than you ever have gifts for your wife??? 

Perhaps a clue why he is not getting any at home!!!

Not that i can talk………..

[mj]

Perhaps a clue why he is not getting any at home!!!

Not that i can talk………..

Ha ha - yes. Though really it's the other way around. The well went dry long before the spend started getting diverted.

[versace]

Why buy gifts for anyone? Because it's a nice thing to do.

Buying expensive gifts for a prossie 

[KatieEdinburgh]

Why buy gifts for anyone? Because it's a nice thing to do.

I think the part I was shocked by was how your wife is wearing a necklace you intended to gift to someone else, and a hooker at that, which feels a bit sickening if I was her. As a woman rather than as a SP. I think you should not buy more expensive things for escorts than her at home.

But continue to do what you like obviously   

[RedKettle]

I think the part I was shocked by was how your wife is wearing a necklace you intended to gift to someone else, and a hooker at that, which feels a bit sickening if I was her. As a woman rather than as a SP. I think you should not buy more expensive things for escorts than her at home.

But continue to do what you like obviously   

I do get what you are saying but going down that tack for a married man is tricky anyway - is it perhaps morally dubious to be spending £1000s on hookers that could be spent on the family?  That money could have paid for a family holiday. We all face these issues, personally I feel that I earn enough that the family is comfortable and the money diverted would make no real difference.

[daviemac]

Why buy gifts for anyone? Because it's a nice thing to do.

Have you never thought that it might be quite awkward for the SP to explain to family and friends where she got the gift from? not all of them are open about their chosen career. Would you be able to explain an expensive present to your family? 

The best gift you can give any service provider is repeat custom.

[KatieEdinburgh]

I do get what you are saying but going down that tack for a married man is tricky anyway - is it perhaps morally dubious to be spending £1000s on hookers that could be spent on the family?  That money could have paid for a family holiday. We all face these issues, personally I feel that I earn enough that the family is comfortable and the money diverted would make no real difference.

Yeah you may be correct Red Kettle and I do agree. I just think it’s an additional insult if you are actually then unknowingly WEARING this gift that was intended for another woman or mistress.

Just an extra kick in the teeth I suppose lol

A bit like the guy who I heard of wanting a cucumber rammed up his ass (covered) and then took it home to feed to his wife which if you don’t believe me, link is here External Link/Members Only

[Jonestown]

A bit like the guy who I heard of wanting a cucumber rammed up his ass (covered) and then took it home to feed to his wife which if you don’t believe me, link is here External Link/Members Only

Hope it was organic, not any old mass produced cucumber.

Ultimately any money a punter spends on a present for an SP is money wasted, it’s unlikely to garner you any real benefit, plus it’s probably not going to be something she would really want anyway, if it’s something intimate like say a necklace, does one bought by a punter really give her a warm feeling, probably not. Much better to donate your spare cash to a good charity, like the Aged Punters Benevolent Fund.

[RedKettle]

Yeah you may be correct Red Kettle and I do agree. I just think it’s an additional insult if you are actually then unknowingly WEARING this gift that was intended for another woman or mistress.

Just an extra kick in the teeth I suppose lol

At least it was not underwear!! 

[PrimeBritiishBull]

If I find myself visiting the same SP for the 3rd or 4th time she’s obviously magical enough for me to at least bring her a little gift for her to enjoy after or during, her choice. Need you to drop the link to this Japanese SP though, much as I love Chinese girls starting to think I might have to go all the way to Japan to get a genuine Japanese girl.

[daviemac]

If I find myself visiting the same SP for the 3rd or 4th time she’s obviously magical enough for me to at least bring her a little gift for her to enjoy after or during, her choice. Need you to drop the link to this Japanese SP though, much as I love Chinese girls starting to think I might have to go all the way to Japan to get a genuine Japanese girl.

I don't know why anyone would feel the need to do any more than the best gift of all, repeat visits.

We look forward to hearing about the punts you have had, within the last 6 months of course, some members might be keen to visit one's you have seen.

[PrimeBritiishBull]

I don't know why anyone would feel the need to do any more than the best gift of all, repeat visits.

True, probably two elements in it for me. I’m the sort of guy who regularly tips to other services (restaurants, takeaways, taxis, etc), so a little gift I can grab on my way to a punt or whilst drawing the coupons, sort of acts like a tip for this service specifically. The other element, if there’s something I want her to wear for me (knickers, lingerie, costumes, clothing, makeup), I’ll just buy it for her and send it over for my next visit. And unlike what someone else was saying here, I don’t care if she wears it for other clients. In fact, I want her to wear it for other clients, I like when it shows up on her AW profile. Idk, daddy vibes.

We look forward to hearing about the punts you have had, within the last 6 months of course, some members might be keen to visit one's you have seen.

Not much regulars in the last 6 months, one SP is on her second visit, and might be getting a third soon enough. Trying to build a review template in my head first though, before I start penning reviews 

[daviemac]

True, probably two elements in it for me. I’m the sort of guy who regularly tips to other services (restaurants, takeaways, taxis, etc), so a little gift I can grab on my way to a punt or whilst drawing the coupons, sort of acts like a tip for this service specifically. The other element, if there’s something I want her to wear for me (knickers, lingerie, costumes, clothing, makeup), I’ll just buy it for her and send it over for my next visit. And unlike what someone else was saying here, I don’t care if she wears it for other clients. In fact, I want her to wear it for other clients, I like when it shows up on her AW profile. Idk, daddy vibes.
Not much regulars in the last 6 months, one SP is on her second visit, and might be getting a third soon enough. Trying to build a review template in my head first though, before I start penning reviews 

Taxi drivers or waitresses/waiters do not get paid £2/3/4/5 per minute, more likely on minimum wage, I tip those for that very reason, but an escort is paid enough without extras.

They don't have to be regulars for you to review them and if you want help with posting there's a guide here in the punting wiki. -

External Link/Members Only

[PrimeBritiishBull]

Taxi drivers or waitresses/waiters do not get paid £2/3/4/5 per minute, more likely on minimum wage, I tip those for that very reason, but an escort is paid enough without extras.

They don't have to be regulars for you to review them and if you want help with posting there's a guide here in the punting wiki. -

External Link/Members Only

Understandable, politically I don’t think a service worker should have to be sustained or aided by tips. A tip should be an entirely voluntary gesture of added appreciation for a service well performed.

Thanks for the link, I’ve been looking for something like that. Nah nah, I’m not waiting for an SP to be a regular, was just saying I haven’t been up to much gifting lately.

[Punterperson1971]

Understandable, politically I don’t think a service worker should have to be sustained or aided by tips. A tip should be an entirely voluntary gesture of added appreciation for a service well performed.

Thanks for the link, I’ve been looking for something like that. Nah nah, I’m not waiting for an SP to be a regular, was just saying I haven’t been up to much gifting lately.

So have you been punting recently just asking

[big-al93]

So have you been punting recently just asking

Why would you ask, when a mod has already had a word, and he already confirmed?

[Punterperson1971]

I know and I only said it because of the comment he made about he hadn’t been gifting recently to me it sounds like he’s been active that’s all.
If I’ve over stepped the mark I apologise and who made you mod,it was a general question I was asking that’s all not aggressive or anything

[PrimeBritiishBull]

So have you been punting recently just asking

Is there a rule that all punts be review for the goodwill of the community, can’t remember, long time lurker first time poster. Despite the age of this account it is a “newbie” account. Recovered it yesterday. Worry not gents, reviews are on the way.

[daviemac]

Is there a rule that all punts be review for the goodwill of the community, can’t remember, long time lurker first time poster. Despite the age of this account it is a “newbie” account. Recovered it yesterday. Worry not gents, reviews are on the way.

If there was an issue with you or your posts one of the mods would have said something, we haven't.   

[thebastard]

Something like a small box of chocolates around Christmas with a couple of regulars, nothing with a new/random one no.

[VladtheImpaleHer]

Chocolates, wine and an americano coffee. I don't generally though.

[jamiekinkxxx]

- A ProDomme I see regularly I have purchased 'kit' for us to play with and to help build up her collection.
- A (now retired and well reviewed here) escort that I saw on and off for a long time loved large toys so I purchased her a monster dildo that she (and from what she said) and her flatmate loved!