Hedonism NI

[senordingdongs]

Remove is this isn't allowed. So I've been a Fabswingers a few months, initially found it tricky but since met two lovely ladies on it. Noticed that Hedonism NI gets a lot of mentions and they have a few meet and greet type events every few months. I'd be very interested to hear if anyone has attended their events and what it's like, how many usually attend, what the ratio is men/women/couples etc and generally what goes on afterwards

From reading reviews it seems it has changed hands and the original operators have moved on to their own private gatherings in part due to the Sunday Life exposing them a while back when they hired a council owned property for a Masquerade Ball. See they have an Ards meet and greet in May and wondered is it just a bit of a party followed by a bit of fun if you get on afterwards. I can talk and mix well so hopefully can talk a few ladies into bed.

Again remove if this isn't allowed but thought some member here might be on Fab

[frankcastle]

Been tempted but ongoing illness hasn't allowed me to. Done fab met a girl but surprisingly her pics were old as and not for the better. It was so much texting n back n forth for someone I wish I could have made an excuse and left I'd rather see escorts as its more straightforward and less bs. Plus don't care about walking if that bad!
Still tempted for the singers parties in future and prob would take the missus lol.
Definitely keen to hear more about all this!

[pussylover76]

See they have an Ards meet and greet in May and wondered is it just a bit of a party followed by a bit of fun if you get on afterwards. I can talk and mix well so hopefully can talk a few ladies into bed.

Is this anything to do with all the masks being worn in Newtownards at the minute? 

[Rastamouse88]

 

[senordingdongs]

Been tempted but ongoing illness hasn't allowed me to. Done fab met a girl but surprisingly her pics were old as and not for the better. It was so much texting n back n forth for someone I wish I could have made an excuse and left I'd rather see escorts as its more straightforward and less bs. Plus don't care about walking if that bad!
Still tempted for the singers parties in future and prob would take the missus lol.
Definitely keen to hear more about all this!

Definitely have to play the long game on Fab. Majority of single women fab are 45+ the number in their 20's/30's are few and far between. I spent two months chatting to one lady and then she sent me an invite, I had a great time. Another girl I spoke to for a month but you have to put the work in. Not like Tinder or POF were you can be on a date that evening and in bed with them the next morning it's not like that.

[Roman77]

Been tempted but ongoing illness hasn't allowed me to. Done fab met a girl but surprisingly her pics were old as and not for the better. It was so much texting n back n forth for someone I wish I could have made an excuse and left I'd rather see escorts as its more straightforward and less bs. Plus don't care about walking if that bad!
Still tempted for the singers parties in future and prob would take the missus lol.
Definitely keen to hear more about all this!

Had to leave FAB as it was definitely not for me. Chatted to a few women for a couple of months back an forth but were always demanding full pictures with the old "I'll send you mine once I've received yours". When I refused the face pic things turned aggressive with one blocking instantly. Knew then I had escaped one!
The other was chatting to a couple. Became clear after a few messages it was the male in the couple who was more interested in exploring his bisexual needs. I'm not sure if there was a female.

Frank, you're spot on. Less hassle seeing an escort and more discreet especially if you're in a relationship. Too many singles on FAB looking for commitment that would come back to bite you.

[Elnino69]

Regular user of Fab and like everything else it has its good and bad times.
Have built up a regular network of "friends" who I still play with and its no hassle fun.

[Ultra77]

Quite interested in this.. the punting game here at an all time low.

Maybe this is a silly question.. I’ve no experience of these sites. But how easy / hard is it to be faceless?

[senordingdongs]

Quite interested in this.. the punting game here at an all time low.

Maybe this is a silly question.. I’ve no experience of these sites. But how easy / hard is it to be faceless?

I’d say it’s very difficult, there’s a few Belfast escorts on it and I’ve even found single women and couples  I know on it. Basically using the same photos they use on FB and insta, so either they don’t care or just naive.

[Roman77]

I’d say it’s very difficult, there’s a few Belfast escorts on it

How can you tell who are the local escorts on the site? I've always thought some must have profiles on the site.

[Ultra77]

That was going to be my question?

I’ve set up a profile. Will have a mooch around

[Elnino69]

I’d say it’s very difficult, there’s a few Belfast escorts on it and I’ve even found single women and couples  I know on it. Basically using the same photos they use on FB and insta, so either they don’t care or just naive.

Very easy to remain anonymous, don't have to show any face pics. Don't have to share details about where you are, use kik if you want to chat to someone you are interested in or any other secure app.
Good luck and best wishes.

[petebelfast123]

Used to use Fab and had a fair bit of success. I say success, the meets ranged from 28 to about 68, all shapes and sizes. Some good, some bad, some funny stories to look back on. But its time consuming. If you're not willing to send your face picture off into cyberspace, then expect to send 100+ messages to get maybe 1 conversation going. Was never able to see any escorts on Fab.