This story might prove useful in establishing a good roleplay punt.
Through a bizarre turn of events
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One thing led to another. I established a bit of trust with her and she agreed to some fairly heavily scripted role plays. I have come to realise this is important for me; my tastes are garden variety kinky but role play and uniforms
really work. I think it would be impossible to manage this on a first meeting or even commonly on most punts. Rather establishing a regular on the understanding of a role play element (within what she felt comfortable with service wise) allowed me to direct the action. I would give her a script with some planned prompts and uniforms. The punts ranged from good to a couple of the best I have had. Ironically she was far better at the role play than some very much more well known, popular and expensive service providers who have been widely discussed here.
Just to say there were no coercive or age play element in the role play. I suspect the dynamic in the role play is going to be central in finding a cooperative SP. Smiley Miley, also long gone, was also a good candidate for role play but was a bit aggressive and I found unable to follow a script.