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Offline Stephan200210

If there is a "cum once" policy in a booking, what does that actually mean? And what are peoples' experiences as to how it is handled?

Say for an hour booking does it mean:

Once you cum, the booking is over and you leave?
Once you cum the booking is not over - but you can only expect chat (and maybe a massage) for the rest of the time?
Once you cum, the booking continues, and full sex activity, but you just cannot cum?
Something else?

I imagine different SPs have different ways of going about it, but I thought to see how others see it.

Maybe a "cum once" policy is designed so the SP does not have to put in any "work" after the cum, making her job easier, or a way to get someone to pay for "x, even if they cannot accomplish it. Anyway, just wanted to get some views





Offline hendrix

My view is that if I see any cum limits, I never book that WG.

Offline Lou2019

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If there is a "cum once" policy in a booking, what does that actually mean? And what are peoples' experiences as to how it is handled?

Say for an hour booking does it mean:

Once you cum, the booking is over and you leave?
Once you cum the booking is not over - but you can only expect chat (and maybe a massage) for the rest of the time?
Once you cum, the booking continues, and full sex activity, but you just cannot cum?
Something else?

I imagine different SPs have different ways of going about it, but I thought to see how others see it.

Maybe a "cum once" policy is designed so the SP does not have to put in any "work" after the cum, making her job easier, or a way to get someone to pay for "x, even if they cannot accomplish it. Anyway, just wanted to get some views

I would suggest checking it with the individual SP as we don’t all work the same way.

Offline tp69

My view is that if I see any cum limits, I never book that WG.

Agreed. Paying for her time, as long as I don't overstay, a limit is just plain wrong.

I would never book an hour if there was a 1 cum limit, she's having a laugh.

Offline mattharding

My view is that if I see any cum limits, I never book that WG.

^^ This. I would never book anyone who had a 'cum once' policy.

I usually always cum at least twice. I can easily do three in an hour. I don't expect for a WG to provide constant machine-like fucking from start to end but curtailing an hour long appointment 15 minutes in, and assuming it to be over is just not on. I book the time, not on a per-cum basis. Anyone who tries this on without stating gets an instant negative review.

Offline Malvolio

I would expect that policy to mean the punt ends once you come.

Offline JontyR

I would expect that policy to mean the punt ends once you come.
In reality this.

It's a little known fact that the moustache guy on the tubes of Pringles is actually a facsimile of the company's founder who was a prolific punter. He had a predilection "come once" SPs and was often ushered off the premises 10 minutes into an hours booking.

Apparently when he questioned this he was told "once you pop....you can't stop"


Offline RandomGuy99

Only booked one SP who had this policy, but didn't list it on her profile or in her comms, so I didn't know until she left me in the room to go have a shower. I had expected at least a snog or a massage for the remainder of the time.

I paid £160 for an hour got poor service and I came after 30 minutes cos I couldn't see it getting any better and then all I got for my hard earned money was clothed chat. A total waste of money.

It's always best to ask upfront about their policies, so expectations are set on both sides before the booking.

I only cum once, so it's not usually a problem for me anyway.  It just never really entered my head when I started seeing escorts that people were cuming multiple times in one hour. It's just not something that I can do, so I never try.

I did once see a Hungarian milf escort and she delighted in attacking me as soon as I came in the door and making me cum in her mouth in the first 10 minutes and then insisted on trying to get me to cum again before the hour was done.  She kept trying. I kept saying it was ok and I would go. She kept insisting. She eventually came around to the idea that I only cum once in an hour.   :unknown:. She was good fun though. She used to insist on taking me into the bathroom at the end of the booking and washing my cock for me in the sink.
« Last Edit: March 04, 2023, 12:44:04 am by RandomGuy99 »

Offline Dylanbob

If its on there I would not book, unless it was for a 15 min booking.

Not to defend anyone but in 30 min booking not so long back I did try a second time and managed it but the girl did say before starting again please don't be one of the weridos that gets annoyed at me if you can't do it. Which I replied, I don't think my ego is that fragile to be honest.

Offline mr.bluesky

If I make a 1 hour booking and she makes me cum after only 20 minutes I expect to be still given the full hour. Whether or not I can cum a second time is down to what arrangement you had with the service provider but I would not be happy if I was asked to leave after 20 minutes into a 1 hour booking. In fact I would not be happy 20 minutes into a half hour booking. I know some blokes feel that once they have cum there is no need to stay but getting short changed on time spent in the room is my number one pet hate as far as punting goes :angry: ( besides I'm at an age where I am happy to just to shoot my load once in an hour . Anything more is a bonus :yahoo: )

Offline Southernbloke

It usually takes me about an hour to cum anyway, that’s why I tend to go for older ladies who don’t mind taking the time to get you over the line. I always have loads of foreplay rather than straight fucking and 9 out 10 times I cum through oral or hand relief .
If you are lucky enough to be able to cum multiple times in an hour maybe make it clear at the time of booking that is what you want.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

My view is that if I see any cum limits, I never book that WG.

+1

Offline Thephoenix

At my age I'm hoping the cum once policy isn't compulsory. :(  :D
« Last Edit: March 04, 2023, 08:26:20 am by Thephoenix »

Offline Iamforreal

We are all different, some of us can last 1 hour, others can't, big avoid for me if I see any cum limits in 1h booking, I am always trying to ask before booking.

Offline Fuzzyduck

I always try to agree up front what my expectations are so there's no misunderstanding. A SP replied once that she only had a "come once" policy after I had requested GFE with come twice. I declined to pursue. It's particularly important in a shorter booking like 30 mins if you want to give it 2 goes. The real gems even give you what you asked for and still try to coax one more out if there's a little time left.

Offline signy

As others have said, this needs to be sorted with the SP before you start. Are you a cum once guy (like me) and don't want to be rushed? Or someone who needs to cum quickly so they can settle into a session?

If the SP is adamant that it is a one-and-done service, then I would proceed with caution. The real problems arise with the one cum limit combined with trying to make you cum as fast as possible and out the door; this to my mind is totally unacceptable and would earn a negative rating.

Offline Adoniron

Cum once in a 30 minutes booking is the norm. Some girls will expect you to dress and leave once you've cum, others may be happy to make small talk or even give youvl a little massage but there will be no more action.

I can't think what anyone would book an SP who has a cum once policy in a one hour booking.

Offline RandomGuy99

Cum once in a 30 minutes booking is the norm. Some girls will expect you to dress and leave once you've cum, others may be happy to make small talk or even give youvl a little massage but there will be no more action.

I can't think what anyone would book an SP who has a cum once policy in a one hour booking.
I don't have a problem with a cum policy PROVIDED it is made clear at the start and you don't get all that "cum for me baby" BS during your time. In my experience you usually tell in the first 5 minutes if a booking is going to be good. It's really dependent on the attitude of the SP. If they are rushing you then you know they just want to get it over with, which is maybe the reality with all bookings. It's a job and the goal is to make the SS cum and on to the next one.  The good ones put on an act which helps you enjoy it and encourages you to come back for more.  The not so good ones would be happy wanking you off in the first 30 seconds and sending you on your way while they count the money.
« Last Edit: March 04, 2023, 10:51:00 am by RandomGuy99 »

Offline Hobbit

I see it like this. Would you ever go to a restaurant where they said you could only have one glass of tap water or one sachet of salt or ketchup?

I certainly wouldn't and would never ever see a girl that dictates how many times I can cum. Hookers like that I stay clear of! Like garlic to vampires.

Offline MissWolf

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I always smile when I get a message that says 'can I cum more than once'

My answer is most often along the lines of....I don't know but if you come and see me we will give it a danm good try!


Offline tp69

IMO, having a cum policy creates the wrong vibe, and if it's coupled with trying to make you cum as fast as possible then it's just all wrong. You're paying for a certain amount of time and want to feel relaxed and enjoy how it unfolds, not be worried about shooting too early and wasting your session.

Shout out to Jaimee in MK as she probably has the best attitude to this I've come across. She gets 3 pops out of me which is unusual these days. No break between rounds and we go at it for the full hour. She'll use her mouth, hands and anything else she can to ensure she gets the 3rd one done. Always a great session that turns into a solid 1 hour workout.

I see mostly Thai girls and they're generally pretty chilled. I think they all assume 2 pops in an hour, which sometimes requires getting a move on to finish in time. To be honest, I'm pretty sure 'most' wouldn't mind if you really wanted more as long as it's in time.

Offline Troydor69

I’d expect any decent WG to still spend the full time with the punter that was paid for. If the cum once policy was up front then I wouldn’t expect any sex but a bit of massage, cuddling, chat, whatever suits the mood would be fair. If it’s something that was a concern agree what the meet will cover before agreeing the booking.

Offline potter92

My view is that if I see any cum limits, I never book that WG.

Ditto

Offline ruggedscot

It one of the things that I try to find out, any potential SP that gives the one cum rule I never book. If they are putting that on the AW profile then its pretty indicative of how the experiance is going to go. One was a learn, two confirmation and never be a third time... if they are saying one cum then they are off the list.

I booked a two hours session many years ago, and the session was amazing.... in two hours she managed to get me to cum several times, proper cums aswell that amazed me. Id never cum as many times in two hours before. never thought it was possible. However some deft work on my prostrate taught me just how amazing that little gland is. And I also learned that a dry cum can be just as powerful.....

Online Hornydevil666

This cum policy from WG is a lot of shite as ultimately you are paying for her time, if they have a cum policy it should be £50 a "shot" 🤣
« Last Edit: March 04, 2023, 04:39:04 pm by Hornydevil666 »

Offline big-al93

This cum policy from WG is a lot of shite as ultimately you are paying for her time, if they have a cum policy it should be £50 a "shot" 🤣

Guys would just end up having a fairly shite punt trying desparately to not cum, so to get VFM.
Tbf a one pop policy is ok in half an hour, I wouldn't book anyone with that policy for an hour, even though once is plenty for me, it would speak to her attitude imho.

Offline nike

It haa happened to me once. I had booked an hour but was told that the punt was over, after cumming about 15 mins into the punt. No mention on website of cum once policy.
Now I always ask, despite my maturity,  I'm still a two pop man.

Offline Mr Sinister

In my early days of punting came across prossies with this rule quite a bit. The first WG I had with it was one pop full sex then the 2nd pop only a handjob, tbf I paid £50 for the hour.

2nd prossie put it on me as we were getting into action, those times I wasn't a walker or a disagreer, managed to last 30 minutes then that was it straight out the door was quite pissed at that. Learnt my lesson.

Offline pantywetter

30 minute booking seems to be cum once, 1 hour plus seems to be you get the time.

That seems to be an international standard.

A girl who tries to wrap up after cum once in an hour booking is almost an instant negative review for me.

Offline JontyR

30 minute booking seems to be cum once, 1 hour plus seems to be you get the time.

That seems to be an international standard.

A girl who tries to wrap up after cum once in an hour booking is almost an instant negative review for me.

Not, I hasten to add in TS bookings. If you book an hour and you haven't confirmed it isn't cum once then you are asking for a disappointment.

Offline magnetico

Cun once policy = she will try to make you cum quick  :bomb:

Offline the_exile

In my early days of punting came across prossies with this rule quite a bit. The first WG I had with it was one pop full sex then the 2nd pop only a handjob, tbf I paid £50 for the hour.

I have had this too but it was way back when, I wouldn't think it is still common practice. Same thing, booked an hour, when I was set to go for the second time was hold it would have to be HR. Really frustrating.

Goes back to what others have said and confirming the service when booking and then checking again when you're there, before you get started.