I normally go for 15 or 30 min appointments, mainly to go low cost but also because I know I finish the deed quicker than I would sometimes imagine in my head before I get there. So many times I leave long before time is up.
I avoid SPs who have a set pattern of play (which is how many SPs pace things to fit the time). I like to take the lead and fill the time with what I want (I don't like massages which I know is used as "time padding" by some SPs).
I just get carried away and even in 30 min bookings, I can end up with cock in pussy after 6 or 7 mins and a spunky condom by the time the 10th minute has arrived (I'm a one pop guy). More than half the 30 min punt then ends up chatting about crap which seems like a waste of dirty punting time - pity I can't take it as credit and get a free fuck on a different day with the left over time (now there is a marketing opportunity for escorts - time credit banking?)
Before I get to a punt, I imagine what I'm going to do - slow build with all my dirty fantasies carried out - but when I get going, I get my hand in their knickers in the first 30 seconds, then a minute of fingering, 30 seconds of nipple licking, 2 min bj and then I'm raring to fuck and the spunk shows up. Part of my problem could be due to my ex-wife who complained that I took too long to fuck her - if I had not cum in 3 mins from the first wet finger she would announce that sex was cancelled because she was tired - so I always got in quickly when the juice was showing.
I have just booked an hour with a new SP - I have it in my head that I'm going to have drawn out bj, ro and lingering filthy time playing with her pussy and tits that will fill the hour - how can I save the fucking and spunk ejaculation until at least the second half?
I've done blow'n'go/15 min P&D and ironically, they can feel rushed and unfulfilling.
How do you pace yourself to get full VFM?