What it's REALLY like to be an escort

[Jayjay1]

Are we all horny, sleazy , lonely guys with confident issue?

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[JontyR]

I feel dirty after reading that.

the Daily Mail....urgh!

[mr.bluesky]

I wonder if she has any reviews on here. At £200 a time I very much doubt  it. I feel sorry for her poor husband though. He probably thought he was marrying a virgin when in fact she's had more cock than there are fish in the ocean

[Colston36]

I feel dirty after reading that.

the Daily Mail....urgh!

Why would you feel dirty? Are you ashamed of yourself? She seems very sane and sensible.

[timsussex]

Why would you feel dirty? Are you ashamed of yourself? She seems very sane and sensible.

think he was referring to reading the Daily Mail.

[Thephoenix]

Interesting article, but not so much her description of escorting, more so the naive and prejudiced questions asked by the not allowed gang.

[simon07]

How many punters give a WG a tip of £1000 to help them stop sex work?

[Handel2020]

How many punters give a WG a tip of £1000 to help them stop sex work?

Only the most dedicated white knight.

[Stevelondon]

Are we all horny, sleazy , lonely guys with confident issue?

Of course not.
There are always going to be those people (Men and women) who say if you have to pay for sex it’s because your unable to function normally and get it for free.
That’s ridiculous as we all know.
I’ve had so called free sex throughout my life (if there is such a thing) and it’s never stopped me paying for a bit extra.

I’ve no idea why this woman would want to go on not allowed in the first place to be honest.

[mills_and_bhuna]

How many punters give a WG a tip of £1000 to help them stop sex work?

or roughly translated.
'here's two days earnings. Aren't you chuffed you can retire now....?  "

[Ali Katt]

£180 - £200 would be super high even for a London agency in 2005, that would be top whack. I think belle du jour charged less.

[Blackpool Rock]

I feel dirty after reading that.

the Daily Mail....urgh!

I actually had to buy a copy from a newsagent about 15 years ago for someone else, quick thinking though as when I went in I slipped the DM inside a copy of Playboy that I was getting so nobody could see it, saves any embarrassment and clearly the bloke behind the counter had seen it all before 

Anyway that article is pretty shit really and doesn't tell me anything that anyone who doesn't punt probably wouldn't know -
Some guys were quite young; some were pretty old
They were straight guys
Most of the time she didn't fancy them

Revelations 

The maths don't really add up either as she claims to have charged £200/hr and seen 3 punters a week for 6 years so should have earned £180K but says she only saved £30K
I know earning and saving are two different things but even if the agency took half the money (doesn't say either way if they took a cut of the fee or whether that was all hers) then she's still spent £60K of the money or if it was all hers then £150K got spent in 6 years

I'm thinking she's over egged her earnings to try and make it all sound better

[lillythesavage]

I actually had to buy a copy from a newsagent about 15 years ago for someone else, quick thinking though as when I went in I slipped the DM inside a copy of Playboy that I was getting so nobody could see it, saves any embarrassment and clearly the bloke behind the counter had seen it all before 

Anyway that article is pretty shit really and doesn't tell me anything that anyone who doesn't punt probably wouldn't know -
Some guys were quite young; some were pretty old
They were straight guys
Most of the time she didn't fancy them

Revelations 

The maths don't really add up either as she claims to have charged £200/hr and seen 3 punters a week for 6 years so should have earned £180K but says she only saved £30K
I know earning and saving are two different things but even if the agency took half the money (doesn't say either way if they took a cut of the fee or whether that was all hers) then she's still spent £60K of the money or if it was all hers then £150K got spent in 6 years

I'm thinking she's over egged her earnings to try and make it all sound better

Assuming she did not work on her period and had holidays, safe to assume the agency took a cut as they are in it for money she did well to save 30k, spending 60k over 6 years of easy come money is hardly excessive 

[Gordon Bennett]

Assuming she did not work on her period and had holidays, safe to assume the agency took a cut as they are in it for money she did well to save 30k, spending 60k over 6 years of easy come money is hardly excessive 

Yes. Plus there would have been her taxes, NI, pension contributions and third party liability insurance premiums coming out of her gross earnings

[Blackpool Rock]

Yes. Plus there would have been her taxes, NI, pension contributions and third party liability insurance premiums coming out of her gross earnings

Good point, plus other overheads like fuel as she said she drove herself and she'd have had business insurance on the car too and money spent for clothes and underwear etc

Before you know it she was paying to do it 

[RedKettle]

Do many (any) of us really think the WGs are attracted to us?

I hope that they think I am ok as I am polite, clean, not rough with them and pay. But that is only in the same way anybody providing services for money has good clients and annoying clients. I would never think oh yes she really fancied me and enjoyed being fucked by me.

[badsin]

Do many (any) of us really think the WGs are attracted to us?

I hope that they think I am ok as I am polite, clean, not rough with them and pay. But that is only in the same way anybody providing services for money has good clients and annoying clients. I would never think oh yes she really fancied me and enjoyed being fucked by me.

Personally, I have to tell myself it's not being the worst client , and making an effort, to show you're respectful.
Be clean, well washed, try to smell nice, and don't be a twat. I've had some great fun over the years, and I'm sure 'some' of the lasses I've been with would agree 

[willie loman]

cant be arsed reading the article, but as a general rule memoirs of hookers exaggerate big time the money, and the incidence of weirdness in clients, e.g the man who paid me to fly to paris and dress up as little miss riding hood, the 25 stone guy who wanted his feet licked, so how come they are still renting?

[hullad]

It's a purely business transaction and anyone thinking different is deluded.

I have a very good relationship with the one girl I see these days, we are friends of sorts. I am under no illusion that I do enjoy good rates, extensions to booking upto 2 hours sometimes. But I am not stupid enough to even think she likes me enough to getting free sex. I enjoy the time and I think she does, but one day soon it will stop.and that will be the end of the connection.

[Ali Katt]

Do many (any) of us really think the WGs are attracted to us?

I hope that they think I am ok as I am polite, clean, not rough with them and pay. But that is only in the same way anybody providing services for money has good clients and annoying clients. I would never think oh yes she really fancied me and enjoyed being fucked by me.

Yeah. I'm fucking sexy 

[Ali Katt]

cant be arsed reading the article, but as a general rule memoirs of hookers exaggerate big time the money, and the incidence of weirdness in clients, e.g the man who paid me to fly to paris and dress up as little miss riding hood, the 25 stone guy who wanted his feet licked, so how come they are still renting?

From escorts I've spoken to usually the weirdest requests book, but never turn up. One escort said the guy wanted to watch her break eggs in high heels, he never turned up.

Most disturbing was a guy who wanted the escort to wear his teenage daughters clothes. She turned him down.

[Jayjay1]

On onlyfans, i hear girls say guys pay them 10s of thousand to send them farts in jars, watch them pour milk over themselves etc.

Personally I don't see the fantasy of it and def wont pay for it , let alone thousands

[RedKettle]

Most disturbing was a guy who wanted the escort to wear his teenage daughters clothes.

Jesus that is sick!

[dynatron]

well judging by the amount of ladies choosing to earn money that way it cant be that bad can it?

[Ali Katt]

Jesus that is sick!

I'm pretty unshockable and kink friendly, but even I thought that was weird even worse if he's genuine and not some phone wanker.

[randyrobert]

The original not allowed thread is here: External Link/Members Only allowed.com/talk/AMA/4583646-i-was-paid-for-sex-in-my-20s the SP is now in herr 50s so she is talking about her experrience maybe 30 years ago-however much of what she says I have seen in more rercent SP threads on not allowed.

Interestingly the thread comes to a sudden stop before the not allowed Nordic model promoting feminists pitch in with their usual crap-and attacks on SPs who dont present as downtrodden and abused but happy in their chosen profession.