Post Punt Remorse

[vsurfer]

Post Punt Remorse

It must happen to us all at one time or another; What do you do to overcome it?

          I've had many a shit punt and immediately gone to the next parlour in hopes of redemption.

What's your experience with 'Punter's remorse' is it the money, the service, the girl, your performance, something else?

[spiralnotebook]

Go home and fuck the missus, it’s better than nothing.

 

[WelshClipper]

No point worrying about it mate. Your path to hell was sealed when you crossed the threshold of your first punt and you can’t retract no matter what you do to convince yourself.

As for shit punts, all part of the game, like monopoly, sometimes Mayfair sometimes old kent road. I always see a shit pubt as a way to do a great negative review 

 

[Cryton123]

It’s always the money with me. A shit punt makes me think of all the things I could have bought with that cash, or all the reliable girls I know I’d have had a good time with.

I soon move on though. If the money was an issue I wouldn’t be punting, it’s just annoying really 

[MysteryManNo.7]

It’s always the money with me. A shit punt makes me think of all the things I could have bought with that cash, or all the reliable girls I know I’d have had a good time with.

I soon move on though. If the money was an issue I wouldn’t be punting, it’s just annoying really 

Ha, exactly the same with me though thankfully it has been longer than I can remember since I had a truly regretful punt. It's part of the game though as others have said, they can't all be winners and even if you go for a very well reviewed girl she might be having an off day or may just not click with you.

[belamy85]

Money, yes, but also the time. I usually do 60 min visits, mostly away from my own patch (minimum 30 min drive each way). Add the time getting ready and the shower etc afterwards and 3 plus hours can vanish just like that. Time I can't afford to lose. So if it's a rubbish punt I'll feel annoyed with myself for the rest of the day. Of course if it's good...

[sparkus]

I hate to say it but a shit punt is without fail followed up by a solid reliable punt, so in effect costs twice as much.

I've even used the phrase "revenge" when thinking it through (revenge against who? The WG? Sergei? Myself?)

[Fuzzyduck]

For me, the remorse of a shit punt has very little correlation with how much I spent. It makes me reflect on why I went for a punt in the first place (seeking physical connection, intimacy, being horny, needing the high, whatever) and the lack of fulfilment brings me down. It's probably the moment I have my lowest self esteem.

[Malvolio]

Go to the pub - I find a couple of beers helps to take the edge off most things.

[Fuzzyduck]

Go to the pub - I find a couple of beers helps to take the edge off most things.

You're not wrong there.

[Slow grinder]

Like most things in life...to get over it..just go find another fuck..because you ' sold your soul' when you paid for your first sexual encounter.

[itk]

It’s always the money with me. A shit punt makes me think of all the things I could have bought with that cash, or all the reliable girls I know I’d have had a good time with.

I soon move on though. If the money was an issue I wouldn’t be punting, it’s just annoying really 

Exactly the same for me. Would sit at home thinking what I could be sitting here with. One of the reasons I’ve gone nearly a year without a punt especially when it happens with a regular who had always been a 9 out of 10 beforehand. Surprised the missus hasn’t questioned why I’ve all of sudden got the best brands of equipment for my other past time since I’ve saved so much money recently. 
I’m still seeing one woman from a swinging site so the sex is still there, just not the expense.

[Hobbit]

No point worrying about it mate. Your path to hell was sealed when you crossed the threshold of your first punt and you can’t retract no matter what you do to convince yourself.

As for shit punts, all part of the game, like monopoly, sometimes Mayfair sometimes old kent road. I always see a shit pubt as a way to do a great negative review 

 

Fully agree! The path to hell has many whores.

[Rockhead]

For me, post punt remorse comes down to my own performance.

If things go well I feel fulfilled, full of life and positivity etc. If I’ve ‘failed’ to deliver I have that ‘facepalm’ feeling and wish I’d stayed home.

[Shagswell2001]

It’s always the money with me. A shit punt makes me think of all the things I could have bought with that cash, or all the reliable girls I know I’d have had a good time with.

I soon move on though. If the money was an issue I wouldn’t be punting, it’s just annoying really 

It's the money with me as well. I think I could have put new tyres on the car instead,  but then I think, fuck it, I'll get a few more miles out of them yet😆😆

[Maak]

I get my favourite takeaway & go watch my current fav TV series

[vsurfer]

I think my post punt remorse comes from not walking when the gut instinct says it's going to be shite and the little brain says.. let me at it!

I've tried not taking the cash, but that's always awkward.. especially when you meet a selection of girls and then say.. "I just need to draw some cash" be right back... (or not!) 

Smoke smells are a good reason for me to make a sharp exit!

I once paid the entrance fee to discover the SP was thalidomide, I just couldn't deal with it, she sat there unbuttoning her see-through top.. I said... Ohh you're quite young aren't you.. I'm not sure... if I'm too old for you, she said it's okay.. I don't mind.. to this day I still swing between guilt and remorse.. should I have stayed.. did I look like a total twat for leaving.. did I miss out on the best shag of my life or dodge a bullet? would I have been taking advantage? 

Ultimately my biggest remorse comes after handing over a substantial amount of money to a piss-taker, one that rushes me in and out, one that won't let me near with blocking tactics, Oh... my boobs are sensitive, oh you're too big (liar), I can't do that position, come quickly etc.. 

When you suspect that's about to happen and you still hand over the tokens..  Will we ever learn?

No drinking for me so it's normally porn-hub LOL!

[WelshClipper]

For me, post punt remorse comes down to my own performance.

If things go well I feel fulfilled, full of life and positivity etc. If I’ve ‘failed’ to deliver I have that ‘facepalm’ feeling and wish I’d stayed home.

This 

I have driven home from Derby sometimes, punching the air all along the A50 

Then I have returned home from Halesowen with a fat scowl on my face.

Not the SPs fault, all down to my performance on the day 

[lillythesavage]

This 

I have driven home from Derby sometimes, punching the air all along the A50 

Then I have returned home from Halesowen with a fat scowl on my face.

Not the SPs fault, all down to my performance on the day 

Only punt when you need or want it and with money you can afford to forget about regardless  .

Is it only me that thinks booking way in advance is madness?  Just to see a chosen one, what if the mood does not fancy it on the day?

[WelshClipper]

Only punt when you need or want it and with money you can afford to forget about regardless  .

Is it only me that thinks booking way in advance is madness?  Just to see a chosen one, what if the mood does not fancy it on the day?

I never travel for a punt I assure you and whilst in the past I have booked ahead, in general I now book on the day or maybe a few days ahead at most and only if I am confidant.

A punt is always secondary to whatever other reason I need to be at that location.

[JamesKW]

Mine has mainly been performance,when I have gone to parties and cum with only seeing one or two girls I cannot rejuvenate myself before the party finishes,so I either have to sit around and chat with other punters or go home.

[Stevelondon]

Only punt when you need or want it and with money you can afford to forget about regardless  .

Is it only me that thinks booking way in advance is madness?  Just to see a chosen one, what if the mood does not fancy it on the day?

It’s very rare I do this, but in the past I have.
Not so much a case of me not fancying it anymore when the day arrived. As something completely unexpected coming up and me but being able to make it.
Luckily. Very understanding SP who understood these things happen. Re-arranged accordingly.

As for post remorse.
Nah….. couple of beers. Get over it.

[Dave82]

The only remorse I have is not having enough funds to punt more! That and wishing I had started punting years ago

[Bogof60]

Couple of beers usually does it for me too

[bristolnick]

I have had this a few times if its been a poor punt. Feeling like i've wasted my life and money. Not had it since pre covid.

[sparkus]

Couple of beers usually does it for me too

Couple of cold beers...

Then more...

Peer down barmaid's open blouse...

Need to punt!

[yorkshirepunter3333]

As soon as you make the decision to spend x(money) on y(time) with z(person) you need to understand that it maybe a waste of both x and y. You just need to accept this and have no remorse.

But saying that, I do find myself having more massages with HE as its less of an investment and more predictable.

[Punterperson1971]

I’ve just had a shocking punt with an ocd EE wg review to follow deeply deeply regret this one

[king tarzan]

Find another hottie to evaporate from system..
Experience helps not to get into that costly situation

[king tarzan]

As soon as you make the decision to spend x(money) on y(time) with z(person) you need to understand that it maybe a waste of both x and y. You just need to accept this and have no remorse.

But saying that, I do find myself having more massages with HE as its less of an investment and more predictable.

I disagree
For the woman it's win win ray money
That's why beware of the CON

[pbrown355]

Usually it's when I know I shouldn't have gone in the first place. If I've planned well and receive a shit service it doesn't bother me as much. Plan C where I know I should have gone home, and they are always shit, makes me pissed off with myself.
I vowed a while ago not to do any more plan Cs. Kept to it pretty well so far. Less punting but less remorse.

[Home Alone]

Yes; if plans A & B have gone tits up, so to speak, it's surely a sign that you're not meant to punt that day. Just accept that; and think of the money still in your pocket.

[Handel2020]

Money for me as well but I have been a tight bastard in the past and am far from rich. I have only punted once since the lockdown situation and I didn't care too much as it wasn't much of a dent in the wallet depsite being a rubbish punt. I have never found a way around the "remorse" side of it.

[dobob]

Go home and fuck the missus, it’s better than nothing.

 

The price I pay for quite a lot of liberty in my sex life is that my marriage is strictly platonic. So I don't have that option, but what the heck, there's always another time. And I imagine your wife has a great night when your punting plans went wrong, so best wishes to you!

Cheers!

[dobob]

Go to the pub - I find a couple of beers helps to take the edge off most things.

Me too - but sadly, beer-brain and a todger rampant with Dutch courage have often led to to things that beer won't cure.

Cheers!

[Malvolio]

Me too - but sadly, beer-brain and a todger rampant with Dutch courage have often led to to things that beer won't cure.

Cheers!

I've been there - and about eight years ago I decided I would not punt if I'd been drinking.  This is the sensible way forward and will give you enough discipline to walk away from munters hiding behind the door.

[Tomcat]

I've had my fair share of post punt remorse, always kicking myself walking down the road after so so many times my cock gets the better of me.

[Thephoenix]

It shouldn't really come as a surprise, that we get a bit down in the dumps after cumming.
After the rush of orgasm, dopamine levels drop below baseline.
Low dopamine levels are sometimes associated with low energy, depression and general malaise.
That can cause some remorse, but it soon passes when you start planning your next punt.

[Cryton123]

I've been there - and about eight years ago I decided I would not punt if I'd been drinking.  This is the sensible way forward and will give you enough discipline to walk away from munters hiding behind the door.

I’ve never punted drunk, it’s very much my sober hobby. However my location means there’s zero chance of being able to walk to a punt, so no doubt that’s the reason I’ve always been sober.

But I can’t imagine I’d enjoy it anywhere near as much if I was under the influence 

Each to their own though 

[Punterperson1971]

No point being pissed I’d rather have my wits about me anything can happen

[king tarzan]

No point being pissed I’d rather have my wits about me anything can happen

🤜🦊🤛 🤜🐍🤛

[Torqy]

I've been there - and about eight years ago I decided I would not punt if I'd been drinking.  This is the sensible way forward and will give you enough discipline to walk away from munters hiding behind the door.

I agree but I’m coming from a slightly different angle, when I first started I used to have a couple before the deed to settle my nerves, but this just fuzzies the brain and dampens the physical senses! I’ve found that a clear head with full sensation is much more pleasurable, I perform better, I enjoy myself more and immediately afterwards reward myself with a few beers. It works for me 

[aj91]

Post Punt Remorse

It must happen to us all at one time or another; What do you do to overcome it?

          I've had many a shit punt and immediately gone to the next parlour in hopes of redemption.

What's your experience with 'Punter's remorse' is it the money, the service, the girl, your performance, something else?

Glad I'm not the only one who feels this sometimes! Starting to think I was off.

Most remorse I had was first shit punt, she wasn't into it and no connection. I hate the business/transactional types it actually makes me soft.
Second punt was better but by then I was teased and super horny and wanted to try WG from a different background. Pop open the app and send a few texts.
Third punt of the night sorted it out and after that I was pretty soar.

[tynetunnel]

I’d hope to be flying high after 3 punts in one day!

[yonimax]

I always feel i could have had so much good food and drinks for that money... so I do that 

[Home Alone]

I’d hope to be flying high after 3 punts in one day!

I once saw two different girls at different venues on the same day, but the calendar for that day read '2007', not 2022! It was the day I discovered the meaning of the phrase, "shagged out"! 

[tynetunnel]

I once saw two different girls at different venues on the same day, but the calendar for that day read '2007', not 2022! It was the day I discovered the meaning of the phrase, "shagged out"! 

It doesn’t matter the year HA, it’s still an impressive feat 

[Atrueyorkie]

What do I do to get over it? Have a better punt 

The worst part is most of the bad punts are costly which has me flipping chairs. Makes it worse that I think who I could have seen instead or what I could have bought with it. But punters life