Lilith_Grey - Reading

[nohey1]

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The Mission:

My punting woes continue...

Bit of a funny one this, so last Thursday i arranged through AW messages to meet Lilith on the following Saturday - everything was set up through the booking system: £80 for half an hour OWO/HJ. She said she'll send a text to confirm on the day; fine alls good and well. Saturday rolls around - an hour before the meet i have to message her myself to see if it's still on. She tells me (pretty quickly for the excuse she give me) that today is a bit chaotic and could we do next week for a £10 quid discount. A bit annoyed because i took that time out of my day but fine okay. So we rearranged for today (Tuesday) and i message her asking if its still on (she has my number she could text me at any time btw): she replies that it is - she gives me a postal code and she'll text me the full address at the time we're supposed to meet. (Bearing in mind by this time i've asked for her number a few times now and she's completely ignored my request for it twice... ).

I get to her street at the alloted time and wait for a text message...nothing. Obviously i don't have her number to tell her i'm there ether. I wait a very generous 15 minutes and get on my way...

Pros:: Well none really.

Cons: Meeting didn't go ahead; without a contact number you're at a serious disadvantage to get hold of her in this exact situation; long fucking walk back in the drizzle...

With recent negatives and neautrals, i'm kind of thinking her best days are behind her. I won't try again.

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[mh]

That's flaky and deserves the negative. Even though there's no way I'd travel without a phone number for a girl, even with the number there's no guarantee of an answer. I once long ago visited a girl who wouldn't answer once I got there having only arranged the punt a couple of hours earlier. I was tempted to walk up and knock on the door since it was a (rare for me) return visit but I knew that was bad form. Later that day I received a text with the excuse that her sister had come round unexpectedly. Yes, sure.

[nohey1]

Yeah, man, thanks for the comment. Very odd circumstance really - i thought after the first cancellation she would have certainly text me at the meet time. Not sure why she witholds her number, maybe she's had some issues but it's really really impractical for punters.

[CMiller]

I've been very fortunate once by booking a girl without a number as I got her number after the first meet and she became a regular for a year but I likely wouldn't chance it again.

Sorry to hear she wasted your time. You definitely shouldn't give a second chance as she doesn't appreciate how first impressions are usually the most important.

[Cunning Punt]

For the 1st attempt, she had said she would confirm on the day so there was an element of doubt, but it was poor that that she didn't tell you this, ideally with notice, and you had to chase her up.

And obviously absolutely no excuse for flaking the 2nd meet. Did she confirm on the day of the meet itself or before?

Either way, booking was confirmed and deserved negative, but if punters get confirmation on the day and have a phone number then this can significantly reduce the chances of a SP flaking on you.

[nohey1]

For the 1st attempt, she had said she would confirm on the day so there was an element of doubt, but it was poor that that she didn't tell you this, ideally with notice, and you had to chase her up.

And obviously absolutely no excuse for flaking the 2nd meet. Did she confirm on the day of the meet itself or before?

Either way, booking was confirmed and deserved negative, but if punters get confirmation on the day and have a phone number then this can significantly reduce the chances of a SP flaking on you.

She confirmed on the day, which is why i just don't understand why she didn't say: here's my number text me when you're here...

The reason why i trusted her is because she has pretty good reviews with very little flakeyness! Very odd situation.