Agree NBA is a racist thing to put on an AW profile.
I'm white and about 8.5 but have the girth to go with it too. Never had issues in punter world but have in civvy woorld and also had some mention it and say 'no pounding doggie' or if they do anal that its a no anal policy. I'm no fan of anal anyway.
That said some just see it as a challenge and go for it. I've never knowingly hurt anyone but have always been ultra careful since an old fuckbuddy informed me I'm hung.
I can see why some women would say no thick cocks but frankly long ones can be dealt with unless you turn into a total arsehole of a brute when horny.