Author Topic: First time anal today not sure what to think  (Read 9774 times)

Offline JimmySW

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Missionary is good because you can kiss and see their face, play with all of the other bits etc - works for me!

Offline S.X. MacHine

My favourite escort's a right sexy dish
Who loves to do doggy, cowgirl then mish
And when in the mood
For something more rude
She'll grease up her velvet starfish.

‘There’ll was a young man from Brighton,
Who said to his gal you’re a tight un’.
She said ‘pon my soul, you’re in the wrong hole,
Try putting it into the right un’.

Seriously, penetrative sex is great either way. It’s the idea of anal sex being transgressive and ‘dirty’ which makes it appealing.
It isn’t so long ago that it was illegal in this country. Which made it even more fun, I suppose.

Offline BlueRock

Am a big fan myself mainly as it's dirty/taboo. Done it a few times with wg's but generally been much better with partners. Women can definitely orgasm anally. My oh thought it was disgusting at first but now loves it especially spooned and her pussy fingered or toyed at same time. Had a couple of WGs who seem to love it but others seem to use it more to get custom.

Offline Buttplug

I have enjoyed anal with both female and male . It's just what you are happy to do. Personally I wouldn't DFK someone who's into rimming . Whatever floats your boat. One thing which I'll never forget is a MMF 3 some when one is up the back and one up the front and you can feel the others cock sliding against yours.   
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Offline Hotpocket

1st time - stunk of fart
2nd time - shit on dick
3rd time - kept it pussy.

Offline bob1

I have enjoyed anal with both female and male . It's just what you are happy to do. Personally I wouldn't DFK someone who's into rimming . Whatever floats your boat. One thing which I'll never forget is a MMF 3 some when one is up the back and one up the front and you can feel the others cock sliding against yours.

Ive done the mmf thing and the feeling of cock on cock with just the firewall in between is quite a turn on.
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Offline bob1

Ive enjoyed giving anal for years and ill actively go looking for it, ive never managed to fuck an oriental girl in the arse though, thats on my tick list for this year. Has any one accidentally poked the wrong hole?? I did this with a girl friend many years ago, she was very anti anal but one time i just missed my intended target whilst thrusting very hard, she screamed but asked me to stay in, i think it was the shock of going in with only a little bit of lube, i stayed inside her so she could get used to me being there, after that session had finished if i had been good she would let me venture there but only lubed up.
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Offline mradventures

feels different and is a mental thing, and i think some girls feel better/different to others, same with pussy. but i wouldnt be into doing anal with a girl who didnt enjoy it, or was indifferent about it.


Offline petermisc

feels different and is a mental thing, and i think some girls feel better/different to others, same with pussy. but i wouldnt be into doing anal with a girl who didnt enjoy it, or was indifferent about it.
My rule of thumb is that if she charges extra for it, then she can't be that enthusiastic about doing it.

Offline davidgood

My rule of thumb is that if she charges extra for it, then she can't be that enthusiastic about doing it.

That is the rule that I try to follow. I have had my best anal sessions with SPs who do not charge extra.

However it is getting harder to find SPs who included it at a reasonable price. If the SP has a reasonable base price and is only charging a small extra I am tempted to give them a go.

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davidgood

Offline Shearer1955

I have indulged in Anal if its offered by the escort (at no extra cost) but I much prefer the feeling of a pussy
Is it because Anal is often seen in Porn with perceptions that a  level of "control" is involved that guys then believe it to be something they wish to partake in with a lady
Sometimes the reality of A levels is less appealing than the illusion of what it will be ... pussy everytime for me

Offline signy

My rule of thumb is that if she charges extra for it, then she can't be that enthusiastic about doing it.

Whilst this is generally a good approach, some escorts also use an extra charge to limit anal. Even if she enjoys a bit of anal sex, an escort might not want to do it with every punter, and prefers to limit it to once a day (for example). An extra charge and "at discretion" helps do this.

However, I do want to see something in the profile that indicates enthusiasm for anal, and that the overall charge (normal fee + extra) is reasonable. I have no problem if the basic fee is low, and then there are clear extras for some services, but object when the basic fee is high and they then try and add on.

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Ive enjoyed giving anal for years and ill actively go looking for it, ive never managed to fuck an oriental girl in the arse though, thats on my tick list for this year. Has any one accidentally poked the wrong hole?? I did this with a girl friend many years ago, she was very anti anal but one time i just missed my intended target whilst thrusting very hard, she screamed but asked me to stay in, i think it was the shock of going in with only a little bit of lube, i stayed inside her so she could get used to me being there, after that session had finished if i had been good she would let me venture there but only lubed up.

I once coaxed an oriental girl into anal play but it just seemed weird as if her rectum wasn't shaped for it and also her flat butt.  Among civvies I've enjoyed it best with black and Indian women.  Two women I used to (separately) 'fool around with' (as the Yanks would say) at work confessed to being anal virgins and I was persistent in demanding to be the one to do it, it took ages but I got there in the end.  I generally find that if a woman isn't into it already, once you have persuaded them they tend to want it frequently.

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Whilst this is generally a good approach, some escorts also use an extra charge to limit anal. Even if she enjoys a bit of anal sex, an escort might not want to do it with every punter, and prefers to limit it to once a day (for example). An extra charge and "at discretion" helps do this.

However, I do want to see something in the profile that indicates enthusiasm for anal, and that the overall charge (normal fee + extra) is reasonable. I have no problem if the basic fee is low, and then there are clear extras for some services, but object when the basic fee is high and they then try and add on.

"At discretion" is often deployed because of size issues and there has been one who I really wanted to try it with but her extra was more eye-watering financially than it would be for her.

TBH anal is something I prefer 'unsheathed' with a regular partner so I don't push for it with WGs, though I did get some decent anal doggy before suggested as a warm up to the main event.

Offline Thephoenix

I once coaxed an oriental girl into anal play but it just seemed weird as if her rectum wasn't shaped for it and also her flat butt.  Among civvies I've enjoyed it best with black and Indian women.  Two women I used to (separately) 'fool around with' (as the Yanks would say) at work confessed to being anal virgins and I was persistent in demanding to be the one to do it, it took ages but I got there in the end.  I generally find that if a woman isn't into it already, once you have persuaded them they tend to want it frequently.

I remember visiting a well known main street parlour years ago not far from Old Trafford.
There was a very well known mature SP working there, who would also do 4 handed with a transvestite.
Perhaps someone can remember her name.

Anyway, it was only a half hour appointment, so it wasn't long before the Johnny was applied and Percy was rammed into the hole.
I'd been really banging away for a while, but I was finding it difficult to climax with the condom and loose orifice, so I politely asked if we could try anal.

'You're already in my arse' was her reply.

At the time that really surprised me, as  I'm quite well endowed. There'd been no lubricant, and previous experiences with anal had always required a gentle approach and plenty of lubricant.

With her obvious experience, she quickly rescued the situation by yanking off the condom, and asking if I wanted her to spit or swallow.
There's definitely something special when the lady sucks you off, maintaining eye contact, then swallows it down with a nice smile

Offline myothernameis

1st time - stunk of fart
2nd time - shit on dick
3rd time - kept it pussy.

4th time - escort brings out her strap-on


Offline mike_p333

I believe your talking about Chelsea (ex Fingertips Manchester). There was plenty of web chatter about her back in the day, inc video clips.

Offline Thephoenix

I believe your talking about Chelsea (ex Fingertips Manchester). There was plenty of web chatter about her back in the day, inc video clips.

Cheers Mike..... That's her....the legendary Chelsea.
Wonder if she's still around.

Offline shagmore

I love anal, so tight usually and so taboo, Have done with partner who then went arse to mouth, and back again, then into pussy. (This was when I had stopped punting for a few years) but now back on the scene and cant beat a good arse to fuck

Offline magpie252

Cheers Mike..... That's her....the legendary Chelsea.
Wonder if she's still around.

Last see working at New Scarlets in Prestwich, not see her in years
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Offline Englishhorn

Done it with both one guy and several wg but didn’t really enjoy it with either sex. Yes there was the first thrill of going somewhere new, especially with the guy, but tbh just found it a bit boring. Yes nice and tight but for me the best part of sex for me is sliding into a warm wet pussy and all that follows.

Offline Thephoenix

Last see working at New Scarlets in Prestwich, not see her in years
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Thanks.

Yes, that's her.
Back through the anals of history. I mean annals of history. :P

Offline workinallweek

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  i have done it  and the look on the girls face in missionary with a thumb on her clit and a cock up her bum was priceless
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Offline Infinityandback

I did it years ago with an ex girlfriend and didn’t think much of it just the entrance for feeling then as the years went by needed to scratch the itch then booked a WG to do it very keen not a problem for her which was great and did it cowgirl which was ok then later went in doggy with the idea of a vibe up her pussy from beneath this ended up in one of the best climaxes I’ve ever had I’m now wanting to repeat but mish👍🏻

Offline Stacyp

I have had good and bad experiences, but there is the almost taboo feel about poking someone’s shitter, but I do prefer a nice wet warm pussy...

But horses for course I guess

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I'm surprised no one has mentioned periods yet, as that's a prime opportunity to try it ie. when the front is off limits.

Offline mradventures

Whilst this is generally a good approach, some escorts also use an extra charge to limit anal. Even if she enjoys a bit of anal sex, an escort might not want to do it with every punter, and prefers to limit it to once a day (for example). An extra charge and "at discretion" helps do this.

However, I do want to see something in the profile that indicates enthusiasm for anal, and that the overall charge (normal fee + extra) is reasonable. I have no problem if the basic fee is low, and then there are clear extras for some services, but object when the basic fee is high and they then try and add on.

you could just ask them. the extra prep and injury risk, plus if they have someone who is rough as a client.. lots of reasons to charge some extra that are legitimate.

Offline heisenberg.

It's only decent if it's bareback. And when I mean bareback I mean with a girlfriend, wife or a casual (non prostitute) woman you're seeing.

I'm still fairly young and had the pleasure of doing it multiple times, first you need water based lube, non of this sticky shit in asda/durex. Go to Ann summer and get proper water based anal lube...makes a world of difference. Next you'll need a willing girl .any of the three I mentioned above.

Best thing to do is to lube the dick, and around her arse and gently force it in. The woman will always have that gorilla grip at the start because it's so tight. Of course the anal passage relaxes after a while when she gets used to it making the experience less enjoyable somewhat.

The best balance I've had so far is with a casual and I switch directly from her pussy to ass to cum inside of. A few minutes in that tight arse to explode inside of is all you need and it feels amazing.
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Offline MrRaunchy2

I have never been a fan of Anal but the idea of a dick going in a hole where it shouldn't is quite a turn-on. The act itself isn't that amazing. Pussies are much more wet and comfortable to be inside where an ass is quite tight and not so comfortable.

I guess it's horses for courses but for me a wet tight pussy wins hands down.  :hi:

This pretty much. Although I do enjoy anal, I prefer pussy. My favourite position for anal is missionary as I get a view of the pussy whilst fucking the arse.

Offline tigerbiker

I enjoy it and I find that escorts that offer it are generally (but not always) good at their job.
The one thing I don't like is a shitty dick - so I always make sure that any escort is fully prepared (ie douched/enema) - this thins out the potential hot list. I recon only 1 in 4 escorts do this and I have had some that say they have but obviously have not prepped and a few that probably did prep but then experienced some "movement" between the clean out and the fuck.
The best thing is to find a regular who can clean well and enjoy it with you - I have 2 on my list who tick these boxes and I enjoy an anal fuck with them every couple of months or so when there is no lock down or restrictions
I do wish that reviewers who mention anal would classify the SP as a clean arsehole or a shitty dick service.
The other advice for newbies is to use a strong condom - thin condoms can split. I use either a Durex Extra Safe or a Pasante Extra and take my own silicone lube.
I like anal because of the tightness on entry. I do penertrate deep but the best bit is to cum when the head of your cock is about an inch into the sphincter - that squeeze is paradise!

Offline Cum_again

did it twice with hookers, didnt come either time, and after a minute or 2 switched back to normal sex, dont imagine that i will ever do it again,.though i enjoy giving and receiving anal play, Christopher hitchens  once observed that 2 things in life are over-rated, picnics and anal sex, i would add, champagne.
I thought it was lobster?
It is over rated of course.  But it doesn’t stop me seeking it out.  I was once fucking Lucy2015 (anyone remember her?) up her bum and she lost control and soiled herself.  I wouldn’t say I enjoyed it, but it’s reignited the sense of forbidden and danger that comes with buggering pretty women.

Offline petermisc

I thought it was lobster?
It is over rated of course.  But it doesn’t stop me seeking it out.  I was once fucking Lucy2015 (anyone remember her?) up her bum and she lost control and soiled herself.  I wouldn’t say I enjoyed it, but it’s reignited the sense of forbidden and danger that comes with buggering pretty women.
Jeez, its just that sort of image that puts me off, not makes me seek it out!

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Had anal once with Amy the Rom in Brum.....didn’t do it for me other than the buzz of getting it of my ‘to do’ list.

Tight entry then nothing......it was like shagging a loose fanny. Same with jizzing over girls tits or arse, doesn’t really give me anything.
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Offline Henry61

New here, Had a couple of punts last year, Never had anal but its on the list to try after lockdown,

Offline myothernameis

New here, Had a couple of punts last year, Never had anal but its on the list to try after lockdown,

If you have had some punts last year, in the last 12 months, how about some reviews of the escorts you have seen

Offline davey.edwards1969

One of my regular girls definitely enjoys it more than vaginal sex and doesn't charge any extra - her reviews certainly support this as the majority report that she encourages everyone  to fuck her arse
She did tell me that she actually finds it easier to have anal sex all day than vaginal as her pussy can get quite sore after several punters whereas she said her arse can take it much better

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Met a bird on tinder once and within 20mins of being at hers i was b0ll0ks deep in her batty hole, was exciting as it was literally a meet fk n go, but could never reapect a bird that let me drill her poop hole first night  :rolleyes:
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Offline Vice Admiral

Even when buried if the girl wriggles around a bit it's a great feeling.  Without being too fluffy and having been in a shit relationship for some time now ...

Isn't that what this whole thread's about?


Offline peterpee

i love Anal, give and take tbh.

im a little larger than most so not all girls will do it or change their mind when they see it.

i love rimming and it really turns me on when a girl agree to anal and the way she moans as it goes in and you need to push to get there. i like it nice and tight, been with one or two girls and done anal that was like getting a blowjob from a hairdryer and the pussy was a lot tighter.


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        been with one or two girls and done anal that was like getting a blowjob from a hairdryer

Can’t quite get my head around that 🧐🧐
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Offline Charliehutton

I've only just seen the post, and confess I can't be bothered reading 2 pages of responses, so this may be repeating previous answers.

I wonder if it's a power thing; regular sex feels like something you do with a woman, whereas anal feels like something you do to a woman.

Whatever it is, I'm a recent convert, and at a reasonable price, I'm in.