I once coaxed an oriental girl into anal play but it just seemed weird as if her rectum wasn't shaped for it and also her flat butt. Among civvies I've enjoyed it best with black and Indian women. Two women I used to (separately) 'fool around with' (as the Yanks would say) at work confessed to being anal virgins and I was persistent in demanding to be the one to do it, it took ages but I got there in the end. I generally find that if a woman isn't into it already, once you have persuaded them they tend to want it frequently.
I remember visiting a well known main street parlour years ago not far from Old Trafford.
There was a very well known mature SP working there, who would also do 4 handed with a transvestite.
Perhaps someone can remember her name.
Anyway, it was only a half hour appointment, so it wasn't long before the Johnny was applied and Percy was rammed into the hole.
I'd been really banging away for a while, but I was finding it difficult to climax with the condom and loose orifice, so I politely asked if we could try anal.
'You're already in my arse' was her reply.
At the time that really surprised me, as I'm quite well endowed. There'd been no lubricant, and previous experiences with anal had always required a gentle approach and plenty of lubricant.
With her obvious experience, she quickly rescued the situation by yanking off the condom, and asking if I wanted her to spit or swallow.
There's definitely something special when the lady sucks you off, maintaining eye contact, then swallows it down with a nice smile