Have you encouraged your partner to join you 🤔

[Little Joe]

As in the title really. Do you have a story to tell about either successfully or unsuccessfully attempting to sell the idea of your partner joining you for an FS or FBSM visit.
Maybe you are trying right now !! (I’m sure this has been raised before but I couldn’t find where)

[SpaceRaiderDave]

As in the title really. Do you have a story to tell about either successfully or unsuccessfully attempting to sell the idea of your partner joining you for an FS or FBSM visit.
Maybe you are trying right now !! (I’m sure this has been raised before but I couldn’t find where)

The way the title is worded is more akin to swinging than punting which is an off topic subject.

More likely is. Have you ever persuaded your partner to allow a provider to join you?

[tynetunnel]

The very idea is horrific! I have no desire to be intimate with ‘her indoors’ which is why I punt. If I were to suggest we invite a WG to join us, it would be an instant trip down Divorce Alley for me.... 

[scutty brown]

As in the title really. Do you have a story to tell about either successfully or unsuccessfully attempting to sell the idea of your partner joining you for an FS or FBSM visit.
Maybe you are trying right now !! (I’m sure this has been raised before but I couldn’t find where)

How about you go first and tell your tales of punting with your partner?
Or even do the simple stuff first like write a review?

[SamOmar]

As in the title really. Do you have a story to tell about either successfully or unsuccessfully attempting to sell the idea of your partner joining you for an FS or FBSM visit.
Maybe you are trying right now !! (I’m sure this has been raised before but I couldn’t find where)

Use your common sense , this does not happen unless the couple involved are not really a serious couple.

There has been a string of immature posts from new members and you guys are making other new members who are genuine get given a bad name. Lay of the porn and be more realistic with your fantasies.

[Billy no mates]

Use your common sense , this does not happen unless the couple involved are not really a serious couple.

I totally accept that it’s probably rare, however it does happen. My partner and myself have punted together, both full service and massage/HE. It’s rarer the last couple of years that my partner punts with me, but she does enjoy listening in to my punts when I have an outcall. We’ve been together close to 35 years, and have a grown up daughter, so one could say we are serious.

On your second point, about fantasists, you are bang on the money.

[Little Joe]

The way the title is worded is more akin to swinging than punting which is an off topic subject.

More likely is. Have you ever persuaded your partner to allow a provider to join you?

Well, there you go !

[Little Joe]

How about you go first and tell your tales of punting with your partner?
Or even do the simple stuff first like write a review?

Ok, so I’ve been a member for how long and not yet done a review.....to satisfy your need for a review within five mins of joining I could magic one up from the past if that’s what you want other than that am I misunderstanding that the purpose of the forum is to encourage exchange of views rather than troll for the sake of something better to do.
As a seasoned contributor It would be good for you to approach this from the angle of making members welcome....just an idea.

Ok, so I was not aware that one simply could not ask a question so if you want more flesh.... the question was asked as I. Ours see me having a good time with the misses in a massage parlour if I could get round to asking the question. Nothing more sinister than that really.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Ok, so I’ve been a member for how long and not yet done a review.....to you satisfy your need I could magic one up from the past if that’s what you want other than that am I misunderstanding that the purpose of the forum is to encourage exchange of views rather than troll.
Why not approach this from the angle of making members welcome....just an idea.

....or maybe as a new member you could be less agressive and sarcastic with your reaction to feedback

[tesla]

Ok, so I’ve been a member for how long and not yet done a review.....to you satisfy your need I could magic one up from the past if that’s what you want other than that am I misunderstanding that the purpose of the forum is to encourage exchange of views rather than troll.
Why not approach this from the angle of making members welcome....just an idea.

The forum is contribution based, so if you punt? then as a new member you are able to review anyone you have seen in the pervious 12 months.
A lack of contribution i.e. useful information and reviews will not encourage other members to help you when you eventually ask a question or for a recommendation

[Little Joe]

....or maybe as a new member you could be less agressive and sarcastic with your reaction to feedback

Ok I am big enough to take onboard what you say, maybe you could reciprocate

[Little Joe]

White flag waved guys.
My opening post was nothing more than a new members well meant contribution to the forum. I obviously have not got it right so I will put my crash helmet on and keep my head down........please feel free to remove the thread if that helps

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[tesla]

Ok I am big enough to take onboard what you say, maybe you could reciprocate

why ?, he is not the one being aggressive

[daviemac]

Ok, so I’ve been a member for how long and not yet done a review.....to satisfy your need for a review within five mins of joining I could magic one up from the past if that’s what you want other than that am I misunderstanding that the purpose of the forum is to encourage exchange of views rather than troll for the sake of something better to do.
As a seasoned contributor It would be good for you to approach this from the angle of making members welcome....just an idea.

Ok, so I was not aware that one simply could not ask a question so if you want more flesh.... the question was asked as I. Ours see me having a good time with the misses in a massage parlour if I could get round to asking the question. Nothing more sinister than that really.

Hang on a second, you have started this thread and you want other people to relay details of their sexual encounters with their partners but get aggressive when asked politely to post your's first, not the way it works mate.

New members are made welcome, well those that don't get stroppy and throw their toys out the pram at the slightest thing are anyway.

[scutty brown]

Ok, so I’ve been a member for how long and not yet done a review.....to satisfy your need for a review within five mins of joining I could magic one up from the past if that’s what you want other than that am I misunderstanding that the purpose of the forum is to encourage exchange of views rather than troll for the sake of something better to do.
As a seasoned contributor It would be good for you to approach this from the angle of making members welcome....just an idea.

Ok, so I was not aware that one simply could not ask a question so if you want more flesh.... the question was asked as I. Ours see me having a good time with the misses in a massage parlour if I could get round to asking the question. Nothing more sinister than that really.

Newbies who ask questions like yours often prove to be journalists after an expose, or  mumsnetters stirring the shit.
Hence the welcome.

[Richthescouser]

Use your common sense , this does not happen unless the couple involved are not really a serious couple.

There has been a string of immature posts from new members and you guys are making other new members who are genuine get given a bad name. Lay of the porn and be more realistic with your fantasies.

Married for 10 years through thick and thin thanks, and we punt as a couple on occasion. Sometimes I punt solo and she enjoys hearing about it.

[Little Joe]

Hang on a second, you have started this thread and you want other people to relay details of their sexual encounters with their partners but get aggressive when asked politely to post your's first, not the way it works mate.

New members are made welcome, well those that don't get stroppy and throw their toys out the pram at the slightest thing are anyway.

Ok, accept what the gaffer says..would be stupid not to.

 If no review after just a couple of weeks membership is an issue for established members to accept then maybe the need to post a review before asking any questions could be made a prerequisite for new guys to adhere to and so avoid potentially irritation towards the establishment.
I’ll not post again until I do post a review either historic or otherwise. Cheers

[scutty brown]

Ok, accept what the gaffer says..would be stupid not to.

 If no review after just a couple of weeks membership is an issue for established members to accept then maybe the need to post a review before asking any questions could be made a prerequisite for new guys to adhere to and so avoid potentially irritation towards the establishment.
I’ll not post again until I do post a review either historic or otherwise. Cheers

It isn't a prerequisite, but it is a good way to establish your bona fides

However the antagonism toward you is simply due to the effrontery of you demanding people divulge their secrets and history to you without you making any prior contribution whatsoever. The nature of the question is the problem, made worse by your antagonistic reaction to the response. You need to go away and rethink what you want from this forum, and what its about.
That's assuming Daviemac allows you the time

[Thephoenix]

As in the title really. Do you have a story to tell about either successfully or unsuccessfully attempting to sell the idea of your partner joining you for an FS or FBSM visit.
Maybe you are trying right now !! (I’m sure this has been raised before but I couldn’t find where)

There's a couple in NW that provide FBSM for other couples, so it obviously happens.

I've no real reason to doubt the authenticity of your question.

Unfortunately, as there's a few of the new members appearing to indulge in fantasies,  it's not unusual to be judged harshly by some of the more judgmental amongst us.

Don't be put off. Put it down to experience. Get a few reviews in, then once your ink's dry, reintroduce the topic. It might be viewed more seriously.🤔

[myothernameis]

As in the title really. Do you have a story to tell about either successfully or unsuccessfully attempting to sell the idea of your partner joining you for an FS or FBSM visit.
Maybe you are trying right now !! (I’m sure this has been raised before but I couldn’t find where)

Well if your going to ask this question, have you asked your wife to join i  with you, when seeing the escort

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Ok, accept what the gaffer says..would be stupid not to.

 If no review after just a couple of weeks membership is an issue for established members to accept then maybe the need to post a review before asking any questions could be made a prerequisite for new guys to adhere to and so avoid potentially irritation towards the establishment.
I’ll not post again until I do post a review either historic or otherwise. Cheers

Being passive agressive isn't a good tactic either. I hope you do what Scutty says and while away have a rethink and become a useful contributor in the future

[daviemac]

Ok, accept what the gaffer says..would be stupid not to.

 If no review after just a couple of weeks membership is an issue for established members to accept then maybe the need to post a review before asking any questions could be made a prerequisite for new guys to adhere to and so avoid potentially irritation towards the establishment.
I’ll not post again until I do post a review either historic or otherwise. Cheers

You're missing the point by ignoring the first line of Scutty's post "How about you go first and tell your tales of punting with your partner?" that is a suggestion that you start the ball rolling on the thread you have started and post about you experiences.

The review comment suggested another way of doing it.

Nothing can get away from the fact you have started a thread asking about other people's sexual exploits then spat your dummy out when asked to go first.

Experience tells me people with an attitude like your's don't last long here.