Author Topic: Strangest encounter. Was it my fault?  (Read 4443 times)

Offline llanfair571

Not sure whether here was the right place or in the review section.

WG seemed ok at first. Buzzer doesn't work, told to ring mobile at the door, did so, no answer or so I thought, I ended the call as I didn't hear anything, no hello nothing, usually when I get this I assume the WG is busy, phone is off or seeing some one else so I immediately went to a side road to try again instead of standing outside the place staring at my phone as I think it looks suspicious.

Almost immediately after that call I get "why do that, thats weird" followed by another call from the WG telling me how much of a creep I am and that I should have tried again. After I was allowed to explain myself after her rant, the WG started telling me how much good feedback they had and all their achievements in the sex industry and I just hung up as she sounded like she was about to cry, there was no getting through to her. The following screenshots tell the story really.

Was I at fault? Threatened to also out my number to other girls.

After 10 minutes or so I called back and she was calmer she eventually let me explain myself and seemed a bit more reasonable but it seemed like such an extreme overreaction

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I would have told her to fuck off. You had an appointment, she didn't respond when you arrived, so you walked. End of story.
If she expects an apology she's deluded.
Post her ID so we can convert this into a negative review

FWIW NEVER stand around outside a whorehouse with a phone to your ear. Makes you an instant target for neighbours with a grudge, or local lads after easy money. You stand out like a sore thumb.
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And something to remember - when a girl gives you a house number but tells you to phone, not ring the bell, its usually because you've been given the wrong number. They'll be next door or across the road checking you out before answering the phone.
Means they're either hiding from police/immigration or they're racially screening

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Seems like you might have dodged a bullet.

I do wonder as well if I'm in the wrong sometimes as I'm not arrogant enough to think I'm always in the right.
In this situation though she seems like a whole lot of worl and maybe a bit too much on the crazy scale

Offline jesse4585

I'd not say this was your fault. But there's one thing you could have done better.

When you dial a number & it stops ringing,  the polite thing to do is to assume it's been answered,  even if you don't hear a hello  (maybe there was a brief signal dip or whatever.)  So before hanging up,  one say's  'hello?   ....  hello?...'.

As it sounds like you didn't do this, it's understandable that the WG flew of the handle a bit - some of them are the type that gets easily stressed even before they go into sex work. And according to some reports, more than half the men who make contact turn out to be timewasters at best, or genuine creeps at worst.

Personally I'd think a -ve would be harsh, maybe a neutral to warn other punters that she has the potential to be difficult.

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Personally I'd think a -ve would be harsh, maybe a neutral to warn other punters that she has the potential to be difficult.

negative all the way, she threatened to post his number etc

Offline latecomer

llanfair, please identify the WG.  IMO this merits a Negative review.

Offline Blackpool Rock

Need to know who the girl is, sounds like a Negative to me.  :thumbsdown:

Offline NelsonH

My rule is that if ANYTHING out of the ordinary happens then I go home.  This is because if you press on regardless, it usually does not go well.

One time I broke this rule and the negative review is on here.

I'm looking for a stable, organised professional not a drug-crazy, disorganised, basket case.

A proper girl will know the usual custom and practice and make it go smoothly.

Offline Drayki

Name and shame her 100% And a big fat red for trying to fuck you over   :bomb:

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One thing you did wrong is you continued to engage her on text. After the third reply I would block and wouldn't respond.

Sounds like she is angry because she has mentally spent your money. Drink or drugs?

Offline Blackpool Rock

And something to remember - when a girl gives you a house number but tells you to phone, not ring the bell, its usually because you've been given the wrong number. They'll be next door or across the road checking you out before answering the phone.
Means they're either hiding from police/immigration or they're racially screening
Yeah I had this from a Romanian once though I got sent to a house number that didn't exist, I don't like hanging around like a spare part as I feel exposed and vulnerable like i'm being set up to be mugged.
I did think the next time I get sent to number 6 then number 23 then number 17 then i'll just walk.

I'm interested to know if the girl in question is perhaps young or new to the game so possibly a bit skittish but we need the link to see   

Offline Grandslam

Am I the only puzzled by the "here's my dog" comment?

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Am I the only puzzled by the "here's my dog" comment?
The implication is she will set the dog on him if he comes round again.

Offline Hobbit

Just fuck them and leave them. Don't hang around waiting. Tell her to fuck off and move on to the next girl. You have plenty of choices. :hi:

Offline Hobbit

The implication is she will set the dog on him if he comes round again.

Maybe "Dog" means pimp?  :D :lol:

Offline Moby Dick

He who dares wins....if only you said “Hello”

Hello, is it me you're looking for?
'Cause I wonder where you are
And I wonder what you do
Are you somewhere feeling lonely, or is someone loving you?
Tell me how to win your heart
For I haven't got a clue
But let me start by saying I love you

Now here’s £150 to fuck ya arse and cum on ya face :sarcastic:

Offline meptalon

And something to remember - when a girl gives you a house number but tells you to phone, not ring the bell, its usually because you've been given the wrong number. They'll be next door or across the road checking you out before answering the phone.
Means they're either hiding from police/immigration or they're racially screening

Or they're just being cautious. In case you hadn't seen that, gangs have been around attacking SPs. In my book, there is nothing wrong being a little bit patient. Also, please Op see nothing wrong towards you, but calling and not even try saying "hello? can you hear me?" or something along those lines is indeed a bit weird and creepy. Calling a second time shouldn't be that much of a hassle.

Just try for a second to walk in their shoes and imagine you receive strangers in your own place (sometimes even house). Wouldn't you be cautious?

Offline meptalon

He who dares wins....if only you said “Hello”

Hello, is it me you're looking for?
'Cause I wonder where you are
And I wonder what you do
Are you somewhere feeling lonely, or is someone loving you?
Tell me how to win your heart
For I haven't got a clue
But let me start by saying I love you

Now here’s £150 to fuck ya arse and cum on ya face :sarcastic:

Hehe... next time I call and don't hear back the answer or get a voicemail, I'll definitely try to leave that message (without the last one maybe) :)

Offline getsbettereverytime

She sounds like a right pain in the arse what’s the aw number?

I had something similar twice both with U.K. girls.
The first one was really silly, she never gave me the full address just something like Travel lodge Kings cross, I got delayed on the train and let her know in advance then when I got there could not find the place and her directions we’re uselss about being next to tesco, it turns out there was two travel lodges and 3 Tesco’s all within 5 mins walk and I was in the wrong place.
Anyway then she went mental saying I was a time waster and was going to put my number out on some WhatsApp group. Waste of a one hour trip each way for me but probably dodged a bullet with that loony.
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Offline llanfair571

We did speak again after the first call, I could barely get a word in because she was labelling me a creep without really letting me explain. She already made her mind up. And as you can see there was only about a minute between the first call and her first text calling me a creep, didn't give me a chance at all.

She even says "oh right" after i text her saying i didnt think the call went through but she still was upset.

I do want to post her aw link so people are aware, i am worried she will see and out me

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I do want to post her aw link so people are aware, i am worried she will see and out me

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Not worth it for the aggro and also why you need a punt phone then it’s nothing to bother about.

Offline Grandslam

The implication is she will set the dog on him if he comes round again.

I guess, which is the emptiest of threats. Would be interested to see the pooch...

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I do want to post her aw link so people are aware, i am worried she will see and out me


She can identify you from the messages you've posted so its a bit late for that  :unknown:

Offline meptalon


I do want to post her aw link so people are aware, i am worried she will see and out me

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Not worth it for the aggro and also why you need a punt phone then it’s nothing to bother about.

At the same time, trying to call her again and again if she doesn't want it is making you kind of a creep. You were obviously both not satisfied with the exchange, so why not leave it at that, write your review and simply move on and let her be? I'm not sure what you are trying to achieve by harassing her over the phone...

Offline Gordon Bennett

Well you obviously wanted to see her.... You'd chosen her, booked her and travelled to her then let it all fall apart for the sake of a few seconds of misunderstanding and crossed wires. I don't really understand why you silent called her and failed to say hello, hello, can you hear me? Her subsequent reaction is somewhat OTT but silent calls do come across as menacing to ladies. I'd just put it down to experience and take comfort from fact you avoided meeting a hothead fruitcake with a mutt in the gaff.

Offline hillingdonpete


I do want to post her aw link so people are aware, i am worried she will see and out me



Post the link you plonker.
Otherwise you are just wasting our time as well.

Offline millbush

Post the link you plonker.
Otherwise you are just wasting our time as well.

Calling someone a plonker bound to work that.
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Offline BoroPool

Post a review that's what the review section is for. This is shocking of the wg

Offline finn5555


I do want to post her aw link so people are aware, i am worried she will see and out me


You need to grow a pair  :rolleyes:

Offline sensualencounter

I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong. She sounds unhinged, berating you like that. I appreciate wgs need to be cautious but she sounds mental. You need to review this and link her. And a definite negative for all the abuse she gave you.

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Offline Drayki

Number i used no longer in use so i dont care

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Fair play to you OP for naming her finally  :dash

She’s not exactly a looker  :thumbsdown: not my cup of tea anyway  :lol: