Quest Swingers Club Leeds

[Coopert]

 If anyone has been along to any of their events (including T-girls events) as a single male, would be interested to know what you think

[bigjohn1987]

sorry bro no

[Simmo87]

I've been to Isis Quest before the name and location change with the ex-misses over 20 times.

From my experience I would say the following.

1, If your a single bloke wanting a shag pay for an escort it will work out cheaper, unless you look like Tom Hardy then your in with a 50/50 chance. Friday and Saturday nights were always full off single blokes nursing a semi on the chance they might get some action, most couples are happy for you to watch and wank and thats it.

2, It was a bit clickly, so unless you had been there over a dozen times and people started to reconise you as a regular you got nowhere. Even more so for single lads.

3, A few couples tend to be up there own arse, about there own self importance and how attractive they are, and only go there so they can say they are swingers. But equaly just as many couples go there to enjoy the liberated atmosphere.

4, Themed nights tend to be very hit and miss, so unless you know people are turning up there could only be you and the staff and a single bloke nursing a semi.

So for the best results, go there regular with a misses that is game for most stuff and you will figure out what works best the pair of you. If you single, you just join the pack of 10 single blokes nurseing a semi hoping for there lucky day.

[cumtoplay]

Consider taking an escort it might open a few more opportunities to join in as well as a guaranteed shag

[dreamwrx]

Consider taking an escort it might open a few more opportunities to join in as well as a guaranteed shag

+1 absolutely great advice.

Simmo87 your post is also bang-on .. I've been to a fair few clubs like this myself, and if you're a single fella it's easy enough to chat up a few couples on one of the swinging websites before arranging to meet them at a club like Quest, or Xtasia in West Brom, or any of the dozens of others around the UK.

Best of all, if you can hook up with a decent-looking bisexual single girl, hit the clubs and you'll literally have fanny thrown at you .. I did this for several years with a couple of different girls, and it was rock & roll all the way. BUT I personally prefer the more private meets where you get together at somebody's home.

To bring it more back into UK Punting territory however, cumtoplay is right .. if you find a reliable, attractive SP which you get along with, pay her a bit extra one day and take her to a Club .. prepare to have your mind blown lol.

[Midori]

I've been to Isis Quest before the name and location change with the ex-misses over 20 times.

From my experience I would say the following.

1, If your a single bloke wanting a shag pay for an escort it will work out cheaper, unless you look like Tom Hardy then your in with a 50/50 chance. Friday and Saturday nights were always full off single blokes nursing a semi on the chance they might get some action, most couples are happy for you to watch and wank and thats it.

2, It was a bit clickly, so unless you had been there over a dozen times and people started to reconise you as a regular you got nowhere. Even more so for single lads.

3, A few couples tend to be up there own arse, about there own self importance and how attractive they are, and only go there so they can say they are swingers. But equaly just as many couples go there to enjoy the liberated atmosphere.

4, Themed nights tend to be very hit and miss, so unless you know people are turning up there could only be you and the staff and a single bloke nursing a semi.

So for the best results, go there regular with a misses that is game for most stuff and you will figure out what works best the pair of you. If you single, you just join the pack of 10 single blokes nurseing a semi hoping for there lucky day.

From a females point of view, Id second this.

Also, single men really underestimate the importance of having a personality. Most of the shagging legwork is done in the bar area and not the playrooms. If you can't chat a woman up normally, you are going to have no better luck in a swingers club. Women there are not being paid to entertain you and there are less of them then there are men, so you need to charm your way in.

Secondly, if you get to play and you intend to do it more often, don't be a selfish lover. I know a couple of average looking men on the swinging scene that can always find a playmate because they have a reputation of being considerate in the sack.

Also, if you are on fab swingers, connect with people on there who say they are going to Quest and don't let the first picture they see of you be of your dick. Honestly, not many people want to actually see that.

[Coopert]

Thanks for the advice all.

Anyone been to a T-girl event there ?

[Simmo87]

Thanks for the advice all.

Anyone been to a T-girl event there ?

Not been to T-girl event but I would say there would be a 50/50 chance of one showing up on on a normal busy night.

[Simmo87]

From a females point of view, Id second this.

Also, single men really underestimate the importance of having a personality. Most of the shagging legwork is done in the bar area and not the playrooms. If you can't chat a woman up normally, you are going to have no better luck in a swingers club. Women there are not being paid to entertain you and there are less of them then there are men, so you need to charm your way in.

Secondly, if you get to play and you intend to do it more often, don't be a selfish lover. I know a couple of average looking men on the swinging scene that can always find a playmate because they have a reputation of being considerate in the sack.

forgot to add

5, if you get lucky with a single girl, dont follow her round like a love sick puppy (I have seen this!!) shes not there for dating and her plan for the night might be to fuck 1,2 or 3 random stangers. so you might be cock blocking her. If she thinks your not a knobhead  chances are you will get recomended to the girls/couples she knows. Been a regular and not a complete and utter goon goes a longway

6, People can be very tactile at clubs, so if your in the slightest bit uncomfortable been touched by someone of the same sex dont bother going. For example Ive been hit in the face by some blokes cock in the playrooms mid action, and also had some hubbys spunk hit my foot.

7, Dont point or judge use the YKINMKBYKIOK rule, if your uncomtable move away from it. Aslong as its safe, sane and consensual, its none of your business.

[Kentucky]

I went to the old venue about 2 years ago. Few guys wanking to porn in the cinema room and a really overweight women being orally satisfied by 2 old men. After about an hour a couple came in and ended up in the sauna. Women sucked me and another bloke off and then ended up with 5 guys in a playroom for a gangbang. Never been back but ticked off the old bucket list