Coming out of retirement

[jammy273]

Given the popularity of the "Girls you would love back working" thread I was wondering whether going back was ever a good idea. I seem to remember someone on the other site getting ripped apart for suggesting a WG retirement wouldn't stick so I'm guessing we have seen ladies return a few times over the years.

Personally I've seen  a few AW profiles return, sometimes stating they used to be such and such or just accounts I recognised starting afresh. Always seemed a red flag to me unless they had their accounts terminated for breaking terms of service but even then. Are they hiding from negative feedback etc?

Then there is the question of why come back. Obviously it is a fantasy to suggest that all girls love their job and aren't in it for the money but is there a risk that a girl dragged back into may be more sour or have other issues.

I guess the TL:DR of this is what experiences people have had in the past with previously retired WGs

[The Outsider]

*snip* Then there is the question of why come back. Obviously it is a fantasy to suggest that all girls love their job and aren't in it for the money but is there a risk that a girl dragged back into may be more sour or have other issues.

I guess the TL:DR of this is what experiences people have had in the past with previously retired WGs

They come back because they miss their favourite clients and all the great sex.  At least I've definitely read that on several "I'm back" adverts! 

It is true that some girls get into a cycle of retirement and comebacks, but others disappear forever, as the thread you mention proves. 

I've had some good times with girls after a really long gap, but read of one or two disasters on here.  I recently saw somebody who is "retired" and not advertising but is just as good as ever. 

[AnthG]

Then there is the question of why come back.

They say it all the time on their AW profiles; they came back as they missed the sex.

And then 'strange mind of punter', everyone reads that and goes, my god she hasn't had sex in the 6 months of being out of this job. I must fight to be her first booking and show her a great time.

It was me who said it on the other forum, as its one of those things that you notice so often that it feels true even if its not by the letter totally true.

The real reason they came back will be usually one of three reasons

1. They ran out of money, as whatever they retired to do, didn't fully pan out - new job that didn't last etc
2. They've broken up with their boyfriend that made them retire, or even had the baby forcing them to retire
3. They realize they were being overzealous in completely retiring and can fit the odd booking into their new schedule so come back with reduced hours.

To be honest. Of the three, the third one seems most appealing to me as this means they are coming back on their terms. Whereas the first and second seems to be a reluctant comeback.

[jammy273]

I was 90% sure it was you Anth but you get enough shit without me accidentally giving you other people's!

I'd agree that third option is probably the best

[Happyjose]

The one time I saw a past regular who returned for a short while it was a completely underwhelming experience. Little evidence of her past enthusiasm, and afterwards realised it's not worth exchanging coin for nostalgia

Same reason I wouldn't bother with 'last week before retiring' types

If there's no incentive to encourage repeat business the service is likely to be shite

[bigkstyle]

Was it Skylah Rhodes you're referring to about someone saying their retirement won't stick? I must say I predict she will be back before Christmas.

[captainblack1776]

They come back because they miss their favourite clients and all the great sex.  At least I've definitely read that on several "I'm back" adverts! 

It is true that some girls get into a cycle of retirement and comebacks, but others disappear forever, as the thread you mention proves. 

I've had some good times with girls after a really long gap, but read of one or two disasters on here.  I recently saw somebody who is "retired" and not advertising but is just as good as ever.

How did you manage that OS?
Did you PM her or did she just send out PM’s to some of her former regulars asking if they were interested?

[AnthG]

Was it Skylah Rhodes you're referring to about someone saying their retirement won't stick? I must say I predict she will be back before Christmas.

Well, me saying by the end of February 2019 caused one mass scale drama.

It was meant as a bit of flirty fun when I said it with an undercurrent of truth.

There are certain girls you just know when they retire its not permanent; Tori Taylor the same applies.

Its no offence to them, but when you have an adulwork positive feedback score of almost 800 you know you have this job in your veins.

That is not an insult to say that, unless people class a women doing this job as insulting?? I don't.

[The Outsider]

How did you manage that OS?
Did you PM her or did she just send out PM’s to some of her former regulars asking if they were interested?

She popped up somewhere and we had a conversation that lead to a booking.  I'll not mention her on here as she's not actively promoting herself but if I see anyone (trustworthy) asking about her. I'll maybe drop them a PM. 

[Sar-Major]

She popped up somewhere and we had a conversation that lead to a booking.  I'll not mention her on here as she's not actively promoting herself but if I see anyone (trustworthy) asking about her. I'll maybe drop them a PM.

Yes sounds familiar to my experience whilst shopping in the Metro Centre, bumped into an Ex WG had a coffee and got her number, had several bookings,    but when me "Punting Phone Phucked up" I lost her number.

Such is life. 

[AnthG]

but when me "Punting Phone Phucked up" I lost her number.

I have seen a lot of people say things like this.

I am really not sure why people risk it, and don't back it up, for me every important number I am given, I keep them listed in a notepad document on my PC (if you are worried about prying eyes, Rar the txt file with a password in it and give the rar file an innocuous name like XboxGames).

Or even have a punting email account and email it to yourself.

[Mansell]

Was it Skylah Rhodes you're referring to about someone saying their retirement won't stick? I must say I predict she will be back before Christmas.

Interestingly she is one who I wouldn't put money on that happening. I've never seen her but she comes across as a girl with a Plan and she was working a lot, so probably put whatever nest egg she was after away. If so good luck to her.

But I do agree with Anth's comments that it's more usually option 3 why they come back.

[bushman]

Made contact with one that "retired", she popped up on the other site(SA), she said she doesn't want to see a multitude of clients anymore and it seems I am lucky enough to be one of her chosen ones.

[oldrockingchair]

Well, me saying by the end of February 2019 caused one mass scale drama.

It was meant as a bit of flirty fun when I said it with an undercurrent of truth.

There are certain girls you just know when they retire its not permanent; Tori Taylor the same applies.

Its no offence to them, but when you have an adulwork positive feedback score of almost 800 you know you have this job in your veins.

That is not an insult to say that, unless people class a women doing this job as insulting?? I don't.

I guess for some its a way of life or it is life, others use it to get on in life, for example studying and using it to avoid student debt, also i would imagine some girls work full time but also use escorting as a wage booster and in my book theres nothing wrong with any of the above, if a girl chooses to retire and follow a life style change all well and good, I wish them well and if they do return to escorting I hope it is because they want to through choice and not because of necessity. 

[datwabbit]

Made contact with one that "retired", she popped up on the other site(SA), she said she doesn't want to see a multitude of clients anymore and it seems I am lucky enough to be one of her chosen ones.

Had you seen her as a client?
Did you say - are you still escorting?

[NigelF]

Was it Skylah Rhodes you're referring to about someone saying their retirement won't stick? I must say I predict she will be back before Christmas.

Well, me saying by the end of February 2019 caused one mass scale drama.

It was meant as a bit of flirty fun when I said it with an undercurrent of truth.

There are certain girls you just know when they retire its not permanent; Tori Taylor the same applies.

Its no offence to them, but when you have an adulwork positive feedback score of almost 800 you know you have this job in your veins.

That is not an insult to say that, unless people class a women doing this job as insulting?? I don't.

Interestingly she is one who I wouldn't put money on that happening. I've never seen her but she comes across as a girl with a Plan and she was working a lot, so probably put whatever nest egg she was after away. If so good luck to her.

But I do agree with Anth's comments that it's more usually option 3 why they come back.

My prediction is she'll find a happy middle ground and be like the small but not insignificant number of girls who don't advertise but still see some previous clients/regulars occasionally, e.g.

I recently saw somebody who is "retired" and not advertising but is just as good as ever.

Made contact with one that "retired", she popped up on the other site(SA), she said she doesn't want to see a multitude of clients anymore and it seems I am lucky enough to be one of her chosen ones.

My predication is based on what she said to me in person (very recently) and the fact that it's already pretty much written on her profile:
"After 17th September... I will offer appointments, this will be on an outcall basis, this will only be to certain Newcastle hotels and for clients I have met prior. Minimum booking length will be 2 hours."

[AnthG]

:"After 17th September... I will offer appointments, this will be on an outcall basis, this will only be to certain Newcastle hotels and for clients I have met prior. Minimum booking length will be 2 hours."

I wonder if anyone who dived on me, which was almost everyone, will go "Sorry Anthony, you were right".

I think I will be sitting here waiting a long time

[Mansell]

My prediction is she'll find a happy middle ground and be like the small but not insignificant number of girls who don't advertise but still see some previous clients/regulars occasionally, e.g.
My predication is based on what she said to me in person (very recently) and the fact that it's already pretty much written on her profile:
"After 17th September... I will offer appointments, this will be on an outcall basis, this will only be to certain Newcastle hotels and for clients I have met prior. Minimum booking length will be 2 hours."

Now you could well be right with that, but if so I'd bet that was her plan all along like others.

[Mansell]

I wonder if anyone who dived on me, which was almost everyone, will go "Sorry Anthony, you were right".

I think I will be sitting here waiting a long time

Haha, you sure will. But of course as I think has been said on this subject your only partly right. Some do stop and are never seen again. Others come back, not sure what the ratio is, possibly 30 % come back maybe a few more. But that's just a guess without doing any real research. Maybe the Proff could tell us?

[bushman]

Had you seen her as a client?
Did you say - are you still escorting?

Yes.
No.

[datwabbit]

Yes.
No.

That makes sense