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Offline Al1245

I only book 15 mins cos I cum really quick but just wanted to know what the best way to get more out of a booking. Wank an hour earlier. I tried to have a wank before a 15 min booking but the fucker wouldn’t get up again

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I've tried a little blue pill a couple of times and that worked. Had the advantage of being able to get it up again soon after shooting my first load - which is unusual for me..

Offline django0700

I only book 15 mins cos I cum really quick but just wanted to know what the best way to get more out of a booking. Wank an hour earlier. I tried to have a wank before a 15 min booking but the fucker wouldn’t get up again

Do a 15 minute P+D, take a break and relax before your next booking (another girl is my preferred choice) and you should last longer...

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Of course it depends what you want out of a booking/what you enjoy. If D&P is your thing then maybe the advice above is right.

But if you enjoy a slow sensual build up, try a longer booking with a GFE provider. One who is good at reading the signs and getting you close but not over the top. A good, slow sensual build up (if done correctly) can be really good and enhances the final act of "cumming" - at least in my opinion (but we all have different likes and dislikes).

Offline Sunny

Watch Mantak Chia on Londonreal (youtube) he shows you these penis exercises and how to please any woman

Offline gbyld87

I only book 15 mins cos I cum really quick but just wanted to know what the best way to get more out of a booking. Wank an hour earlier. I tried to have a wank before a 15 min booking but the fucker wouldn’t get up again

Book an hour and cum twice.  You'll last ages on the second go which allows for a lot more experimentation ;)

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I only book 15 mins cos I cum really quick but just wanted to know what the best way to get more out of a booking. Wank an hour earlier. I tried to have a wank before a 15 min booking but the fucker wouldn’t get up again
Book a longer meet, 30mins to an hour, and explain to the girl you want an nice long edging session before crossing the final finishing line.  Simple. 
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Offline Jeremy

Book an hour and cum twice.  You'll last ages on the second go which allows for a lot more experimentation ;)
Exactly what I do. It's the best of both worlds; you don't have to worry about cumming too quick because you've time for (at least) one more. And you don't have to worry about taking too long because you've got ~45mins for the second pop.

Offline Tom1986

Wank before a 30 minute punt usually works for me, only problem is once you've knocked one out you lose interest in the punt.

Offline GingerNuts

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Wank before a 30 minute punt usually works for me, only problem is once you've knocked one out you lose interest in the punt.

A case of shooting yourself in the foot?

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I'd have said that's more shooting one into mid-air?

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you could try increasing the frequency of your punts, do one a day for a week and by the eight day you'll find you need to move up from 15 to 30 minutes just to come once.

Offline mradventures

i mistakenly used condom with delay lube in it. and because i dont feel much to start with, i stuck it in my hot girlfriend and had no feeling at all of being inside her. soo that was fun trying to explain my lack of feeling without being *that* guy.

think durex enhance might of been it.

Offline mradventures

"durex extended pleasure"
id suggest trying them with something before you go on a punt incase you end up effectively opening the window and fucking the night.

or atleast a cheap punt

Offline the_exile

you could try increasing the frequency of your punts, do one a day for a week and by the eight day you'll find you need to move up from 15 to 30 minutes just to come once.

A bit extreme but punting more often might help, stop you building it up in your mind so much

Offline Punterperson1971

i mistakenly used condom with delay lube in it. and because i dont feel much to start with, i stuck it in my hot girlfriend and had no feeling at all of being inside her. soo that was fun trying to explain my lack of feeling without being *that* guy.

think durex enhance might of been it.
Of course you did,then you woke up

Offline Hobbit

Just have a shot of Whisky beforehand, it will make your cock less sensitive and you'll last longer. But remember - With great power comes great responsibility, (as Spiderman said). So don't drink too much or you won't feel a thing.  :drinks:

Offline Colston36

All you have to do is wait till you get to my age and the first may take all the time in the world, whilst the possibility of a second is like a mirage in the desert. What is really weird is that the few occasions when I have not been able to squeeze one out have been when I have been exceptionally excited.

Offline sadolddeejay

How about distraction techniques to last longer? Examples are counting backwards from 100 (if that is too easy, count backwards from 100, subtracting seven each time i.e. 100, 93, 86, etc.) Or thinking of a distracting image like your mother-in-law or Ann Widdecombe.

I am in my 60's and find that premature ejaculation can be a problem now. What works for me is to take a Cialis two hours before, to ensure a quality erection, because for me a good quality erection, after a few minutes, makes me a little less sensitive - maybe something to do with the trapped blood. I might try a cock ring one day to test that.

What also works is when you feel yourself getting too near to cumming, stop all physical stimulation of your cock, and do other stuff instead, like RO on the girl, boob play, kissing, fingering (if permitted), massage even, until you've calmed down a tad. This in itself is a distraction technique as it focuses you on something other than your cock. If you find you're starting to lose your erection, give it a little fluff with some hand action.

I can't resist closing this post with an old joke: What's it called when all of a man's hair falls out in his 20's? Premature Kojakulation.

Offline Woodcutter

Pelvic floor exercises.

When you next go for a piss do that squeeze thing that stops the flow.

When you're not pissing ie any time during the day squeeze the same muscle & hold it for 3-5 seconds then release, do this 10 times & repeat in an hour.

You can do this whilst driving, at work, watching tv etc & if you can do this 5 or 6 times a day over a fortnight or so you'll tone the muscle down there.

It's a tantric method to enable men to have multiple orgasms.

When it's toned sufficiently & you have a couple of hours to yourself masturbate and at the point of ejaculation squeeze that muscle really hard & you'll orgasm without ejaculating, take deep steady breaths & concentrate on holding the muscle & mentally relaxing (but keep the squeeze on)after the orgasm subsides wait a few more seconds & slowly relax the muscle by slowly releasing the squeeze.

The first couple of times you'll probably ejaculate as soon as you relax, but try again in a couple of days, when you can orgasm without ejaculating you'll find you maintain the erection & can continue masturbating to another orgasm which will take longer to reach. Or you can just squeeze when you feel the vinegar stroke for a while relax have no orgasm but be able to continue for longer till orgasm/ejaculation.

This isn't a magic bullet however, as if you do it too often in one session you run the risk of losing all sensitivity & going limp without an orgasm at all especially when we get older & testostorene dips, probably best to experiment with an actual partner (if feasible) where you can do it with HR for a few sessions before moving to penetration over a few weeks than a one-off WG booking.

Anyway I digress, but pelvic exercises are the way to go & don't require medication, diet and general wellbeing is paramount  also.
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Offline mradventures

Of course you did,then you woke up

she was hot to me. but also a narcasist or something similar as i later found out to considerable heartbreak/emotional damage.

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Just have a shot of Whisky beforehand, it will make your cock less sensitive and you'll last longer. But remember - With great power comes great responsibility, (as Spiderman said). So don't drink too much or you won't feel a thing.  :drinks:

It doesn't work for Spider-man, when he's swinging in New York. He leaves a trail of white gooey stuff over everyone, he comes across.

Offline the_exile

Pelvic floor exercises.

+1

Definitely worth trying though can take a while before they start to have an effect. FWIW I have found that I get stronger erections as well as lasting longer.

Offline peter_bungee

Pelvic floor exercises.

When you next go for a piss do that squeeze thing that stops the flow.

When you're not pissing ie any time during the day squeeze the same muscle & hold it for 3-5 seconds then release, do this 10 times & repeat in an hour.

You can do this whilst driving, at work, watching tv etc & if you can do this 5 or 6 times a day over a fortnight or so you'll tone the muscle down there.

It's a tantric method to enable men to have multiple orgasms.

When it's toned sufficiently & you have a couple of hours to yourself masturbate and at the point of ejaculation squeeze that muscle really hard & you'll orgasm without ejaculating, take deep steady breaths & concentrate on holding the muscle & mentally relaxing (but keep the squeeze on)after the orgasm subsides wait a few more seconds & slowly relax the muscle by slowly releasing the squeeze.

The first couple of times you'll probably ejaculate as soon as you relax, but try again in a couple of days, when you can orgasm without ejaculating you'll find you maintain the erection & can continue masturbating to another orgasm which will take longer to reach. Or you can just squeeze when you feel the vinegar stroke for a while relax have no orgasm but be able to continue for longer till orgasm/ejaculation.

This isn't a magic bullet however, as if you do it too often in one session you run the risk of losing all sensitivity & going limp without an orgasm at all especially when we get older & testostorene dips, probably best to experiment with an actual partner (if feasible) where you can do it with HR for a few sessions before moving to penetration over a few weeks than a one-off WG booking.

Anyway I digress, but pelvic exercises are the way to go & don't require medication, diet and general wellbeing is paramount  also.

Isnt reverse kegels supposed to be more effective when you push out than in?

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Isnt reverse kegels supposed to be more effective when you push out than in?

Yes, would agree with that, they can help you keep control if you are not yet about to go over the edge. If you are close, a Kegel squeeze might bring on your orgasm you'd just have to keep squeezing and try to breathe deeply, see if you can keep most of the cum inside. I think both types of Kegel are useful when just trying to strengthen the muscle, try squeezing and then pushing out with a count of 10 for each.

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Reverse Kegals does work better when you want to last a bit longer by lowering the feeling to cum.
But you have to be careful you don't fart in bed with that hottie, or worst still force something out you really don't want out..
Makes a mess of the sheets.... :D

Offline dismister

I have the opposite problem - I can happily bone a girl for an hour or more without finishing.  In a way I envy those who can be in and out in 15 min; I'd save loads of cash that way.