Author Topic: To neg or not to neg?  (Read 801 times)

Offline Paulday

So made a booking on Friday with a girl in Bradford who’s been on my hotlist for a while now.
Messaged in the morning then rang about 1hour later and managed to speak to her.
Arranged to meet at 1pm and a messages pings up with a confirmation and post code after the short conversation.

5 minutes to 1 I say message from the postcode saying I think I’m on the correct street and give the street name..... expecting a yes and the house number.... no response.

I message again a few mins later saying I’m here and I’m your 1 o’clock meet... no response....

It gets to 20 past and I head home. No message since to explain.

So here is my dilemma. I’d like to meet her, all her reviews are positive. Do I try again and if it goes ahead do a review of the actual meet or post a neg for being stood up and possibly not meet her....

Offline Kool Keef

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If it was me I'd definitely post a negative, she's completely  wasted your time.
Needs naming & shaming imo

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So made a booking on Friday with a girl in Bradford who’s been on my hotlist for a while now.
Messaged in the morning then rang about 1hour later and managed to speak to her.
Arranged to meet at 1pm and a messages pings up with a confirmation and post code after the short conversation.

5 minutes to 1 I say message from the postcode saying I think I’m on the correct street and give the street name..... expecting a yes and the house number.... no response.

I message again a few mins later saying I’m here and I’m your 1 o’clock meet... no response....

It gets to 20 past and I head home. No message since to explain.

So here is my dilemma. I’d like to meet her, all her reviews are positive. Do I try again and if it goes ahead do a review of the actual meet or post a neg for being stood up and possibly not meet her....

Seems to me that you are REALLY keen to meet her MrP.

So.....why not try again ??

If it comes off you could review with caveats and explain your "journey" and if it doesn't then you red card her.  :hi: :hi:


Offline hornypunter

I would agree with waiting if you really want to see her before rating her. I know you messaged her but did you actually phone her as well to see if she was answering her phone. Hope you have a good visit and get answers if you do rebook.

Offline stevedave

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No message since to explain.

For me, that's the issue right there. Sure, everyone hates getting cancelled on but shit happens. A reasonable excuse and apology is absolutely nothing to ask for. If the lass had cancelled on me but apologised for x, y, z reasons then ok. But complete silence? Fuck that, manners don't cost anything.

Who is it OP?

Offline Scuderia Fan

I'd give her another go. Similar situations have happened to me more than once. Anyone remember a fit as fuck legend in Leeds called Ellie from around 15 years ago? Same shit happened twice with her.

But fooking hell was I glad I persisted and saw her becoming a regular. She is one of my all time favourites.

Offline PussyLover789

So made a booking on Friday with a girl in Bradford who’s been on my hotlist for a while now.
Messaged in the morning then rang about 1hour later and managed to speak to her.
Arranged to meet at 1pm and a messages pings up with a confirmation and post code after the short conversation.

5 minutes to 1 I say message from the postcode saying I think I’m on the correct street and give the street name..... expecting a yes and the house number.... no response.

I message again a few mins later saying I’m here and I’m your 1 o’clock meet... no response....

It gets to 20 past and I head home. No message since to explain.

So here is my dilemma. I’d like to meet her, all her reviews are positive. Do I try again and if it goes ahead do a review of the actual meet or post a neg for being stood up and possibly not meet her....
Was it Lexi Ryder by any chance?? apparently she pulls stunts like that

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Was it Lexi Ryder by any chance?? apparently she pulls stunts like that

Can't be,says all her reviews are positive.