First punt - did not cum.

[mrsivaji]

So I had my first punt today with Lola (Swedish girl in Glasgow).

As for the service, everything was relaxed and professional. She started off with a quick lap dance before letting me play with her, some minor DFK and then we got to work. She gave me a nice blow job and then we went on to try various different positions, with me going on top and vice versa. I initially booked a 30min session but extended it to an hour as things were progressing nicely.

However, even after the hour ended, although I was tired, I was still not able to explode or cum. Any idea why? We tried all sorts of positions, multiple blowjobs, DFK, lapdance, everything but I still couldn't burst.

It was easier for me to cum when I arrived home later on in the evening but with the escort it just didn't seem to work.

Anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do and does anyone know any good punts inside Glasgow that can do the job?

[vorian]

It was your first punt,  it happens,  relax and don't think about it too much will be easier next time.

[yorkshire123]

It happens to the best of us.

Have a read of this when i asked the question
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=28784.msg406743#msg406743

[elihd]

Relax and 2-3 days before your next punt dont watch porn/ masturbate this will get you really horny and up for it next time you see a girl with just her panty on. It worked with me when i started this hobbies about 3 years ago. 

[new_punter]

It happens, don't worry about it.

As said above, refrain from porn, etc for a good few days as that will make you more ready.

When you are punting just relax and enjoy.

[mrsivaji]

It happens, don't worry about it.

As said above, refrain from porn, etc for a good few days as that will make you more ready.

When you are punting just relax and enjoy.

Thanks. Il definitely take this advice aboard my next punt.

[Edinburgh punter]

I probably only cum about 20% of the time - and even then it takes brutal sore hand jobs.

It's the post punt wanks over the next few days that are great.

[Marmalade]

Thanks. Il definitely take this advice aboard my next punt.

Good advice from elihd. It's also a possibility (I think with some new punters, not all), that we are quite wired in to the female's response, whether we are giving her pleasure, and most of all the emotional ballast that makes the sex so exciting with a civvy or a girlfriend that we are fond of. Punting is mostly a bit different, concentrate on one's own pleasure, see it more like a gymnastic exercise or work-out maybe, or find prossies that give a sense of GFE so that an emotional bond is felt fro a short time (real or imagined). If you take any 'vitamins' note that several punters have reported that it has been harder to ejaculate with viagra, although the action of cialis is gentler, allows more spontaneity (because of the longer time for which it works) and better for some people. (This is quite apart from other drugs that can affect ejaculation response.)  'Feeling good' about yourself is probably more likely to increase ease of ejaculation in many cases. These are just some very general observations though, and might apply to some but also not apply to many people. Best maybe just to say "I don't always come" and enjoy the fact that you enjoyed it anyway!


If anyone wants to wade through the 'long words' they may enjoy this article:
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Here's a simpler one:
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But this is just 'back up' stuff. It's quite common not to be able to come occasionally so write it off as a one off unless it bugs you!