Yep to true, that's why I came off the site. Because they get so much attention it goes to there head. To much hard work. One time a meet up with the human equivalent of a sea cow, who expected to be wined and dined all evening. I thought fuck this i will just stick to WG's. My best encounters were with couples.
Your right on the attitude it should be totally different and don't be afraid to suggest kinky shit, she is not only up for it but enjoys it!